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Im 14 and just broke up wit mu bf. We broke up because i heard he told another girl he liked her and they where hanging out together. She asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. When i found this out i broke up with him and he told one of my friends he hated me, i took that very badly because i did nothin for him to feel that way but he said he said that because he was upset about the situation because i did not belive him and belived someone else. but i feel like i cant depend on him to tell me the truth becase he lies alot. so now we are not together and it is really hard to try to get over him because i lost my virginity to him and i love him still so much. He tells me he loves me too and is so sorry but i dont kno if it is the right thing to do if i get bac wit him i dont want him to think im easy so what should i do???
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Well, I think that before you jump back in a relationship with him, you need to know what exactly happened and you need the absolute truth out of him. I know you heard it from someone, but you never know if he could have kissed her and decided to leave the rumor as he just told her he liked her. But, I sure would be extremly upset if I had a boyfriend that told a girl he wasn't taken. So, you need to do some hard thinking and talking with him before you go back with him. And when you do get back together, don't have sex with him for a long while to see if he gets impatient or tries forcing you. You need to test him if he really does love you. Because, it sounds a little bit like he could be trying to get sex. He also needs to understand that if he lies a lot, then he cannot blame you for believing a rumor and for you to believe it. You definetly don't want to look easy, and you shouldn't be easy. You need to make it clear to him that you won't tolerate lying or telling a girl that hes single. I can't really see this relationship going on because of him lying and doing what he did. Hate is a strong word, especially if its a girlfriend you're talking about. I think you should try one more time since it has to be hard losing your virginity to someone and letting them go suddenly. But, I hope you don't let him step all over you.
-TheTeenGirl
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tell him that he obviously is attracted to other girls and that he doesnt love you because he lied to a girl that he was single so maybe he wanted to be. and dont play easy to get because then he will think he can be with other girls and you will forgive him everytime. good luck
REALLY GOOD LUCK
Micki
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you should say you have to take a break. sort out all your details.
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