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im the jelous type and my bf and i got mad at this one girl for the same reasons and we both used to be best friends with her, but now hes not really mad at her. he says hes just happy to ignore her. but i have a feeling that they're going to be friends again because they go to the same school and i dont. i trust him...but also i think im going to lose him. he told me he checks out other girls and all and then he wonders why i think im going to lose him. i love him so much and i just cant help being jelous, but i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not. (link)
You should tell him how you feel when he checks out and flirts with other girls and you're fears of losing him to those other girls


I have been talkin to my best friends ex boyfriend a lot lately. and i think i like him. when we were talkin online he asked for my email address and eh emailed me a picture of himself. (hes cute too!) well when i was tlakin to my friend she was like "you don't liek him do you cuz that is a nono!" and i told ehr i didn't because i ddn twant her to get mead. but i really do like this kid any idea what i shoudl do??? I'll rate if your answer helps at all!! (link)
i think you should talk to you're friend and tell her that you might be crushing on this boy and if she gets really pissed you haveta ask yourself if he's worth it and if he is you should ask the boy if he wants to start up a relationship with you!!


ok well theres this kid that i like, but i ahve gone out with him and it hasnt worked be4... but he seems to be like INLOVE with me.. and i only like him a lil bit. i dont really wanna go back out with him cuz i dont wanna ruin our very close friendship but i also dont want him to think he needs to impress me.. bcuz i was kinda hoping to move on... what do i do?! and how do i move on :/ HELP PLEASEEE!!! (link)
I think you should tell him that you like him also but you dont wanna wreck you're friendship by having a relationship and tell him that it would be better if he tried to keep his feelings about you inside


There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away? (link)
I think it all depends on how strong you're feelings are..if you are totally in love with him you should stay seeing him but if you're parents are really that concerned u shud talk to them about you're relationship with him and see if they'd approve after they kno more about it


im movin to boston, and wat r ways to meet girls and guys. im in some activities, but those r mostly guy things like football and lacrosse. how can i meet some girls? (link)
well first off it depends where you're moving in mass(best state ever by the way) and how old are you..if you wanna meet ppl and ur in highschool join school clubs or i noticed i made a lot of friends by joining cross country or track


okay.. i love this guy.. hes perfect.. *like for me at least* hes the sweetest, hottest, funniest guy i know.. he makes me wanna be beautiful.. and well i dont really know if he likes me.. i mean we ALWAYS flirt and like yah.. so what should i do.. juss stand in the corner or tell him how i feel.. i mean i really do love him, hes perfect for me.. what is yer advice for me?
verry confused,
mwAhz1563 (link)
i think you should tell him you're feelings before it gets too late


all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ?? (link)
i think you should wait for him to be ready to tell u about it instead of pressuring him into telling you


hey hun..nice job on ur site nd ur advice is great!well i got bored so i decided to write to you so here it is! lylnl bffexox_adela_xox (link)
hola smella ty u do FABULOUS on urs too!!


Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing (link)
i think you're boyfriend is really scared about losing you


i have this friend who i only like as a friend, but he likes me more than a friend. how can i tell him that i only want to be friends without making him mad?


confused wierdo (link)
tell him that you do not want to wreck the friendship you guys have by dating


just broke up with my boyfriend
any advice on how to help me get over this? im still atached to him. :(

signed,
sweetheart00 (link)
There really is no way to get over him..i suggest a lot of ice cream and movies and a big teddy bear who you can cry with..and in time you'll get over it..or you should grab a bunch of girl friends and go out to the movies or shopping to get ur mind off of him


ive never made out or even kissed a guy and my first time might be coming up soon.wat do i do, do i use tounge, if so how much? (link)
wen i had my first kiss i was totally scared just like you..so wen we started kissing i let him use tounge first and i wouldn't give too much just incase cuz he might get freaked


how long should u wait to french when u already stared regular kissing (link)
well..i started regulary kissing my bf after 2 days and then we made out about a week later..i think you should give it a week or so after regulary kissing


hey chickz so ive been so-called "dating" a guy for like 3 weeks, and iv liked him for about 10 months... i used to think he was soooo hott and i was dying 2 get with him, but he had a girl.. so they broke up like 4 months ago, and then he asked me out 2 months later.. after 2 weeks he broke up w/me cuz he still wasnt "completely over his ex, and not ready for a relationship yet" he sed he still wanted 2 be with me later tho.. then i told him 2 make sure hes completely over her.. he asked me out again just 2 weeks later, and told me he'd liked me since september when we met.. well he had a g/f from july thru like march, so he liked me while he had his last serious g/f... so that makes me wonder.. is he gonna like other ppl while we*re goin out? that really bugz me.. should i keep goin out with him? i know 2 follow my heart, but my heart is confused right now (link)
if you like him you should stay with him..it might have been a one time thing for him and he might really like you..so you should stay with him


guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
You should ask him the truth about what happened..and i am sure that if he respects you he tell you the truth about what happens..and for the people that are saying the stuff like "girl what are you thinking" dont listen..you can make you're own dissions about who you date and dont date..


i have a ? for anyone who is willing to help me out! i was with this kid eric for a month n i really likeed him alot but he thoguth i cheatedd on him but i didnt n i broek up wit him to sort out my family n guy problems n then i went out wit this kid ian n now me n ian arent goin out n now i like eric again actually i never stopped liken him n i want him back but i dont think he trust me b/c wen we broek up people siad i cheated on him but i didnt and now he doesnt trust me n this girl aktie likes him n he likes her n i told her that if they hooked up id be happy bc i cant do nething bout it n i said goodluck but she better not hurt him . im reaslly upset tho and i want him abck but i dunno if he likes me! plz help tell me wat i should do ill rate you! ill give u a 5 n comment plz help! (link)
I think that you should tell that girl the truth about how you feel about her dating him..and you should tell him that you did not cheat on him and you wouldn't do anything that would ever hurt him..i hope i helped



-- well this guy i like is really sweet! he makes me laugh and its as if i fell in love w/ him in less than a month! but he is going off 2 college and he found out that he might be having a baby!? he broke up w/ me bc of it and im really mad! i guess im just bein selfish! bc tha babi should come first!..let me know wat i should do? and it i should try and help him out or just give him space? (link)
I think that you should try and help him if he is having a baby..and show him that you love him..also you are not being selfish because he is the man u love


im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too. (link)
I think you should casually ask this kid if he wants to try going out to like the movies or something out of the party situation and see how he asks around you..and if it turns out well u should bring up that you want to be more than friends with him and see how he responds to you about that




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