hey my name is Sam and im just ur typical teenage girl struggling with boys, friends, school, family, and the drama of high school. dont be shy to leave on in the inbox ill answer just about anything :)
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hey guys well my Best friend moved away a little less than a year ago and we talked every day.. until a couple weeks ago we started drifting away and its sad its like she doesnt care any more. soo im looking for some quotes that are like about best friends who drift away and its sad and you miss them or something so if you have any thank you.. (link)
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try going to wittyprofiles.com under friendship, they have a good selection
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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!! (link)
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just tell him that hes way too touchy feely with you...especially since its in public. if he doesnt respect then dont bother with him. you dont want to get a bad reputation
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Hey, my name is mike. I have a really big problem. My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. We have broken up so many times but then gotten back together. It is getting to the point where i cant be without her. I just know that no one could make me feel the way she does. I just feel like sometimes i have a bad way of showing it. Any ideas?
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you have a wonderful way of showing it and she feels the same way about you, trust me ♥ ;]
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ok so i spilled snaple on my ipod and i have some more questions...i am getting a werid message about the fire wire conncetion and how it is not supported...does that connect with the spill? and also now my comp will not let me download songs because it does not recidnize the ipod.HAVE I TOTALLY RUINED MY NEW IPOD? plz help me! (link)
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its obviously broken so you should go to an apple store and see if they can fix it asap. if you have a warranty you can prob get a new one
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps (link)
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just say .. hey i really like you and i heard you like me too is this true? if he says yes then just say... wow that makes me happy =] will you go out with me?
simple as that theres nothing to worry about, the worst he can do is say no. goodluck!
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What is the best way to go about piercing your own ears? (link)
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d0nt! they can easily get infected if you do it urself cuz what your using may not be clean, and you obviously dont know what your doing if your asking how. just go get them done its a lot easier
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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aw yeah that would be so mean to break up with your bf on his birthday and then go after his best friend! you obviously dont like your bf very much if your flirting with his best friend and lying to him. and i dont think you should hang out with his best friend while ur going out with him cause its rong especially since he doesnt know. if you dont like your bf then yes you should dump him cause its not fair to him but dont do it on his birthday! and dont go after his best friend right away you should wate a little while atleast
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I really like this boy, but I dont know how to make him like me back! Any suggestions?! (link)
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be fLiRtY =] thats the best thing you can do. ask him to chill with a group of people or maybe just the two of you, and just drop hints that you like him. just dont be too clingy or annoying
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last night i had my first kiss. it was at my friends house. she had a LOT of people over. and so yeah, me and my friend made out for a couple of seconds.
today i regret it SO much. i wish i had never done it. i just turned 13! i guess i am too young and wasnt ready but i cant go back in time. what do i do? arent most happy when this happens? i dont want my mom and dad to find out. its hard to life with myself.....waht can i do? thank you (link)
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13 isnt too young to have your first kiss. you shouldnt worry about it its not really a big deal. but i guess since you werent happy after it then you should have wated for someone special cuz you want your first kiss to be rememberable. the way i think of it is the first time you feel happy after kissing someone, thats your first REAL kiss. theres nothing really you can do because you cant go back in time and undo it.
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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i dont think your protective over her cuz u feel like a brother to her i think you feel protective over her in a boyfriend type of way. a similiar sittuation happened to one of my friends but in the sister perspective. she had hooked up with her brother's best friend and he wasn't mad at her about it but they actually stopped being friends. However, that wasn't the only reason why. I think you should talk to your friend about it first, and hopefully hell understand. If he doesn't, then you have to respect that, and you don't want to ruin your friendship with him.
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
ill rate high for helpful answers (link)
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ok you deff never want to change for a guy. if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it. if hes the badboy type and your not used to that, then i think u should just let it go.
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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well do you still like your bf? if you do you dont want to ruin that for some guy that your not even sure he likes you. also if one of your friends likes him its prob not a good idea to get involved and cause drama. who cares about the girl you cant stand tho lol.
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okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now. over the weekend we went on a school trip to NYC. we had to be at the school at 4 in the morning and he seemed really distant from me but i thought that was just because he was tired. but that's how it went for the whole day. he only occasinaly came over and started hanging out with me. well then that night in the hotel my friend called me and he said that some girls were sneaking up to the boys rooms. he said that they were in the same room that my bf is in. i called his room and he answered but quickly hung up when some girl screamed. the next day he was ignoring me just as he had the day before and everyone was talking about the big orgy they had in there room. he came over to me and promised me he didnt cheat but i dont know if i can beilive him. should i beilive him or dump him? sorry its long
*rate 5's* (link)
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hmm thats tough...i mean you can't really accuse him of doing something when your not 100% sure. The girls could have just been in there to hang out with the other guys in the room. I think that if he continues to act weird and if something like this happends again, then he is lying to you. But dont dump him right away because you not positive he cheated on you and you don't want to do something you'll regret.
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ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do? (link)
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it is weird but i guess that just lets your know that your relationship didnt mean much to him if hes ready to move on so soon. He may also be trying to make you jealous. i know your probably hurt but just remember your the one who dumped him
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okay well i have a bf and we have nothing at all in commin i mean we barly talk and now hes gone 4 2 weeks on a cruse and theres a dance coming up this weekend. adn theres this kid ((boy w/e)) that i kinda in a way just met and he told me he liked me and well he was flirting w/ me at the last dance and i just think hes cute i mean i dont think i like him. but hes a grade unger than me and i dont realli think age matters but i do have a bf and idk what to do i mean wen im single i barrley like anyone but now i have a bf i think i like alot of people ((well no everyone)) but i tend to flirt more or notice that i do. srry its so long. im just so confused about this hole thing. (link)
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if you and your both barly talk then you dont really have a good relationship. i think that while hes on this cruise you should hang out with this kid who likes you and get to know him. if you like him more then you like your current bf then you should prob dump him .. just be careful not to do something that youll regret.
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I have a great boyfriend and all. But I have this one problem, I can't seem to hold a good conversation with him.. What could I talk about.
thnx. =) (link)
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talk about his interests..ur interests...ur plans for the weekend...gossip...problems you may be having...ask him things about himself
once you start talking about one thing..the conversation should lead into new ones.
good luck =]
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Well I'm 16 turning 17 in less than two weeks. I had been dating this guy for almost 4 months, and our anniversary was coming up in less than a week. I had already made plans with him and his family for Thanksgiving and me and him were doing amazingly well. Then about one week and a half before prom he started blowing me off to hang with his friends all the time, and he kept lying to me. I was afraid he might be cheating and because of the immature way he was acting we started fighting alot. Then came prom night. We were dancing, laughing, having a good time, and he kept telling me how much he loved me. Then after prom he told me to go straight home because he was staying at his "friend's" house, whom had a 16 year old slut of a sister, and she kept eyeing my bf at prom, and not paying attention to her date at all. Well I didn't want him to go, because he promised to hang out with me after prom, but I had to go so I did. All that night I cried myself to sleep and when I woke up he finally called me. I came over and he was upstairs on his bed crying. I came over and asked what was wrong and he said he was "just thinking". Finally he spit it out. He said he needed space and wanted to take a break because his schooling was bad, us fighting was stressing him out, and the fact that I wouldn't let go of some of the mistakes he made in the past. I have this awful feeling he cheated and it hurts so bad to think that he would do that. His whole family is pissed at him because of this and I don't know what to do. I can't stop crying because I feel so betrayed and hurt. I'm afraid that if he comes crying back to me that I will take him back. It's so hard to see myself without him and actually feel happy, because we hung out so much, and I got so close to him and his family. He's like no other bf I have ever had, and it hurts so bad to let him go, even though I know I have to and it will be better in the end. Can someone please tell me anyway that I can stay strong, stop crying, and get over this guy, because I cannot take all the pain he has out me through, and I know I deserve better. I feel that he is stringing me along and it hurts so bad to feel like that. Someone help please. (link)
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if this guy is hurting you then hes not worth it, and if its meant to be then if will work out in the end. thats the best advice i can give you. me and my bf used to fight all the time, and then we took a break, and when we got back together we were closer then ever, so maybe a break is just what you need. if he really loves you, then hell realize that you what he needs and hopefully understand that he needs to treat you better. as far as taking you mind off of him for now, just spend a lot of time with friends and going out doing stuff you couldn't do when you had a bf. hope this helps! ♥
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ok im in a lot of trouble...here it goes, me, one of my best friends staci and her cousin nick got drunk at a party at her house(were all 13 and this is our first time getting drunk)...her aunt let us drink...so me and nick had like 5,6 straight shots and staci only had like 2. so me and nick were smashed and staci was a lil drunk...we went on stacis trampoline and we finally fell and were just laying there...i dont know i was being weird and was saying shit like"i love you guys, your the best, im glad we did this together." and i looked over at nick and we started hooking up he had his hand on my ass and i didnt mind, i had my hands all over him(not on his dick or anything) and we were making out for a while, my other best friend jessica likes him alot. but i was so drunk to even remeber that. staci finally relized what was going on and pull us off of each other and we were like what are you doing stop..and then she started freaking out and was like i need to call jessica i need to call jessica..and nick was trying to talk to her and i was like nick i love you and he was like yea i love you to..and he looked over and gave me a lil kiss. well jessica came over to stacis house and put me to bed and i fell alseep
this is wat nick said to staci about wat happened
-he said i was ontop of him and he would of stopped but he couldnt(while we were hooking up he kept saying i love u to me and he could of said stop, so that was a lie)
-staic said someone was holding her hands down he said he wasnt(like i said my hands were all over him so his one hand that wasnt on my ass must of been holding her hands down)
so now staci and jessica hate me and they believe what nick says and he was lying and they wont believe me..i cant even look at them any more and i tried to tell them when you get drunk you dont really relize whats going on..and jessica said she asked her sister and her sister said that u do relize whats going on when your drunk im soo mad and upset at the same time..i dont know wat i can say to jessica and staci so they know im sorry and that i was drunk and it wasnt really my fault (link)
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i think that you should first talk to nick and ask him why he would lie about what happened, and to please tell your friends the truth. I know you were drunk when it happened, but that isnt always a good excuse. just talk to jessica and tell her that you never meant to do it and that you never meant to hurt her. just try tlking to her about it until she understands. hope this helps ♥
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okk my friend likes this guy. `nd i know for a fact he doesnt like her. me `nd him hung out the other night `nd she called me. `nd shes like oh hes wit u let me talk to him .. so she was talkin `nd stuff .. `nd he got off `nd he was all like "why did u make me talk to her shes so fuckin annoying", then he was goin on about that for a while.
`nd i kinda like him too .. but my friend would get mad at me but he doenst like her .. `nd shes like the kinda girl who juss gets over guys really quick .. but i dont know what to do .. b/c he doesnt like her .. `nd theres chance he might like me .. i juss dont know (link)
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ok ... you dont know for a fact that this guy likes you so you dont want to ruin a friendship over it. shes gonna realize soon enough that this guy doesnt like her tho. just wait it out cause if you think shell get mad at you for liking him then its not worth it.
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