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confused alot
okay well i have a bf and we have nothing at all in commin i mean we barly talk and now hes gone 4 2 weeks on a cruse and theres a dance coming up this weekend. adn theres this kid ((boy w/e)) that i kinda in a way just met and he told me he liked me and well he was flirting w/ me at the last dance and i just think hes cute i mean i dont think i like him. but hes a grade unger than me and i dont realli think age matters but i do have a bf and idk what to do i mean wen im single i barrley like anyone but now i have a bf i think i like alot of people ((well no everyone)) but i tend to flirt more or notice that i do. srry its so long. im just so confused about this hole thing.
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i know exactly what you mean. i think its because you feel more forced back causing you to want what you cant have. at the dance you can dance with the guy as fnerds and if your boyfrind gets pissed explain it to im and if hes still pised then hes not worth it if he doesnt trust you. and if you never talk and have nothing in common then its not really that great of a relationship and isnt workin out to well. so try talkin to him more and see if anything changes.
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if you and your both barly talk then you dont really have a good relationship. i think that while hes on this cruise you should hang out with this kid who likes you and get to know him. if you like him more then you like your current bf then you should prob dump him .. just be careful not to do something that youll regret.
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i think that its normal that you would flirt more when u you have a bf than when you dont. but before you go and do anyting that would qualify as cheating on your bf you should ask yourself, "is he a good bf?" "do you think that if you were gone on a cruise and he was left with a girl that liked him he would cheat on you?" dont cheat yourself out of a good relationship that is, or could come. ((but if you do something with this kid at the dance, its also normal for you to feel kinda guilty afterwards and possibly break up with your bf))
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Hey,
I notice that i flirt with people alot more when im going out with someone too. I think its because we gain confidence by knowing that the guy we like likes us back..so we feel like we can flirt with any guy and they'll flirt back..
Lots of girls tend to do that...its interesting the way things work..
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Hey!
A girlfriend-boyfriend relationship is supposed to be filled with love and care and even though you care about your current boyfriend, you don't feel the way a girlfriend should about her boyfriend. If you really feel this way, you need to break up with him. It's not healthy for a relationship to not feel any love for your boyfriend. You're supposed to be close to him, talk to him and you don't so... the best thing I can think of is to break up with him. You'll feel a lot better about everything. You'll feel less pressure. I have to go but I hope I helped!
Best of luck!
P.S. As for the other guy, flirt with him and let him know you like him. He'll ask you out in no time!
♥ Kayla
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Well if you have bf you should go to the dance with him but if you are not happy then you shouldnt be with him. If you dont think you have anything in common and you dont talk very much then you should find someone that has something in common and talks to you more. Like the guy who was flirting with you and ask him to the dance.
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