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hey, i'm sarah.you can ask me whatever you want, and i'll give you my advice. :]
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I really hope you can help me!
I like this boy that I've known forever, Jake. I've liked him on and off for years, but I recently saw him and I really have feelings for him. But, I think he likes someone else. Not sure though. However, there's also this other guy at school, Chris. He's pretty cool (not to mention cute), and I sort of like him too. I would ask him out, but I can't stop thinking about Jake! Do you think I should tell Jake that I have feelings for him and possibly risk a lifelong friendship, or forget about Jake and ask Chris out? What would you do? Oh, and I love your advice. You seem so great! Talk to you later!
-Empleh
Thanks (about my advice):)
:( OMG i'm in the same exact position!
:.:.same exact.:.:
I'll give you the best advice I can, and try and follow it also.
If you think you LOVE (yes, love) or have love feelings towards Jake, and your not exactly sure if he likes someone else, go for it, and tell him, because he should be your first (even if its inconvinient, and your not sure how it'll go.) Remember, if your friendship with him has lasted this long, then chances are it'll last through this. Maybe he's liked you secretly all along. As for the guy at school, see if he is interested also, but keep it low and slow, in case your "true love" or w/e(sorry cheesy cheesy) finds out, or you find out he has feelings for you.
good luck!
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I just got a curling iron with a spiral around it and i dont know how to use it! can someone help me? whenever i try to get my hair around it it goes over the spiral not like between it! help me please!
Oh i have one like that; it's supposed to be on the spiral, that's how it gets the curls
i start school in a little over a week on the 30th of this month and i got gym and i heard we have to take showers in front of everyone and i dont want to...what can i do to get out of it and make it look like i took a shower? and do people talk about your body parts to other people that are in that class? helppppp!
don't worry, ppl wont look about u
I broke up wit my boyfriend and I still love him to death.. And i cant stop but I broke up wit him cuz of parental reasons ** He's 15 and im 13 ** Now all i do is think of him... But what makes me feel worse is that he was cring the whole day :-( i dont know what to do.. Cuz If i didnt break up wit him i would get into troble, loose my trusts from my parents and never get to see him or talk to him.. But now that i broke up wit him i can talk to him and see him :-(
If you really love him, then your parents should understand. i say, have a secret relationship; theres no use breaking 2 hearts and having nothing come of it.
tell him (when your parents arent there) that you still love him and u werent really meaning it.
Are the new colored ipods any different that the original ones? (like other than the color, like do they do anything else?)
yea the mini ipods hold 7megabytes and the white bigger one hold 20 or 40. white hold 10,000 songs, color holds 1000.
OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!
If you choose to be a little "skater" its your choice, and if theyre really your friends, theyll understand. what you wear, and what sport u choose is completely your decision, and if theyre mad @ u for doing what you want, then that's theyre problemo.
my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
If your mom doesn't care that her boyfriend molested you, there's something wrong. if you have a school counselor, I would talk to them. tell your mom that you should go together.
What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!
taking a break would be breaking up... but with a little hope.
ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose?
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you have the symptoms of anorexia. You have to start eating more regularly, before you lose complete control. 102 at 5'6 is really a good weight and height. I have the exact opposite problem lol.(short/skinny:() Don't try to lose any more weight, or you'll be digging ur own grave.
hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks
try www.tripod.com, it's one of the closest to .com webbies u can have, and it lets u use html (the website would be www.whateveruwant.tripod.com), and u can use a lotta diff. backgrounds.
what are the signs of being anorexic? im 5'6 and weigh 102 i think i need to lose weight can someone tell me how to mostly for my legs o yeah im 13 years old please help!
If your 5'6 and you weigh 102 lbs. then your perfectly fine! try eating normally, and excercising, but you don't need 2 lose weight!
my friend told me when you start to get abs you start to get a little 'box' or soemthing by ur belly button like a little pudge or something... can u tell me sum signs that running, sit ups, push ups, crunchies, lifting weights actually works!~
the stomack around the ab area will start to tighten, and you may weigh more (dont get dicouraged it just means that your getting muscle, it weighs more than fat), you'll be a little more energetic, and eventually you'll start to feel some abs.
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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her
don't worry about it... i get scared really easily w/ scary movies 2... if you know your gonna be scared, just don't watch them. as for a girl, i think she wont mind if cuddle up against her lmao... she's prolly just as scared, and shed be happy.
I was wondering that lemon lemonade help your hiar high lighted in the sun. what if putting pink or starwberry? I just wondering.. oh yea and if you do put lemonade your hair sit in sun. you dont just pour in your hair? will surger make hair more yucky and oily? 3rd qestion after all that do have wash it????
Thanx
the best natural hair lightener is just putting pure lemon juice in your hair after washing it (without any other ingredients), and laying i the sun or going to the beach.
ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???
average people liker......
you shouldn't have to prove anything to your friends. if they really are your friends, they wont care if they think your bf's are hott. (well, they will, just not to a disturbing point.)
.\hope i helped/.
i cant afford a trainer...umm what can i eat or drink to make me sing better lol i really want to be able to...and how do u sing from ur stomach? ive heard that u like use ur stomach
some tips-
-don't drink dairy before you sing; it coats your vocal cords with flegm, and makes your voice sound mucusy
-when you breathe in before you sing, make sure your stomach pushes out, letting the right amount of air in, and make sure you shuolders dont go up, that means your breathing is shalllow, it needs to be deep.
-you dont sing with your stomach, you sing with your diaphragm.
-drink a lot of water; it clears up your throat and vocal cords.
-there is no "magic food" that will make you sing better; practice scales and "excercise"your voice, and it will help, though.
if you want any more tips, IM me. mi s/n's serjo1991.
okay i'm 14 years old and occasionally i get these little pimples on my forehead and sometimes on my nose and around my mouth. i don't have acne or anything and to be honest i have pretty good skin but i'm trying to keep my skin really clear. i've used proactive and that didn't work at all it just made it worse! i ordered it twice i used it for 2 months and nothing worked on my skin! when i get a big pimple it's BIG like i swear it looked like i had a miniature tumor growing somewhere... okay maybe not THAT big but they get big and they bother me. does anyone have any products that i could use that aren't that expensive that would help clear up my skin a little bit more? except for proactive because i used that already and it didn't work (as i mentioned before) if you have any just let me know!!!
try putting on azzilyllic(SP) acid, this stuff that clears up stuff REALLY good overnight; you can get it a a pharmacy
for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).??
try azillylic(sp) acid; you can get it at publix pharmacy...
as for your hair, i would try cutting it short in layers, w/ or w/o rock and roll bangs. get a hair straightener, and straighten it all, and it'll look awesome!
i like this boy and my friend told him w/out my permission. he has acted REALLY wierd around me ever since she told him.i REALLY like him and we never really talked about it.he told my friend that he didn't like me that way only as a friend at first(this all happened in 7th grade i'm now in 8th).then he told her maybe next year it is next year and he hasn't showed any signs of asking me out.we don't have any classes 2gether and we haven't talked as much. wat do u think?PLEEEEEEZE HELP.thanx
try getting his phone number, and really talking to him. if you don't communicate, it could end up being too late, and you'll end up going to different high schools... if your sure your in love (or crushing) on him, tell him yourself how you feel... hopefully, he'll kinda, maybe, or really like you to.
good luck!
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i want to be an advice columnist for something more than this, any ideas?
you can always buy your own webpage, and use a guestbook as an advice column, or you could make an "advice column screenname", and advertise it, and ppl would IM you w/ questions