I really hope you can help me!
I like this boy that I've known forever, Jake. I've liked him on and off for years, but I recently saw him and I really have feelings for him. But, I think he likes someone else. Not sure though. However, there's also this other guy at school, Chris. He's pretty cool (not to mention cute), and I sort of like him too. I would ask him out, but I can't stop thinking about Jake! Do you think I should tell Jake that I have feelings for him and possibly risk a lifelong friendship, or forget about Jake and ask Chris out? What would you do? Oh, and I love your advice. You seem so great! Talk to you later!
-Empleh
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Thursday August 26 2004, 10:30 pm: Thanks (about my advice):)
:( OMG i'm in the same exact position!
:.:.same exact.:.:
I'll give you the best advice I can, and try and follow it also.
If you think you LOVE (yes, love) or have love feelings towards Jake, and your not exactly sure if he likes someone else, go for it, and tell him, because he should be your first (even if its inconvinient, and your not sure how it'll go.) Remember, if your friendship with him has lasted this long, then chances are it'll last through this. Maybe he's liked you secretly all along. As for the guy at school, see if he is interested also, but keep it low and slow, in case your "true love" or w/e(sorry cheesy cheesy) finds out, or you find out he has feelings for you.
good luck!
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