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Hey I'm Aria and the pic to the left is from this summer!


*AGE* 17
*GRADE* JuNiOr
*LOCATION* BeAvErToN, OrEgOn
*SEX* Female
*HEIGHT* 5'4
*LIKES* Romantic comedies, dancing, flirting, talking on the phone and computer, being with friends, Disney, going shopping, blasting music, sweets, buying shoes, meeting new people, traveling, LOVING LIFE


ask anything! Dont be shy! ;)


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advice

when you look under "columnists" .. how do you get those stars next to your name?

you have to answer more and more questions and then the people who asked the question can rate you on a scale of 1-5, the amount of blue that's filled in the stars is the average rating.

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I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing?

well you could probably buy those like clear fillers to put in your tounge so they dont really notice it as much, and if they still dont like it after that then theres not much you can do besides taking it out or keeping it (If it were me I'd keep it since you already went through with the pain of getting it pierced).

lol this might sound weird but I kinda want my tounge pierced too!! Did yours hurt a lot? I have my belly button pierced and I didnt think that hurt very bad, but I heard the tounge hurts A LOT! is that true??

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where do u shop?

umm a lot of different places! I like pac sun, urban outfitters, a&f, old navy, forever 21, B.P.
places like that

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ive been thinkin about sex alot and i dont know if im ready i took a few tests on the saftey and the concepts and it told me i was.. i dunno part of me thinks im WAYY to young being 13.. but i dunno just so curious.. do i wait or what.. do i pass up the oppurtunity? sorry its like 4 Q in one.. well thanks

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ready, or ready to say no

you should be totally SURE if youre going to do something like having sex.. it has big consequences sometimes. Your young to be doing it also. Of course the final decision is going to be up to you but in my opinion I think you are too young. If your totally sure you want to do it, make sure you dont do it with someone 18 or older! you can get in trouuubbbllleee :) lol just be sure your TOTALLY ready before you do anything!!!

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my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one?

tell her that theyre completely normal to wear! A lot of people wear them. Ask her what it is about them that she doesnt like. I dont know how old you are but maybe she thinks your just too young or something? Explain to her that granny panties arent comfortable! If that doesnt work then you can always buy cute boy-type underwear! Theyre really cute!
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I have a big freckle on my fore head, and it makes me look ugy. Is their any way to get ride of it or make it not as noticeble? Please help!!!

if its a mole you can usually get it removed. Talk to your parents about looking into a doctor who specializes in that kinda stuff! :)
if your not wanting that then you could just cover it up with make up

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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all!

tell yourself that its over with that jerk! you deserve someone who will treat you RIGHT!! You need to get your mind off him... try to find a different guy to focus on! Its the perfect way to keep your mind off your ex! Just make sure that your new guy doesnt treat you like you ex did! Hope I helped! plz rate me

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i'm 15 and i want my belly button pirced and my dad doesn't mind but my mom want let...i mean all my close friends have theres done...even my friend that has the meanest parents in the world! but i was woundering how i could get my mom to let me get it done!??

get a bunch of references! lol show her that so many people have them and they look really cute! I have mine and my mom wasnt crazy about it either... I went with my dad and when I showed her she said that it was fine, she just didnt wanna be there cuz she thinks it hurts. I didnt think it hurt that bad but whatever! Ask her what it is about belly button piercings that makes her not want it so much! if those ideas dont work try BRIBE! lol I know it sounds bad but sometimes it works. Tell her something like "how about you let me get my peircing and I'll clean the downstairs for a month!" ...or something like that! I have no idea if these will work with your mom... but theres no harm in trying right :D GOOD LUCK
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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

TELL HER HOW HAPPY YOU ARE! It's so much more fun to be happy than depressed! Talk to her and tell her that you care about her. Then if that doesnt work SHOW HER. Take her somewhere where you guys can have a realllllly fun time! I dont know what your into but I think amusement parks are always fun! I mean how can you not have fun there?! haha anyways if thats not your thing then maybe a movie (comedy!!) or shopping or SOMETHING! hopefully that will let her see what shes missing out on! Hope everything works out :D
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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you?

I dont see why not. If you like him then age shouldnt get in the way :D

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hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better

if you like him... flirt. If you arent sure yet then just ask a bunch of questions to figure out more about him. And when he asks you questios dont hold back, be really open. When your open to his questions it makes him feel more comfortable being open with you! Also you dont wanna be shy, just be yourself to let him know who you are and what your all about. I hope it works out for you! plz rate me

*xoxo* Aria

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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do?

Flirt! Thats the best way to tell him that your interested in something more. But dont go over the top crazy with it. Still be natural and act like you normally do. Keep being yourself because thats obviously what he likes! dont rush things.. keep them slow and things will turn out! If you really wanna know then you could be totally forward and ask him... but some people get nervous and dont like people being so forward because it puts them on the spot, and in an uncomfortable situation. But I hope everything works out!! Dont be shy! Good luck!
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ok, well, before i go to school i want to look really good for the first day, and im scared because lately i have been gettin pimples on my face (not for the first time) and i want to know if anybody has any tips on how to clear your face, or products that work over night (and actually work) plz tell me!

second, i want my teeth to be white, but the white strips are like 20 dollars, does anybody know tips about that too! thanx alot! bye!

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For your face find a good cleanser that works! I heard that nuetragina (sp?) works really well. I use Arbonne and it works good, if you can find it! Also I bought the clean & clean acne spot cleanser but I havent used it yet... BUT it's supposed to work excellent!
For the teeth I would say the crest white strips.. but since you can get those then just whitening toothpaste. Also I saw an ad for a toothbrush thats supposed to help with whitening your teeth also!
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hey im 15 and im a Bi and none of my friends now and i really want to find a woman for me but i dont know how and i dont want people to make fun of me what should i do i need help

Are you sure your bi? I mean you might just be curious so you want to experiment. A lot of teenagers do that in order to find out who they really are. If your looking for a woman then I'd suggest a chat room or something like that, with people that have the same interest as you

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i was doing really well on a diet during the school year, but now that it's summer and i stay up later i normally get bored at night and want to eat junk food while i'm on the computer and stuff - how can i stop myself?!?

the problem your having is that your getting bored, and eating gives you something to do (plus its yummy!). The best thing to do would be to fight the urge or whatever. But I know thats hard to do -- I could never do that! What I do now is instead of grabbing chips or cookies grab fruit! I know it sounds corny but you end up getting used to it. Fruit is still good AND its healthy! The BEST fruit to eat (if you wanna stay skinny) is grapefruit. Theres something about the citris thats good... Also gum helps some people with cravings. Maybe it would help you? Hope I helped!
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Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks!

I use Garnier Fructis and it seems to work really well! and I love the smell too :)

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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana

just go with it. do what you feel is right. If you really want details then go to: virtualkiss.com
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Hello I was just wondering what qualities a gurl around 16-17 looks for in a guy. Anyone who can help me i'll rate ya good.

ok I'm not 16 YET but I will be in october.. if you dont want advise from a 15 yr old then dont read the rest... Ok anyways good qualities I like are sensitive (but not TOO sensitive), repectful, sweet, nice... the usual things! And of course they have to have a funny side!! It's no fun if your hanging out with someone who is a stiff. I love to laugh and I know A LOT of girls who feel the same way! Be yourself and be outgoing!
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well im going with this guy i like my friend n a few of his friends to a concert...wen i told him i could finally go, he seemed rlly excited...well idk wat i should do like with him its kinda like an adult concert but uk ppl like 13 14 will be there...thats my age...well wat could we do there besided listen to music...im not realli the first move kinda person so i wouldnt say makeout or ne thing lol ne way thanx xoxo

Why dont you try not to make it like a "date" cuz sometimes that adds pressure. Just act like you are with a group of friends, casual. You can add some flirting in there too since you like him and all, but just do what you feel comfortable with. Try not to be shy (I dont know if you are or not..) and I think it'd be good to ask a lot of questions.. who knows, you might find out a lot of cool stuff about him you had no idea about before! Be yourself and have fun :)
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Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :)

Make sure you have enough food for everyone! Guys eat A LOT! lol and dont forget music!!! you must have good music that everyone is into and can dance to! I dont know what kind of music your into but you dont want too many slow songs.. people like to dance and have fun!
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