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well i have a friend and these are her problems: B.O., dandruff, doesnt brush her hair OR teeth, has a big belly AND doesnt know about any of this. how can i help her without being really mean???? please help! ill rate 5s for answers that dont piss me off!

hmmm.....maybe you can help her without her knowing....ya kno. Like, if she were gonna stay the night at your house one night then you could take a shower and then your friend can take one right after you. but when you get out of the shower you should just tell her that a shower feels refreshing. and then maybe she would go and take a shower. OR if she doesnt take a shower you should try on some perfume and some deodarent and then you should tell her that it smells good and then tell her to try some on.

i really hope i helped hun.
sammie

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There's this guy that I have a little crush on. He's nice and all and fairly good looking but the problem is he's about an inch and a half shorter than me. I stand quite a good chance with him but I keep worrying about the height thing because I used to go out with someone shorter than me and it was annoying. Should I just forget the height issue and go out with him or leave it? It's not even a major crush, just a small one and I could get over it if I wanted to.

If you like him then the height thing shouldnt be an issue, plain and simple. I mean, its nice to be physically and mentally attracted to someone...but its not all about the looks. And i kno that you kno that...LOL!!
but, if you dont think that he is the right one for you then just leave it alone.

Hope i helped girlie

Sammie :)

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i dont have a tred mill or anything. my friend said that running up and down the stairs would work but i have asked some people and they said no. someone please tell me if running up and down the stairs will help me lose wieght. in what parts would i lose weight in and for how long should i do it for? thanks!

you would basically gain leg muscles running up and down stairs. If you do some sit ups every night then you will get ab muscles. I do about 50 sit ups every night and it helps me out a lot.

hope i helped
sammie

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i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort.

Rumors are gonna go around like that becuz either the person is really pissed (like that girl) or their just complety jealous becuz of what you and that guy have together.
Anywho, if those people come to you in school and ask you about that rumor than you kno what to do. There isnt really anything that you can do to prevent a rumor that has already been spread.
This is the same thing that is happening to my ex-boyfriend, he's a really good friend of mine tho. Its starting to go away tho. No one has really said anything about it....well, not that i've heard of so far.

Its gonna be ok tho...
sam

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My mom is so thickheaded. Once she has something in her mind, she sticks to it. There is absolutely nothing that can change her mind. It gets to the point where I start hating her. Please give me a solution or something to maybe help stop her thickheadedness!!!

To tell you the truth, there is nothing that can stop her from being "thickheaded." Its in a parent's nature to be as dumb as possible. But you kno what, it helps us not to act the same way....if we're smart and think about it like that! LOL!!
Anywho, dont let it get to you so much. My parents are the same way too and i dont like it AT ALL! But the thing with my parents is, is that i dont get a say so in anything. You kno what i mean.
Us children today learn to dwell with it tho.
cuz we iz da shit!!! lol! fo rizzle (sorry i had to say that once) ^_^

sammie

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ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do?

I really think that girl overreacted extreamly. I kno that i am not supposed to say this on this advicenators thing but i would have whooped her bum bum if you ask me.
BUT,(and yes there is a but) if she so much as hits you next time for no forgiven reason...SLAP her as HARD as you can. Then, that would be payback.
Other than that, if she just taunts you then just ignore her. I kno that is the oldest think to tell someone...but it does actually work. If you DO ignore her then she will gradually start to stop. She's not worth getting all mad over. She just thinks that if she has someone walk all over then she thinks that she would be all cool and stuff. Its common knowledge and i kno you kno this.

i hope you have better dayz sweetie...
sammie

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Hey guys, our Sadie Hawkin's dance is coming up, and I want a creative way to ask my guy. We're dating, and I don't really have to ask him, I just kinda want to. Lol. Some ideas have been:
Balloons
Puzzle
Cake (but that won't work because I can't bake...)
Um...I think that's all my friends have thought of. If you guys think one of these ideas is great, tell me, and lemme know if you have any other ideas! Thanks =)

-a red, white, or yellow rose
-box of chocolates
-a poem
-a picture of something creative and you can put in the picture: "will you go to the sadie hawkin's dance with me?"

i cant really think of anything else hunny bunny...^_^ but if you wanna use one of those idea's that would make me a genius.....LOL!! j/k

hope i helped
sammie

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hey! i really need to lose weight b4 spring. i am 13/f and i weigh about 95 pounds. i know this isnt like overweight, but all my friends weigh 80 pounds. whenever we go shopping, i feel like a freak. does anyone know any good tips to quicly losing weight? Thanx!

Im really not trying to be disrespectful or anything, but I think that you should appreciate how much you weigh right now. Its not supposed to be a matter of how much you weigh compared to your friends. You should feel good about your weight. HA-HA I wish I could weigh as much as you do. I mean, i didnt weigh that much when i was 13 i weighed in the hundreds....like 110 or 108 or somehting. lol!

Anywho, if you want tips to weigh less, then excercise and watch what you eat....lay low on the sweets.

sammie

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I have a freind. The other day we went over to her house and it was scarry i didn't know that her brother was the guy i had been hanging out with before i met her. How do i tell her that i know who he is and ahe doesn't have to keep explainig him to me. Irate high!

-Haley

The quesiton isnt about how you are gonna tell her, exactly. Its how she's gonna respond to it. You kind of make it seem like your friend would be mad if you were friends with her brother. Just tell your friend about how you were friends with her brother before you were friends with her. She shouldnt be mad at you for that, ya kno.

good luck
Sam

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Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??..

Just keep being patient. Maybe, your guy will come around sooner than you think. I kno that you think that your time will never come but it will. MAN, this is like that movie "NEVER BEEN KISSED," with Drew Barrymore(dont remember how to spell her last name) in it. Just keep the thought in the back of your mind that your time will come. Who know's? You might end up with a better boyfriend than your friends have. LOL! no affense to your friends.

Sammie ^_^

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ok well i like this boy and i think he likes me too becuase he always talks to me. like one time i brought in cupcakes for a class party and i asked "anyone want one?" because i had extras and a bunch of people crowded around me and he siad "you did not just touch my girl friend!" do you think he likes me..and how can i get him to like me even more? thanks! i'll rate fives to anyone who answers

My opinion is that he likes you. I think he does becuz that thing, when he said that thing about you being his girlfriend, well i think thats a sign that he MIGHT just like you. lol. ^_^

Now the question is: Do YOU like HIM?
lol....i think i might kno the answer to that too.

post again and tell me if you like him back or if you want to kno more.

sammie

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Hey, im having some friends over and were going to just have a girls night... so i was wondering on some ideas on gurly movies like Crazy/Beautiful, Crossroads... just gurly movies lol or any other really good movies you have to reccomend. thanks buches!

these are the movies that i can think of:
A Walk to Remember
Dirty Dancing: Havanna Nights
Bring It On
The Notebook(never saw it but i hear it was great)
Mean Girls
A Cinderella Story

If you like girlie old type movies there's this one called "Pillow Talk" it is REALLY GOOD.

have fun girlie
sammie

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So my two good friends are fighting, and no one can seem to get them back together. I'm okay with this, but whats most annoying is the way they fight/talk about each other behind their backs. I'm tired of it and want some help. Any advice?

Tell the both of them that if they have anything to say about eachother then they need to say it to eachother's face. No disrespect, but you kno and i kno that you dont want to be in the middle of it all.
The other thing that you can do is talk to the both of them individually and then think of something to help them get along, like: Getting the both of them to stay the night at your house with out either one of them knowing that the both of them are gonna stay the night with you....that way, you can talk it out with the both of them and then they can talk to eachother. With your parents supervision in the other room, i dont think that there would be any arguing involved.

I dont know if you want to try that...but if you think about it...its not a bad idea. LOL ^_^

good luck
sammie

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Hey, does anyone know what stores have Hello Kitty stuff?

i think Clare's does...

sammie

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Last spring break I went to florida with a friend. During my time there I meant this guy I fell head over heels for him. He was different, he wasn't like most guy. So I spent every day that I was there with him I never had that much fun,but all good things must come to a end it was time to go home. We still kept in touch but not for long. One day he never called me back maybe I did or said something. And along time has past and now I have a good boyfriend but I m just scared of falling in love again I dont know what to do? Please help!!!!!!!!

He could be really busy..you never kno. Dont stress over it tho, otay girlie... :)he'll call you eventually and then you will feel really good. just be patient.

sammie

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How long does a pimple last? like on average how many days/weeks is normal

around 3 or 4 days maybe depending on what kind of skin you have...

hope i helped..
sammie

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I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks .

I kno that you probably dont want to hear this kind of response..but it COULD be a phase. Im not saying that i kno what your going through, but feeling depressed isnt good. Dont give up person. I know that you have it in you to keep those grades up and stay cool with your friends........and CRUSHES..lol^_^
You seem pretty darn intellegent and cool so dont lose that confidence in yourself.
write me back and update me with how things are going after a while. okay

~sammie~

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There is this boy at my school who is soooooooooo hot. I really like him. He always smiles at me andwhen he walks by me he walks really slow and is smiling. Does he like me?

I will rate

I think he likes you. ;)
If he's showing signs, like the ones in your question, then i think that you should talk to him more...trust me, you'll be able to tell if he likes you or not..he's making it pretty obvious right now. LOL ^_^

sammie

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I have a best friend.. let's call him.. Bob.. Bob has been my best friend since even.. kindergarden. We haven't every been really close though because he's always wanted to fit in with the "in" crowd. He's changed himself from how I used to know him.. and it kills me inside knowing that he wouldn't even think about going out with me. It's funny though.. because he's always hanging around with me, and he acts really cool, and like himself when no one else is around, like if we're talking on AIm. Then when we get into class.. he's this rude, abnoxious, wannabe.. do I just forget him? *sigh* I rate answers.

First of all, it is absolutely ok for you to like your best friend..
Second, you should talk to him and tell him to cut the little act that he is putting on in front of people.
He's your best friend and I kno that you really care for him..so...talk to him. otay ^_^

sam

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Hey, theres this guy. Me and him lately, we've been fighting. I don't really know him in real life. But he was a good friend. Well, what happend was he made a "bet" with a guy who will remain nameless that he could win me over. "Nameless" and me have loved each other for about a half of a month now. We never started dating because we wanted the space and everything. And this guy goes and says he makes a bet after making me cry and everything. You get me so far? I know I can be confusing sorry. And well, then, today, after he made the bet. I asked "nameless" about it and he claims there was no bet, and I actually believe him. He never lies to me. And well, this guy who screwed around with my mind I really don't know what to do. I want to be friends. But I'm scared the same thing will happen again. But he was such a good friend. He always helped me out when I needed it. What should I do? Please, tell me. Should I try and be friends again, or just not be friends and try to forget him?

I think that, since you care for him so much, that you sould give him one more chance. And if he screws up again...then you'll kno what to do. For example: whoop his bum bum if he acts up again...LOL!! :)

Sam ^_^

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