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hey everyone, Carrie here & - i`m back! sorry i was gone for so long, dealing with buisness and whatnot but i`m back soo anything you need or want to know i`m here to answer! if you wish to keep it private let me know in an email with your AIM sn (if you have one) and i will be IM`ing you shortly>
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
OMG! If I heard my best friends house was on fire, i`d be there in a heartbeat. This isn`t nosey its showing you are concerned! So go! Go find your best friend! Good Luck!
i`m confused...for 9 months now i've been trying to get with this guy and well...i've been thinking...when i finally go out with him i'm gonna lose a lot of things. I`m not gonna have the fun of TRYING to get him...it's like i want to go out with him sooo bad...but then when i finally do-i have something to lose?...is this a normal feeling???
This is completley normal. Trust me haha i`ve felt it a lot when it comes to guys. I think you sound like the type to seeks out "hard to get guys" and the closer and closer you come to getting the guy the further and further you feel you need to push away because your afriad to get hurt. Most everyones afraid of getting hurt but i dont think its something we need to hold over ourselves and be concerned about it all the time. Just keep going for what you believe in and "follow your heart" - =] if you feel like the outcome is going to hurt you keep searching for something better, theres plenty out there and only one waiting for you. Good Luck
so im 13/f, 4'9, and 66 lbs. there are rumors (sorry if i spelled that wrong) about me being anorexic, but i am not. i try to ignore/stop them(rumors), but i cant! its getting worse and worse! and no matter WHAT i tell people, they think im a physco anorexic person.
Well if you eat and you dilibiratly do not starve yourself you`re not annorexic - but your BMI (body max index)
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
is underweight - I know your not physco or annorexic but you should seek help, not because your annorexic!! like i said just to help you gain weight. Just take a trip to the doctor and see if he can prescribe you with someone pills or a good diet to increase your weight. and as far as those other kids go, tell them its none of there buisness and they need to fuck off.
is something wrong with me if i never had a boyfriend before? i never had my first kiss or nothing. i flirt a lot, but i never get any further. some guys have asked me out, but i say no and i dont know why. i guess im kind of sacred. what do i do?
Nothing is wrong with you, it`s perfectly normal. It most likley means your the type or person who likes to play "hard to get" or you may be picky when it comes to men. I dont know how old you are but if your in your teens your too young to worry about these type or things. just relax and live life to its fullest - remember you only live once!
ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!
Well first off Happy One Year and Congradulations! Next, make sure you`re ready - i know you may hear it a lot but its true, it`s something you can never take back. But if you`re afriad it wont fit, you guys might want to start off with "fourplay" ( having him finger you or you "pleasure" him by jacking him off and what-not ) first to "loosin" it up lol. Sex is a thing a lot of girls fear as a first time thing and it comes a long with a lot of questions. Just relax and play it by ear. I highly doubt it "wont fit", it may take a while being your first time but it usually doesnt take too long. Be confident and make the best of it. Good luck! USE A CONDOM!!!!!
Okay well i guess this isn't a diet, but all I eat pretty much is like junk food and im kinda overweight..i think anyways..so i want to try and stop eating that and eat healthy. The thing is, since thats like all thats in my house is things that are bad for you its hard and thats what i crave all the time-sugar or something so its really hard to stick with it..what should i do to keep with the healthy food and stuff and not eat sugary things or junk food??
Well first off - it`s not easy switching your diet within a day a week or even a month. it takes a while to get adjusted but you should try shopping for good healthy food like organic food or even salads. start decreasing the fats and increasing the healthy stuff. if you want to loose weight then stop comfort eating (dont eat when your bored only eat at meals) watch your calories and try lowering them to about 1400 a day and run a lot. you`ll be in a good healthy shape in no time.
tonight me and my bf were talking and well idk tonight we were talking and i asked whats wrong and hes like everything im like.. umm well whats that.. im listening and hes like naw jk nothing and im like ok and he is like well actually idk whats wrong... why doesnt he know?
he may be feeling uncomfortable, he may have a million thoughts stuck in his head and just cant seem to get them out in words. let him know you`re there for him and you`re willing to listen to him whenever he needs it and you can understand completly. just give him time. sometimes its hard to put in words how you feel.
i love seeing my room clean i truely do but i hate cleanin it when its messie and i know put it away after you take something out but sometimes i forget and it can be super hard and tips on how i can keep in check on how to keep my room somewhat clean....keep in mind at the age of 13 it can be hard.
i love love love seeing my room clean too believe me, i have like an obsession compulsive disorder where i HAVE to have my room clean lol. but im sorry to say since we dont have high technicality in these day in ages you just have to keep cleaning your room. try writing a note to yourself on a whiteboard or something to remind you to keep it neat. what i do is clean it before i go to bed and i feel so fresh and organized the next morning waking up to a clean room. try that! good luck.
Um ok im 13 in the 7th grade and i have a few friends that are bi and no one looks at em differently only some ignorant people. and often not even knowin it i find myself loking at pretty girls and at times i have wondered what it would be like to be doin things with a girl like i do with a guy....does this mean im bi?
Personally in my opinion i think you`re too young to decide your orientation (wether your straight, lesbian, gay, or bi) This might be because it`s all in your head that your friends are bi that it may even be triggering to you. Try ignoring your thoughts and just live your life and if you end up being bi - then hell you`re bi but dont worry about it at the age of 13! too much stress and unimportant issues to deal with at this point in life. hope i helped. good luck
I think I'm anorexic. But I might not be because everyone says that the first quality of an anorexic is denial. I don't know. My friends say that I am, because I don't eat much for lunch and most of the time don't eat lunch at all. I never considered myself underweight, but I guess I would be in like, the 10th percentile. What do you guys think?
Annorexia is a disorder where you can start off dieting or being obsessive over your weight and weigh yourself multiple times in a day. it doesnt nessescairly mean your skin and bones but it does lead there. Some people admit it`s a problem and some people have denial. All people are diffrent. i cant tell you if your annorexic because i`m not a doctor and you havent really given me enough information but i suggest you try increasing meals slowly since it doesnt sound to seriouse.
what's emo? i just read a question and im confussed tehehe =o)
Emo means emotional, it`s usually catergorized as a music genre likes bands such as; my chemical romance, taking back sunday, dashboard confessionals, exc.
can you get a disease or STD from fingering well from being fingered
No you can`t. The only way you can recieve an STD is by having sexual intercourse exchanging certain body fluids or even certain foods exchanged during sex. Remember use a condom =]
ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.
should i give up or should i just wait it out?
Well, if you like him i say you just stay close friends because if he means this much to you, you wouldnt go abouts messing things up for him would you? Try being happy for him, being a best friend to him and i know it may sound hard but try moving on. And if things dont work out in the end you will always have a second shot. Good luck.
is there an easy way to get guys attention w/o acting slutty? because its very hard when guys are teenagers and have sex on the mind at all times
believe it or not - not ALL guys are interested in girl`s who appear slutty. yes guys may have sex on there mind 24/7 and they may blurt out stupid remarks about how hot girls look when there half naked but really thats just their penis talking. Most guys DO have a sensitive side, just act and dress yourself. don`t degrate your body for a certain guys attension because if thats all a guy wants hes so not worth it.
whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.
-confuzzled
Well if your questioning wether you like her or not you may be experimenting in your mind but i think all it is is that you`re afriad you may loose her to a guy one day - maybe you guys just have that certain "closeness" good luck and stop stressing!
Are diet pills safe for me to take if I am only 16 years old? And is their quick results? Thanks!
diet pills are usually doctor prescribed, well the working ones anyways. the ones you purchase at the store are just supplements, they can work but only if you eat properlly along with it and excercise. it gives you just a little boost.
Is it normal to weigh 113lbs and be 5'4"?
uhg. yes
What is the average size of a guys penis?
my bf is 16 and he's about 6 inches long is that average?
sounds average to me
How do you add a pic on ur advice colomn?
Either go to "profile settings" and add a pic from your browser or use html by putting
My best friend & I have known eachother forever and tell eachother everything. She has always been against smoking - she thinks it's stupid and it smells horrible. The thing is, all her other friends smoke, but me. Recently, she has started to herself! She has actually given into the peer pressure and she never has before. I used to be so proud of her for standing up for what she believed and not smoking. Now, she's changing and smoking all the time just like her friends. How do I talk to her about this? I'm so disappointed in her but I'd do anything to get my old, brave best friend back.
It`s most likley just a phase. If she doesnt get over it in a mater of time you need to sit her down and tell her that what she`s doing is wrong. Your smart, dont give into peer pressure its terrible!!
xO.Carrie