Question Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 12:13 am
Um ok im 13 in the 7th grade and i have a few friends that are bi and no one looks at em differently only some ignorant people. and often not even knowin it i find myself loking at pretty girls and at times i have wondered what it would be like to be doin things with a girl like i do with a guy....does this mean im bi?
Whatever feelings you are having towards people of the same or opposite sex - it's normal. Your sexuality is a unique and wonderful thing, and if you realize you are bi/lesbian, more power to you. A lot of people go through life hiding who they really are, but the sooner you start to wonder about yourself and what you want from life, the sooner you start living. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
Zach_Attack answered Thursday February 10 2005, 7:41 am: no, not al all. its just some of your hormones running wild. it happens with everyone. its the same with guys too. guys, believe it or not, question their sexuality all the time. if you were bi, you'd know it. [ Zach_Attack's advice column | Ask Zach_Attack A Question ]
DrummeR4LifE answered Thursday February 10 2005, 3:12 am: looking at them and wondering about them... no it doesnt mean ur bi. as long as you do nothing with them that you would witha guy then your fine :P [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
Nicole08 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 1:02 am: Looking at other girls or wondering what its like with them doesnt mean your bi, its only if you do stuff with them. And dont worry everygirl at one point in time looks at other girl's boobs or butt. It doesnt mean anything its just called curiousity. And the ignorant people that treat your friend differently are just immature kids that think everything is funny.........and if you do turn bi there is nothing wrong with that! [ Nicole08's advice column | Ask Nicole08 A Question ]
xOCarrie answered Thursday February 10 2005, 1:02 am: Personally in my opinion i think you`re too young to decide your orientation (wether your straight, lesbian, gay, or bi) This might be because it`s all in your head that your friends are bi that it may even be triggering to you. Try ignoring your thoughts and just live your life and if you end up being bi - then hell you`re bi but dont worry about it at the age of 13! too much stress and unimportant issues to deal with at this point in life. hope i helped. good luck [ xOCarrie's advice column | Ask xOCarrie A Question ]
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