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see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat? (link)
Continue liking him. If she said she/he dosn't like him anymore, then she's/he's right. And that's her problem if he's lying! If he said that, then tell your friend how you like him too, but I wouldn't tell her about when he said he didn't like her anymore
Good Luck, Write Back, Rate High
~Kendall~


our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx (link)
If she dropped you she's not much of a friend. Give her another chance. Invite her someone with your 'group' and see what happens.


Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks (link)
Don't wear a bra under a cami. Most cami's have training bra's in them. I wear bra's, but I don't think your ready if you say you're flat. Don't rush it, because bra's are not that fun.


ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her?? (link)
One day while you girls are having a sleepover or something, do each others make-up! You do her's, and make HER look how she should really look. Then tell her it's the best you've ever seen her look. Tell her she looks awesome, and ask her if she thinks the same!


I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now (I'm 15/f) and things have been going great! We love eachother very much but lately he's been getting to protective of me. I'm sure many of you know what a "myspace" is, if not it's a site where you pretty much make/find friends. One of my friends that is a guy commented on almost all of my pictures telling me how beautiful I was and how lucky my boyfriend is to be dating me yadda yadda yadda. My boyfriend sees the comments and gets really mad because he said it's a "dick thing to do" for a guy to call another guys girlfriend "hot" and "sexy" and "beautiful". He said to me "I don't know what goes on in your school and I don't trust the guys there." So, now he's mad at me for not saying anything to the guys who were merely COMPLIMENTING me. I said to him that he should be happy that another guy is telling me that I'm pretty because you're the one that is dating me and you're the one who has my heart. He said that's not the point, he doesn't want other guys saying I'm pretty. He's driving me FREAKING INSANE! I don't know what to say to him! He's never been like this up until a few weeks ago! I can't convince him that there is nothing for him to worry about. What should I do? This is getting out of control. (link)
omg wow. Talk to your boyfriend about being overprotective! He hopefully will understand. The only reason is because his ex-girlfriend cheated on him with a guy that told her that she was beautiful and he thinks your going to end up doing that.
Be careful around him. Quit myspace, but tell him you did so it will make him feel better


okay well heres the story: me and my friend have been getting in ALOT of fights lately. Mostly about nothing!! :\ so like, she always talking about how people are doing sumthin wrong and how she would do it SOOO much better and it reeealy annoys me sumtimes. theres other things like, shes always like um....no or um...thats gay and never takes in consideration of what i say. she thinks she is sooo cool and like, she could get any guy she wants. She supposovley (sopposedly...o w.e) is my 'best friend' and everything and it would be really weird if we like, stopped be together all the time. we are in most classes together, and idk... should we stay bffs should i just make new friends and forget about her? idk how to explain this, just elaborate on your answers plzz!
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Ooooooook. This is what I think you should do.
You should stay best friends with this girl, or at least give her another chance. Please be her best friend, because you don't know what your missing until it's gone. Trust me. Make new friends though, but keep the old. Hang out with your new friends, and then let her do her thing too. Maybe you guys will be BEST FRIENDS FOREVER. Or it could be a stage of friendship problems that you are going through
Rate High, Write Back
~Kendall~


Hey is it ok to flirt with your best guy friend? Cause he is like a borther to me! And he says i am his best girl friend! like a sister to him! how do i know if he likes me or something and we have talks about how good of friends we are. we also like share the same drinks and stuff like that! And we also skateboard together. And everyone thinks we are going out but we aren't! we are just friends! please help me! i rate high! (link)
If you like this guy a lot, then sure it is awesome to flirt with him! It sounds like your going out, because of all the stuff you do with him. ( i know u arnt though) you guys sound real tight like bff's, and that's ok. Ask him if he thinks of u as more of a girlfriend, then just a friend. Write back!!!
Rate High!!!! hehe
~Kendall~


Okay, He's 17, I'm 14, I really really REALLY like him and have known him for about 5-7 years. Family freinds, tight. whatever. ANd he knows I like him and he's said a bunch of times that he like's me as much, we were valentine's, have plans on "hooking up", and then I asked him what our relationship was, and he says "friends with benefits" and I was hurt by it, just because freinds with benfits sounds like he doesn't care about me as much as I do him, even though he's said it. I know age is a thing to get over, but it's not that bad. When he's 18 it'll be differnt. And he and I live in different towns, like 30 minutes away, and see eachother on vacations and what not. Distane and age is not an issue for me at all. But it is for him. And I don't know what to do, because I really like him, and can't figure out what he wants from me. Any adivce? I'll rate and whatnot.

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please rate me a 5.
Ok, this boy must be awesome!!! Keep up your relationship, it won't hit the dumps! Have you ever kissed him? Take him out sometime,
NO GIRLS EVER DO THIS:
Stare into his eyes when you are talking to him!
No girls ever do that, and you should because it is the key!! They like it when a girl listens, but make sure you have an input too, or else he will rule your relationship!
RATE ME A 5 PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! :-)
~Kendall~


i rate 5's

sorry if this gets long..

Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me! (link)
Holy Cow!!! Living with your grandparents is so hard. Trust me, my cousins had to do the same thing! 1st of all don't even think of killing yourself, cause that would make the matter even worse. If your grandparents don't want you, then just...dont do what they say. Get ready, go to school, come back, do ur homework, watch tv, then go to bed! If you have AIM or AOL IM me at xKendall10x


this boy i like likes me, but he likes another girl 2... he is going out with this girl and he doesnt know who he likes better..... what should i do? (link)
You've got a toughy. But I've got an answer! Now, this boy must be really hot to want 2 girls! I'm sure he is. Do you flirt with him?? Do u look in his direction? When you do get the chance to talk to him, make sure your staring right into his eyes. If he's already going out with someone, then odds arn't looking very good. But YOU could change that if u wanted to. Look your best, talk your best, and smile your best. Make sure he notices you.


i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do? (link)
Your mom is right. And she's wrong too!!! If you have AOL, then u should talk to him then. Age dosen't matter because I'm 14, and a 19 year old likes me! I know, scary. lol. Write to me again if it dosen't work out, or I'd love to see if it did!


My friend has just decided that he would like to join the army. I think this is crazy because he is really sensitive and I don't think he could handle it. It doesnt really help matters that I really like like him. I don't want him to go, I'm scared something bad will happen to him or that he'll be killed. I really don't think he should go because of the way he is. What should I say to him to stop him going, I really don't think he would be able to survive it.

Thanx millions for anyone who replies

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Hey,
It's his choice. Try to get him to stay because u really seem like u like this guy! He'll be ok, and if something does happen then just write to me, it'll be ok. I'm Here To Help!!!


I think I am in love with this guy. However a little while ago he told me he just wanted to be mates with me because he was in love with this other girl. Now he's over her and he's still being a little flirty with me. The big problem is another girl is moving in on my man. I know he says he just wants to be friends but I think that may have changed hopefully. I really need to act fast though if I want to keep him. Should I start flirting with him and trying to get him to ask me out again? Do you think I may have a chance with him??

Thanx, soz it's long xx (link)
keep flirting. keep making him noticing you. TRY to get him to ask u out again. It will turn out fine. Tell the girl to back off!


theres this guy i like but he doesn't know im alive???? what should i do???? (link)
Guys are like that. He will notice you. Flirt with him, but just be yourself. Don't change your clothes or your make-up (unless they're hidious) lol. It will turn out ok, and make sure you flirt!!! ;-)


dear advice givers,

my life is falling apart. the big thing happening right now though is my friends hating me. usually i can give myself advice but this is one of the worst situations ive been in. ok let me start from the beginning...

yesterday my cousin came over. i love her so much so i was cheering about to rip my homework into confetti. so anyway, she saw that i was holding school pictures so she phyced. she asked if she could see them so i said, sure, why not? she grabbed the pictures and pointed to people saying, "geek, know-it-all, freak, annoying, popular, a cross between popular and pretty, stupid," and so on. i thought that was amazing because she was right except for a few people where she called them a geek and really they weren't. well i thought it was so cool that i couldn't keep it to myself, i wanted to tell my friends what she said! so i did near the end of the school day in my last class because i was deciding whether to tell them or not through the whole day. so my friends aren't happy with what they hear. only a few of them are because they were considered popular or pretty, or both. well the other people ended up thinking that -->I (link)
Trash the away message. Give me your IM name, and then we can talk. Everyone's life falls apart, then the puzzle peices seem to fit back together. So try, try again. Apoligize to your friends. When you say everyone hates you, it actually makes YOURSELF hate YOURSELF more.

IM ME AT xkendall10x


hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him? (link)
I, personally, would wait. Guys are really hard to understand, and when they come to there senses, they're like angels. lol. You should wait for him to make the move, ask you out somewhere, or something. YOU can make a move to! Ask HIM out. I know it sounds hard, but after its over, it's not that bad~ ~Kenni~


i am SO ugly. i know most people think they're ugly when they aren't, but i AM. i've been called ugly before, i've seen mirrors (unforunately), and they look horrible lol! how can i sort myself out so i can look pretty? my hair is kinda frizzy, i've tried SO many products on it; frizz ease, pantene pro-v, andy collinge, herbal essences, sun silk.. and loads more. anyway, none of them prevented frizz or 'flyaway' hair. i have straighteners that aren't really all that good, worth about 60 quid. i want some ghds but i'd have to wait until like august to get them, for my birthday (unless it's worth spending my bank account on them?). and then there's the fact that i don't wear make-up. i haven't got a clue how to put it on. i don't even wear stuff like lipgloss, i'd probably get it all over the place, and if i tried eyeliner/mascara i'd end up poking my eye out! lol! so anyway i'm clueless when it comes to make-up, any tips on how to use it/the best make up to buy would be so helpful! i've worn lipgloss before, but it just feels so.. greasy, and uncomfortable, it was from the body shop i think.. anyway, if you can help me look pretty instead of an ugly duckling, i'll be really grateful. thankyou!! xo (link)
I can help you! All my friends say I am awesome at giving hair and make-up advice. Starting with your hair, my shampoo and conditioner and THE BEST. It might not help frizzy hair all that much, but the name of it is Aussie, and the conditioner is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! You'll have results the next day, when you feel that your hair is actually smooth! Try it. For make-up, truthfully, I only wear mascara and lip-gloss! lol. Watermelon lip gloss is nice,and u should get used to the feeling because after a while it feels ok. Mascara is good though. Check out magazines or ask a Make-Up Clerk how to put it on! ~Kenni~


Hi Kendall what's up!!!!!I have a really annoying friend named Andrea what should I do?????!!!!hahahahaha!!!!!!lolz (link)
You goofball. Andrea is weird, no doubt about that, so be her friend and get over it. lol. u rock miss anonomus! (lol yeah rite) Ask her Q's at pinayprodigy!


Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what? (link)
Ok, you've got a problem here. But I have the answers. If you're friend met him over the internet, he's probably not what he seems. And YOU deserve better. If you're talking about a chatroom guy, then TRUST ME! Do not like him. I have been there, done that, and it's NOT fun. So you can still talk to him (just dont over-do it) If you feel comfertable w/ it. But otherwise, leave him alone and tell Jackie what I said about him being in a chatroom. latta! :)


today my friend was over at his grandmothers house which is only 5 houses down and after school we went for a walk with my dog. well he grabed my hand and pulled me or should i say dragged me and my dog into the woods. he slung me down on the ground he pulled his dick out and wus rubbing all up on me with it. he wanted me to give him a blow job but i didn't want to thats just nasty. so he was like forcing me too then i pushed him against a tree then he looked like he was about to slap the crap out of me i was so scared. i don't know what i should do i want to tell my mom but then she will never let me near him again but i don't want to be friends with him anymore and if i tell her shell like be all overpertected and she already is. so what do i do i'm so scared and confused.

sorry this is so long (link)
Wow. U must have been so scared. I would ignore him. And, I would tell your mom. If you don't feel comfertable telling her, then don't. But I would. Now about this crazyass boy, if he actually did that to you, then he is frickin incredible. Don't look at him, or go near him, or even talk to him. Just ignore him, then see what happens! If it dosn't work out them IM me at xKendall10x or just write me another letter.




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