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UGH Friend Problem : (
okay well heres the story: me and my friend have been getting in ALOT of fights lately. Mostly about nothing!! :\ so like, she always talking about how people are doing sumthin wrong and how she would do it SOOO much better and it reeealy annoys me sumtimes. theres other things like, shes always like um....no or um...thats gay and never takes in consideration of what i say. she thinks she is sooo cool and like, she could get any guy she wants. She supposovley (sopposedly...o w.e) is my 'best friend' and everything and it would be really weird if we like, stopped be together all the time. we are in most classes together, and idk... should we stay bffs should i just make new friends and forget about her? idk how to explain this, just elaborate on your answers plzz!
_anonymous
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Ooooooook. This is what I think you should do.
You should stay best friends with this girl, or at least give her another chance. Please be her best friend, because you don't know what your missing until it's gone. Trust me. Make new friends though, but keep the old. Hang out with your new friends, and then let her do her thing too. Maybe you guys will be BEST FRIENDS FOREVER. Or it could be a stage of friendship problems that you are going through
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anonymous -
I've been through the same path here too. My best advice to you is to sit down and have a serious talk with her. First of all, mention that you're talking to her because her friendship means a lot to you and that you're not trying to hurt her, you're just telling her the truth. Otherwise if you deny the situation, you're not being completely honest with her and you end up miserable.
But back to talking with her, just basically tell her how you feel. Like your feelings get hurt when she says those inconsiderate things and that sometimes she gives off the impression that she's conceited. You're only looking out for her, so tell her that you don't want others to think of her as someone that she isn't, but if she keeps acting this way she'll get treated like dirt down the line (on top of that, guys will think she's easy).
If she overreacts, just reassure her that you're not out there to hurt her or try to change her, you're only trying to improve your friendship and her self-image. And remind her that it's better to tell the truth rather than ignore it and withold information right?
Hope this helps and good luck hun!
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I'm guessing that you guys hang together outside of school alot. Well quit doing that for awhile. When people hang with eachother 24/7 it gets old adn you get on eachothers nerves alot, so you just need to take a break. Also you might want to talk to her about it, so she doesnt think your just leaving her.
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