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I'm not sexually active or anything but I can feel liek that vagina like inside of my body hurts really bad.
And it hurts even more when I spread my legs but i dunno why it really hurts! This is my last day of my period.
Is there anything i can do? (link)
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yes deff go to the doctor to make sure every things ok cervicle cancer is very common these day im not saying to worry you be seriously get it checked out i rather be safe than sorry
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I'm trying to make amends with my best guy friend. We could talk about ANYTHING and we used to hang out. I miss that so now I'm talking to him a lot more to get closer to him again. I've noticed this though.. Right before he goes to bed, I say "I wuv/love you" He really does mean a lot to me.
I have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me. But honestly, i don't love him. I take LOVE seriously. It's only been 3 months.. I've talked to him about this and I'll tell him when the feelings right ..when I'm ready. But this is my question: is telling some other guy that I "love" him.. bad?
My best guy friend.. we had a past together and we dated for over 13 months. My boyfriend knows about that.
Is this cheating of some sort? I'm so confused as to what it is.. (link)
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maybe you to really never got over each other and if you dont love your boyfriend the way he loves you what are you still doing with him be fair to him and hopefully he'll find somebody who does its not your fault we cant help how we love maybe you and your friend should do a little remanising and see if its still there i hope i helped goodluck
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okay, I don't want to make this a really long story but I dated this guy for 8 months...we broke up the end of February. He was my first "real" boyfriend and I was crushed when he said we should see other people. After about a month I realized things about our relationship that I couldn't see when I was in it. I've met a new guy now and we've been dating almost two months. The two of them are like opposites. My new guy is so sweet. I've been feeling like he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Yesterday, my ex called me and wanted to know if we could go out again. I guess he had looked at my myspace because he knew that I was seein someone else. He was begging me to give him another chance. I can't believe that I am thinking about it even though I know that it will mess up what I have with this new guy. Is it possible to like two guys at the same time? Why do I want to go back to the "bad" guy and chance losing this guy that has been nothin but great??? (link)
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classic beleive me its totally normal and it sux but we always fall for the bad boys ok think about what happened to make you guys break up in the first place what didnt you like about him and think about the guy you have more. think who can you absoulty not live with out who do you think about more you know but remeber your ex hurt you once theres no garantuee that he wont do it again but are you willing to take that risk and think maybe your thinking about your ex because your relationship never really had a closer you know so think do you want to dump the new for the old and hope you made the right descion im sorry i cant tell you who u should choose because honestly ive been in your sito a few times and yet i always fall for the bad guys some times i have regrets but than i knew me and the others would never work and sometimes i always wondered what if i choose him well you live and you learn i hope i helped goodluck
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for more than a year (I broke up with him once a couple months back for another guy but we got back together). I love him, but lately he has been criticizing things I do, even good things, making good grades, even my clothes and hair. He says he still loves and cares about me. Then there is this other guy. Him and I have been good friends for a while, but then a week ago we both just randomly started flirting with each other. Our parents are friends, and we both show animals, so we see each other a lot. After the flirting, we both realized we like each other. His girlfriend broke up w/ him for another guy a couple weeks ago, and he says I'm the only one he wants now. I like him, but I dont want to dump my longtime boyfriend if it turns out to be a mistake like it was last time. It feels so right to be with the other guy, but I dont want to break my boyfriends heart again...I'm so confused...help (link)
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well you said yourself its not like it use to be and you dont want to break your boyfriend heart but if you really dont care for him like he suppossly cares for you your breaking his heart anyway and your right you have to think do you want to take the risk and go for the other guy you never no it could be the best thing you ever did or it could be a big mistake just think are you willing to loose your boyfriend and if the answers yes than go for it because you obviousy dont care for him as much as you use to 1yr is a long time but maybe its time to part you know you live and you learn do what ever you feel is right and it sounds to me its not with your boyfreind goodluck i hope i helped my columes open if you ever need more help
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and at practice she likes to "show things off" quite a bit and i swear she's always trying to come on to me but she's straight so should i go for her or not? (link)
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i wouldnt until see makes the first move so that way it cant back fire on you i mean flirt do what you need to do but remeber she could turn it all around on you i hope i helped goodluck my colum always open if you need anymore help
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i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha
just some kind of tip for us. thanks. (link)
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its actually a known fact no lie that if you dont masterbate its harder for a women to get an orgasim so what are you waiting for pet that kitty ha ha how do you expect somebody to give you an orgasm when you cant even do it yourself find you spots and guide him and i also 4 play sex helps but honey masterbate i have no shame in my game lol keep it real lol and if you tips on how my advice colume is always open hope i helped goodluck
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15/m.... me and my boyfriend (16/m) were having sex and he had a condom on. During the sex, which was my first time, and I loved it, his condom came off and when he pulled his dick out the condom wasn't there and we couldn't find it.. like I don't even feel it.
What should I do? (link)
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well since it says m on both ages im going to assume that your both males and you said that you couldnt feel the condom well i dont think its you know in the ass because i dont think you can even go up that far maybe it fell off on the bed or whatever an if you didnt shit it out already i dout its still up there lol but eighter way if your that worried about c a docter i hope i helped goodluck oh p.s. you might want to get better condoms and if your not both males than also c a doctor
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When a guy and a girl are walking eachother, who's are goes on the other person's shoulders, and who's goes around the other one's waist? (link)
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does it really matter as long as it happens you know pickers cant be choosers lol just as long as there arm touching you lol
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So, basically this big drama has come up, leaving me with no school friends. I'm innocent, but if they want to treat me like that fine whatever.
So what do I during school? Like classes and lunchtime. If I could make new friends I would, but I can't as I go to a small school and I have a bad reputation (Not as a slut, as a 'loser') so no one goes near me in case they get picked on too.
Even if this all blows over (Hopefully it will) What do I do while I wait for it blow over?
Thanks for your time (link)
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we've all been through the whole drama scene but honestly if your friends dont beleive them than they can go fuck them selves it'll wane down it always does sure it seems like it wont but it will until then just bang it out and find better friends one's who'll beleive and even though your known as the loser there are plenty other people who are bigger losers than you
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i am from England. I love a lad that I met on a chat room and he doesn't love me back he lives in another country and he hasn't emailed me for almost two months. I do love him though what shall i do?
lv frm Emi07 (link)
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it sux i know but i know its gonna be easier said than done but its best if you just forget him because hes in a different country and he hasnt e mailed you in 2 months i know thats its easier said than done but bascially it was like a dream or rather a fanatsy and all fanatsys and dreams come to an end and i know it sux but i now its time to come back to reality it was fun while it lasted you know dont put yourself through anymore pain than necessary you know besides long distance relationships never work im sorry and i hope you find somebody better goodluck
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so theres this guy names tony and i really like him and i have had my best friend talk to him and he was thinking about asking me out. well i ended up asking him out and he hasent answered and its been about 4 day. should i ask him again or leave him alone! (link)
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classic asshole leave him be he obviouly played you honey you asked him out and he didnt answer you for 4 days i would say thats a no but you dont need him act like it didnt even phase you, and if he wants it he'll come to you other wise theres plenty of other fishes in the sea so get your fishing gear and get ready to hook your self a fish better than the last goodluck
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how do i get rid of the dark circles under my eyes? (link)
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sleep lol but no i have the same problem its stress and not having a good night sleep but fucking A thats life right ok you can try cover up or they have this cream night cream or something that you can put on your eyes or freeze a metal spoon and put it on the bottom where your circles are i hope i helped good luck
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okay so theres this guy that i like alot.
&&i want to go out with him so badd !
but besidess that i think i'm in love with him.
how do you know when your in love?
thanks
--Ashley (link)
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first remner theres an major difference between like and love and loving somebody and being in love with somebody also between crushing and lusting you know when your in love with somebody when you only have eyes for them you see only them every time they smile you smile you feel safe sercure and happy and so much other things only you can decide when your really in love and if your asking than im not sure you are because it hits you like a lighting flash but if you are than go for it or else your'll regret it in the long wrong whether he says yes or no you know you tried and no one can fault you for that i hope i helped
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I need a really good song that has powerful
lyrics describing loving someone or trying
to get over someone. I would rather have a
not as "well-known" song over an over-played
song. I don't care what genre and more than
one is good!
Thank youu! (link)
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ok well im a bitter yet sweet romantic songs that are trying to get over people or wanting someone back well im an oldies kinda gurl so
1.deff leppard, love and hate collide, love bites,two steps behind
2.stix,dont let it end,and other stix songs
3.look at some of jon bon jovi's songs
ok and love songs you have to go with really these three major groups
1,boston,great bitter sweet love songs ,ex.more than a feeling,a man i'll never be,amanda and plenty of songs from there greatest hits album
2.journey, great love songs again ex.loving touching another, open arms and others look on greatest hits cd's
3.chicgo, great great songs really good insperation,love tonight and so many others search and your'll love what you see beleive sorry there oldies but hey they did it right the first time they shouldnt try to remake it lol hope i helped
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Okay, I have no idea what to do. I found out yesterday that my bff is cutting and doing drugs. She has cuts ALL OVER her arms and stuff and it's really scary. And she told me that she's been doing drugs but didn't tell me what. I talked to her and shes acts like it's no big deal. I mean, her brother recently was diagonosed (sp?) with cancer and her parents are getting divorced so that may have something to do with it. But I really don't want to find her dead one day. I need help. What should I do? (link)
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this always a tough one your gonna have to risk losing here tell somebody to help her because obviously talking to here anit helping you she might hate u at first but shall respect you in the long run would you rather risk loosing her or watching her kill her self and you had the power to stop her but didnt think about it goodluck and i say this because i use to be a cutter
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hi! i like these boys that r in my school and in six grade but im in seventh but they r so cute me and my friends even made nick names for them (small one and tall one) should i ask one of them out or not and am i to old for them r they to young for me (im 13 not sure there age )please please answer me i need to know
xoxo,
love ya,
katie (link)
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no of course not your only one grade higher than them so most likly there only one year younger than you if not the same age so go for it one years really not that big of a difference your learn that when your in high school beleive me you have seniors going out with 8th and 9th graders so i dont think you should worry grab them before some one else does and remeber who gives a shit what any body else thinks
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I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother? (link)
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well it seems to me that she only likes you as a friend if it took here a month to answer and she still didnt answer than i think thats your answer right there she anit feeling you the way your feeling her so i would try stay clear before you get into deep because it doesnt seemk like its happenig for you to
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im 14, neerly 15 nad a girl and was jst wanting to ask if i am a slut. coz a few gurls in my school keep callin my that, and a few boys. well a few months ago i had my first experiance with sex. i was at a boys house with two of his mates and we started messing around, and i gave my first blowjobs to them. and cuple of weeks later i had sex with one of them and now were going out as a cuple, but still hanging out with his mates. some of d gurls in ma school hav had sex too but they r callin me a slut, n ma bf ses it sumtyms when im going down on him. i dont get it coz ppl dont call those girls sluts. am i really a slut? (link)
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no your not you just made an wrong decision they problem call you a slut because you did both or a few you know maybe your not a slut but you did make a wrong decision just try to make better decisions the next time and tell all the other gurls to stop hating and mind there busniess
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My friend Jane ask me a question that i thougt she all ready knew the answer cause a anime book explanes it. she ask "how can same sex people fall in love?" my answer "people will fall in love with someone that has a wonderful personlity, you just like that person cause how they treat you and make you feel. Just like the anime book Gravition the character Hiro explains it." do you think that was a good answer? Hiro in gravition explains it like i did but more info in it and i thougt Jane will know, cause she read gavition and she lead me the book to read. why would she ask me?
FYI: I'm a Female. (link)
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yes i agree that was a good answer it dosent manner how you look or who you are you cant help who you fall in love with same sex or not so good advice
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ok well i started going out with this guy in like oct. 06 and on halloween night he dumped me cause he wanted to go out with someone else and then in dec. he called me and was like "your the only girl i can think about i really love you" (BLA BLA BLA) so i gave hom another chance. then i dumped him cause his best friends told me he was cheating on me. now i think he over me. i see him everyday and he has a girlfriend even thogh he flirts with almost every one. but for some reason i cant stop thinkin bout him i know he did me wrong and that he probably over me but i still like him alot and i dont know how to get over him
HELP ME PLZ (link)
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classic always falling for the assholes ok i know its gonna be hard but think about all the bad things hes done to you all the bullshit lines that he has told you and tell yourself over and over that you dont need him and your to good for him and i know that its easier said than done but its gonna take time and remeber its gonna be hard and its gonna take time and a lot of self control and its not gonna happen over night but you can do it dont be another victium of an cheating asshole you dont need him you never did just realize that goodluck i hope i helped
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