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he cheated on me but i cant get over him
ok well i started going out with this guy in like oct. 06 and on halloween night he dumped me cause he wanted to go out with someone else and then in dec. he called me and was like "your the only girl i can think about i really love you" (BLA BLA BLA) so i gave hom another chance. then i dumped him cause his best friends told me he was cheating on me. now i think he over me. i see him everyday and he has a girlfriend even thogh he flirts with almost every one. but for some reason i cant stop thinkin bout him i know he did me wrong and that he probably over me but i still like him alot and i dont know how to get over him
HELP ME PLZ
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well that same thing pretty much happened to me, talk to him about it, tell him how u feel, and ask him if he really did cheat on you, you can confront him in person, on instant message,or myspace, just talk to him, and to get over him, try to look for new boys, like go to the mall, and just look to get your mind off of him, or do something that destracts you from thinking of him all the time like a sport or something. i hope i helped =]
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classic always falling for the assholes ok i know its gonna be hard but think about all the bad things hes done to you all the bullshit lines that he has told you and tell yourself over and over that you dont need him and your to good for him and i know that its easier said than done but its gonna take time and remeber its gonna be hard and its gonna take time and a lot of self control and its not gonna happen over night but you can do it dont be another victium of an cheating asshole you dont need him you never did just realize that goodluck i hope i helped
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Just give yourself time - that's really the only way to get over someone. I have been through this with my ex as well (and because of her I have remained single for about 2 years now because of the scar she left behind) but she had also cheated on me and I think a lot more than just once. I knew she had done some bad things before I started going out with her (I mean how many people do you know who would sleep with their own sisters bf?) but I seriously thought she would change and more importantly, like you, I wanted to give her a second chance because it seems no one else would.
I gave her a chance and she pretty much threw it back in my face so it was over and I haven't spoken to her since even though she had tried to contact me a number of times since then. It takes a lot of time to get over someone. As much as I hated her Iwould end up still thinking about her a lot and it took me a VERY long time to get over her. I think you were really nice in giving him a second chance and it was his own fault that he messed that second chance up. The way I see it you can do a LOT better than someone like him. Just give yourself some time though. It may not totally take away what you feel but it will certainly help you to move on and put it behind you.
Love is a wonderful thing but if it has any flaws it's that it will make people stop thinkingwith their heads and start thinking with their hearts. Not a good transition when the other person turns out to be something their not.
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