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Loner in school
So, basically this big drama has come up, leaving me with no school friends. I'm innocent, but if they want to treat me like that fine whatever.
So what do I during school? Like classes and lunchtime. If I could make new friends I would, but I can't as I go to a small school and I have a bad reputation (Not as a slut, as a 'loser') so no one goes near me in case they get picked on too.
Even if this all blows over (Hopefully it will) What do I do while I wait for it blow over?
Thanks for your time<3
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Ughh...I'm going throught the same bs at my school...life can sometimes be...BLA!! well, the point is, I've come to realize, where ever you go, there's always gonna be someone to start drama, and someone who talks about you or puts your name in the situation. People are just like that. && I dont know what grade yur in rite now, but highschool SERIOUSLY makes ju realize what ur parents may have been telling ju all yur life: friends aren't good for you, you can't trust anyone with ur deepest secrets, and everyone has some evil in them, even ju when ju come to the realization...the best thing to do is either be proud to be a "loner", as am I (people respect you more when they see yur independence), make it clear to people that being alone does not affect ju in a negative way watsoever, or find a cousin or something. Blood is, after all, thicker than water. Good, trustable friends are impossible to find these days...if it helps any, no matter how surrounded of "friends" plp may be, deep inside they feel alone as well, hope I helped <3
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KILL EVREYEONE!!!!!
just kidding... lol welll dont do anything if you feel uncomfortable going to that school seeing its small school, why not try moving schools to a bigger one? Maybe you'll find more friends there! :D anwyayz you'll always have friends everywhere you go. So yerr... for lunchtimes and classtime
just when you get picked on, stand up for yourself, they'll probably back down. All the lebs (no offence) they full go up to you and say what do you want and stuff like that. and when you talk back to them and ask for a real fight, they back out :P
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we've all been through the whole drama scene but honestly if your friends dont beleive them than they can go fuck them selves it'll wane down it always does sure it seems like it wont but it will until then just bang it out and find better friends one's who'll beleive and even though your known as the loser there are plenty other people who are bigger losers than you
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Make friends outside of school. Maybe a cousin your own age, a sister or brother your age, maybe your mom has a friend who has a daughter in another school close by..get to know them. Are there county activities? Like festivals,etc? Maybe meet some people there..or at a teen night somewhere. Join a youth group at church, get a part time job, tutor/volunteer helping younger kids, join a sport or club. These are all great ideas to try for the time being. (im sure all this will pass over too.) In school focus on yourself. Maybe during free time go to the library to study more or get headstarts on projects. Or you can go to gym during these free times in school and work out or something.
I hope it all goes well!
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