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how do you do this kind of makeup
http://a386.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/6/l_78aec87f217ca00c472842e9195d6bc9.jpg

you get liquid eye shadows and some bronzer...use lip gloss not lip stick with a clear coat over it..then you put on a thick mascara and eyeliner tehn put eyeliner on the lid of your eye close to the lash

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gender: f
age: 13

so me and my friends have nicknames... and for some reason mine is "bonejumper"
they say that it is someone who looks for hot guys... but i just want to make sure, just in case it is not pererted...
so please tell me what it means

Well it's not exactly a good name it means someone who get turned on very easily and is always looking for someone to turn them on...

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I need some cheap, nice christmas presents to give my friends. either presents, or maybe making something? that i can hand out to them like on thursday/friday. im a 13 year old girl and all my gifts are to girls. and maybe some teachers.. all my teachers are girls except for 1 old dude, lol. thanks a lot for the help, i really dont know what to get them for xmas! its making me so anxious!!

Well what i do is make either cookies, brownies, cupcakes or something like that but i only have four really close friends and so i get them all like books if they like them or things they are into

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well my ex is at again... he told my bf that i cheated on him with an ex from years ago who isnt even in town and lives far away...wtf...well now my bf and ex are becoming good buddies and my bf said he was sorry for asuming in an email but then when i talked to him he said he jsut wants to drop it and he dont believe me but he jsut wants ot be with me so bad that he dont care... ok if i cheated would i be here trying to figure it out... no and i didnt and i swear on my life.... how do i get him to believe me... ps i have cheated on him once before but so has he... so taht makes it harder please help

Well if he just wants to drop it because he loves you and wants to be with you i would just forget that anything happened. Just dont make any contact with your ex unless you absolutly have to and dont do anything that would make him think other wise..try to be with him and make him feel like he is the only one for you by reminding him of how much you love him and dont want things to end and how happy he makes you.

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15/f
dating my boyfriend for a year && a half; hes 15 too. were serious about our relationship, dont doubt our age. anyways i really have no idea what to make/get him for xmas. i just bought him a shirt && made him a pillow that said i love you. hes not really into jewlery, has plenty of shoes, doesn't play video games.. he wrestles. but i have no idea what to make/get himm! ah help? =)

um..this is hard one...i would get him a gift card so he can get what he wants and will like. Then i would also get him a card that is blank inside and write him a poem beause they are always special.
Or bake him some cookies or something like that.

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14/f. I want to get this guy I like something for christmas, but I don't know what. He is 17 and ummm and junior, he is like into music and freestyling, also into bloodz, I don't know what to get him but I need to get him somethingg but not really expensizze. Advice please?

so get him a voice recorder they are only like thirty dollars at the most in most electronic stores that way he can freestyle his music and then laydown tracks

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does anyone know where i can get a pair of socks like these in this picture?



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thanks alot to everyone!

have you tried ebay yet? or target and sometimes crazy places like rue 21 or beinia might have them

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16/f

Jon told me he loved me. I got totally weirded out, honestly. Being so young, and the fact that there is no way he could possibly genuinely love me in a boyfriend way made me uncomfortable. I don't know what to say but "no you don't." :/

help.

Tell him something like this..we are still so young and there is still so much you don't know about me and who i am. And i believe that if you are going to tell someone you love them you must know them very well and all there dark little secrets. You may think you love me but do you really or is it a strong like? Before i cna believe what you say is true you have to make me belive it.

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i have a pink chi hair straightener and i know there is a way to curl it

ive tried it before with some videos on youtube but they dont help to much

if anyone could get me a step by step on how to do it thatd be great

or tell me from personal experiences

thank you!


btw if it matters i have really long hair

type it in online and the yr and the model and it should give you step by step instructions on how to do it

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K so i just found out that a friend of mine is inviting some people to hang out with her on friday. even my two sisters were invited! but i wasnt invited though. we are best friends so i dont no why i wasnt invited but im upset about it. i no she isnt mad at me but i still dont no why.

you need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and let her know that it bothers you and tell her that your friendship means alot to you but it doesn't seem like it means alot to her and you just want to know where your friendship stands.

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okay so i just moved to a new school about a month or so ago.(freshmen) And i really really like this kid named cody. I talk to him sometimes but not as much. how can i get him to notice me and talk to me? and posably like me?
Thanks in advance.
15/f

umm... start a friendship first and really get to know him and then in time like after you get pretty close tell him how you feel because every good relationship starts with a friendship foundation.

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i really like this guy, i meen a wholllee lot. and i know he likes me back ( my friends know they told me and so on..) We talk, oh yes alot. ON THE COMPUTER. hes in practically all my classes and we never even say one word to eachother. were like best friends on the comp. and complete strangers in reality. it sucks.. real bad. Im shy, i'll admit it. i know. i have said hi to him but it seems thats all i can get in. i wish it was him who was the conversation starter, but im pretty its both of us that are shy.

advice on how to talk to him in reality?? aha. wow. that sounds reeally pathetic, but it happens and i do need advice.

i'd appreciate it so muchhhhhh

ty.

-too shy to say hi.

Well the best thing to do is think he likes you so don't be shy there's little you can do to mess up things now...just think of it like being on the computer...just forget about all the feelings and let things flow.

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Ok the girl i like got in trouble by her parents cause a guy she was texting said he wanted to send her a pic of his penis and her parents saw it... well now becuae of that we dont think her parents would let us go out and plus to make things worst im a senior and she is a freshmen (Both in High School) so her parents just think i want to have sex witch i really dont i really like her what should i do?

Ok the best thing to do is to hangout with her as just friends first and let her parents get to know you a little first. Then ask her parents in person(when she isn't around), if it would be ok to date their daughter....
explain to them that you really like her and you don't want to have sex..that it doesn't even matter because their daughter has alot to offer in a relationship other than sex
if you ask them first they will be more likely to approve of the relationship and things will be better..

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What age do you think is the right age to have a boyfriend? I am 13 but Im not sure what age is the right time. Thanks!

There really isn't an age it's more meturity than anything and i personally think from experience that you should wait as long as you possibly can because they aren't always the best memories in the world so yeh wait gurl you still have time... nows the time to enjoy being a kid and friends and school!

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even though guy i like kisses me on the cheek I HATE IT and i dont like kisses from my family or friends or guys whats wrong with me? but when my pets kisses im okay with it but not them
please help >.< i dont like kisses and i dont like giving one too cheeks and lips whats wrong with me?

Umm... this one is hard..........
Well maybe it's because kisses on the cheek are for little kids and it may make you feel like a little kid..... everyone has there pet peeves...this one just happens to be your pet peeve! It's ok...if you really want him to stop the best thing to do is just to talk to him about it

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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused

Well it seems like he likes you but he isn't sure how you will react because he dated your sister so there will always be that tention there. And that makes things difficult because not only does his friend like you but there is going to be issues at home too. As for the friend just tell him how you feel about him....tell him you are not interested and he may be mad at first but he will get over it an relize it was for the better because if there are no feelings there on one part then it will fail...you have to have the same feelings on both sides to make it work and to also be happy.
You should go to the game and make him go wow.Then tell him how you feel and lay it flat out that you really like him.

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Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[

Well no it's the sugar that you gain from it that causes the brake outs and if you are brakeing out stay away from junk food.

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I really want a boyfriend but i dont know how to make guys know i want one. i dont think i am very pretty so that doesnt help but i see people in the hallways with boyfriend and girlfriends and they all look so happy! i really want that! i want a boyfriend that knows me really well and really likes me but i dont know what to do. please help!

You need slf confidence and to gain that you need to start talking to people more and then in time you will have a relationship.

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Hi I'm Callie and I'm 15 years old and I like this boy named Mike...and he is always flirting with me at my lunch table because he sits with me and my friends... I just met him this school year so I just started liking him and so I thught since he flirts with me he might like me, I told him on myspace that I wanted to tell him something and he said what is it and I told him to guess and he guessed that my friend liked him because thats what me and him were talking about the previous night my friend doesnt realy like him and he knows that but then I said no she doesnt like you so then he didnt answer me so I sent him another message saying that it was me that liked him and so he wouldnt answer me for a while so i sent him another message saying thats its not a big deal and to please answer me. so eventually he answered me and all he said was ..."Well I haven't known you for very long, and I have a lot on my mind right now" thats all he said what does he mean exactly?. That he might like me or that he doesnt im very upset because I got rejected last year too and I really liked that kid too so I was hoping this year I am not being rejected by him! I am Soo confused!!

PLease help!

I think it means that he has feelings there for you but he doesn't yet know you well enough to really get into a relationship. So don't press the subject and just give him sometime......hang out more as just friends and if there are really feelings there then it will happen. Love is like fire the componets to make it are always there and the littlest flicker will set it off!

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There's this girl who I really admire.
We're in the same grade, but don't really talk that much...we're friendly though.
But she hangs out with these people who lately have been getting in with the wrong things...
like drugs, alcohol, sex, and stuff.
But she's above everything.
And she's a really strong person.
And I want to let her know...without creeping her out and seeming like I'm into her business
help?

Tell her how much you care about her and try to show her what will probablly happen if she keeps hanging out with the wrong choice of people and even if she doesn't listen.....just be there for her when things start to fall apart and she needs a true friend that she can trust and just remember things are going to get worse before they get better.

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