Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 10:20 pm
Ok the girl i like got in trouble by her parents cause a guy she was texting said he wanted to send her a pic of his penis and her parents saw it... well now becuae of that we dont think her parents would let us go out and plus to make things worst im a senior and she is a freshmen (Both in High School) so her parents just think i want to have sex witch i really dont i really like her what should i do?
BitsandPieces answered Thursday December 6 2007, 11:33 am: Why don't you want sex? Ha-Ha, you can't fool me or anyone else...because we all want sex. It is normal and natural and wonderful...just not with someone who is not ready and mature enough to be with. So, the best thing to do in this matter is face up to reality. This girl is off limits to you as a girlfriend until she turns 18 and is no longer jailbait. There are millions of other young women out there that are your age that would be better girlfriends. You can be friends for now, but no dating. Be honest with yourself...every relationship has an ultimate goal. You need to put this girl's well-being first and ahead of your own feelings. It is never in a freshman girl's best interest to date a senior...ever. The best intentions usually fall apart and the results are painful. If you pursue her rather than release her, than you don't like her as much as you protest to. Be a man and step back from this one for the time being. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
torresjasmyne answered Thursday December 6 2007, 9:55 am: Ok the best thing to do is to hangout with her as just friends first and let her parents get to know you a little first. Then ask her parents in person(when she isn't around), if it would be ok to date their daughter....
explain to them that you really like her and you don't want to have sex..that it doesn't even matter because their daughter has alot to offer in a relationship other than sex
if you ask them first they will be more likely to approve of the relationship and things will be better.. [ torresjasmyne's advice column | Ask torresjasmyne A Question ]
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