Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 10:19 pm
i really like this guy, i meen a wholllee lot. and i know he likes me back ( my friends know they told me and so on..) We talk, oh yes alot. ON THE COMPUTER. hes in practically all my classes and we never even say one word to eachother. were like best friends on the comp. and complete strangers in reality. it sucks.. real bad. Im shy, i'll admit it. i know. i have said hi to him but it seems thats all i can get in. i wish it was him who was the conversation starter, but im pretty its both of us that are shy.
advice on how to talk to him in reality?? aha. wow. that sounds reeally pathetic, but it happens and i do need advice.
i'd appreciate it so muchhhhhh
ty.
-too shy to say hi.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BitsandPieces answered Thursday December 6 2007, 11:40 am: Does he know you are the one talking with him on the computer I hope? Okay then, keep that up and just be casual in class. You don't have to have deep conversations face to face. "Hey what's up, Did you get your work finished?" is one example of normal and acceptable conversation starter...address this guy like you would your brother or a friend or a guy you don't feel butterflys in your stomach for. You can be nervous and talk at the same time, just keep it short and sweet. It is hot to leave him wanting more and not bore him to death anyway. Guys don't need words as much as we do, but they go bananas for any signs of respect, approval and appreciation...throw a little compliment his way now and again and he will be eating them out of your pretty hand. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
torresjasmyne answered Thursday December 6 2007, 9:58 am: Well the best thing to do is think he likes you so don't be shy there's little you can do to mess up things now...just think of it like being on the computer...just forget about all the feelings and let things flow. [ torresjasmyne's advice column | Ask torresjasmyne A Question ]
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