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This girl


Question Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 5:36 pm

There's this girl who I really admire.
We're in the same grade, but don't really talk that much...we're friendly though.
But she hangs out with these people who lately have been getting in with the wrong things...
like drugs, alcohol, sex, and stuff.
But she's above everything.
And she's a really strong person.
And I want to let her know...without creeping her out and seeming like I'm into her business
help?


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torresjasmyne answered Thursday October 4 2007, 12:10 pm:
Tell her how much you care about her and try to show her what will probablly happen if she keeps hanging out with the wrong choice of people and even if she doesn't listen.....just be there for her when things start to fall apart and she needs a true friend that she can trust and just remember things are going to get worse before they get better.

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denialsam answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 8:54 pm:
I think you should just come out and say it. It's not like you're a complete stranger to her, and she seems really nice and like a genuine good person, so she should appreciate you telling her how you feel about her staying 'above the influence' and such. I know I'd take that as a great compliment and I would hope she does too. Just mention it to her when you see her and are having a small casual conversation. It really shouldn't creep her out, she should be flattered.

You never know, she might even be feeling pressured to do all the drugs and sex etc, maybe you telling her how you feel will reinforce her decisions to not partake in all those wrong decisions her friends are making.

Good luck.

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CuteSweetie answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 8:25 pm:
if shes in all these wrong things u shouldnt talk 2 her unless ur really mad abt her.

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