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plz help me i see him in 4 hours
ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
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Well it seems like he likes you but he isn't sure how you will react because he dated your sister so there will always be that tention there. And that makes things difficult because not only does his friend like you but there is going to be issues at home too. As for the friend just tell him how you feel about him....tell him you are not interested and he may be mad at first but he will get over it an relize it was for the better because if there are no feelings there on one part then it will fail...you have to have the same feelings on both sides to make it work and to also be happy.
You should go to the game and make him go wow.Then tell him how you feel and lay it flat out that you really like him.
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Okay, slow down. You're making this all about him. It's really about you.
Do you want to go the game, or is your main motivation for going just to see him? If it's mainly to see him, go do something else. If you truly want to see the game, then go, but try to sit where you're out of view, enjoy the game on your own (with other friends or whatever) and just go about your normal life.
Dress normal and act normal, which may mean jeans, a tee and a wave Hello in passing - remember that whatever attracted you to him and vice versa happened long before you started trying to "doll up" for him specifically. Just be your genuine, sweet self.
As for his ex girlfriend, just because people choose not to be intimate doesn't mean they can't be friends. Those two may be friends for the rest of their lives. That's a reality you're going to have to accept and get over. If you try to yank his attention away from her to you, she may notice, say something that will make him think twice about you, and thus kill the deal before you ever get the truth of his feelings. After all, if he still considers her a friend, he'll still respect her expressed opinion, whether it's honestly how she feels or not. Guys can't seem to figure out when they're being played very easily.
You're better than that - a lot better. You know who you are, what you like and don't like, and who you really want to spend time with. If he chooses to look elsewhere, it's his loss. You're still on track. Once you realize that, things get a lot easier.
The bottom line is motivation. Define how you truly feel about him, and his friend. Make a list, write a poem, sing a song - whatever it takes. Then sit both of them down one at a time, and honestly talk to them.
Don't just listen to what they say - what their physical language. Arms/legs crossed, lack of eye contact, twitches or something similar can all mean at the very least, there's something they're not telling you, and at the worst, that they're completely lying. Phone and text don't work. Look them in the eye, tell them how you feel, and ask them to level with you.
Have a great weekend, and remember, stay on point. It's all about you, and getting to the heart of the matter. Stay focused, and you'll be just fine!
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I think you most certainly go to the football game. You can't let a boy run your life to the point that you don't do things you want for fear of him being somewhere/doing something. Don't go because he's going to be there, go because you frigging want to.
If he makes the choice or acts as if he wants to talk to you, by all means talk to him. If he doesn't, don't let it bother you. And if it secretly does, don't let him know it. Have fun- You may like him, but you don't have to be miserable if he doesn't like you back.
Dress comfortably. Don't try to hard to impress, because it will end up blowing up in your face. Dress nice. A little makeup, something cute with your hair, but where something that isn't too "showy" or "flashy"
Let me know what happened.
Email me or something: choke0nlove@yahoo.com
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