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My name is Kacie and I'm 16 years old. It's always good to get another person's opinion on your problems and maybe an outsider will have more insight on the situation! Hope I can help you out.
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!!
I understand where you're coming from, wanting to try it. I say if you get to the point that you want to and you're not having so many second thoughts then go for it. It doesn't mean its going to be a life long habit. I would say try it once, and move on. Don't become a pothead... **Kacie**
On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :(
Don't worry about it. You don't have to expect the worse there is probably an explination. Or maybe there's not but still don't expect the worst ... just don't worry about it until you hear from him so you can know if ur fears are real or not. **KACIE**
I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ?
That is definitaly NOT fat! You have a body mass index of 20.7, which is at the 59th percentile. A healthy BMI is between the 5th and the 89th percentile. You fall right in there. Don't worry, really. If it's the sitting out that has u worried, start working out to tone up.
This started a few years ago. When im in a public bathroom with people I don't know, I have problems urinating. Like my whole body tenses up and I just can't. If it's with my buds or something I don't have a problem, but rest areas and fast food bathrooms are horrible, but lately it's gotten worse, like if theres some kind of weird music, or if the bathrooms really dirty, I don't know, I just know that at school I usually slip into the faculty bathroom or use one on the other side of the school that no one really ever uses. Also I had to start doing things like dehydrating myself before long car trips so that i would only have to go like once or never the whole trip. Is there anything I can do without seeing a doctor, and is this some kind of infection, or do I just get nervous sometimes?
The only problem you have is psycological since you can do it when you're around people you're familiar with. You should probably see a doctor .. I don't think there really is anything you can do without one. I doubt that would have much effect on ejaculating? Unless you are uncomfortable around the girl. 25 minutes could just be normal for you. **Kacie**
Why do so many people use teenbonics and 7334? I do not understand. Teenbonics are generally used by the under-18 group (usually... not always...) and are frustrating for people to read sometimes. Especially if English is not the person's first language. 7334 or leet (short for elite) speak is just as obnoxious. It was originally used by hackers to talk about their... "jobs" in chats and forums so they would not be caught. Is it really so hard to type a few more letters? You is only two more letters than "u" and "lyk" is one letter short of being the proper form, like. Anyone else annoyed by teenbonics? Is there any polite way to correct people (especially friends) who use teenbonics? I know not everyone is perfect... a few capitalization or spelling etc. errors are fine. Constant abuse of the English language is wrong.
Well there isn't really any way you can stop them except telling them that it bothers you. But the only way they could change would be to change how they talk to everyone not just you .. because it is hard to change for just one person. So you are either gonna have to deal with it or get them to agree with your side! **Kacie**
okay i invited this cute guy 2 my cottage down the beach and it's only gonna be me and him and i wonderin if he comes down what should we do??
i really like him!! so what do you think??
*Blonde Beach Babe*
Maybe ask him what he wants to do. Or you could put in a movie or something to entertain you guys. Just to start off with in case it gets a little awkward. Things should gradually get easier after an hour or so. **Kacie**
im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
There is NOTHING wrong with you! I guess kids these days are starting everything sooner but that doesn't mean that 13 is old to have never made out before. That is perfectly okay. If you want to and you have the right opportunity then go ahead ... but otherwise you should feel fine about waiting. **Kacie**
i've been playing the guitar for almost 2 years now and i'm pretty good at it... my friends want to start a band but they need a bass player... i was thinking about becoming a bass player. has anyone here played guitar and then started playing bass? is there a big difference? how hard is it to play? and how badly will i get calisis on my fingers?
Well I'm not speaking from experience but I have a friend who did that and supposedly the switch is a really easy one to make. You'd prbly get the same callousses you would have had from playing the guitar. You should try it out and see if you like it.
I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do?
Well you said it was a long time friend so you should prbly be really careful when talking about it to her because you don't wanna lose her completely. Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't listen then oh well at least you tried. Just don't hang out with her when she's doing something you don't agree with... just because she has became this way doesn't mean she isn't the same person you were friends with before. **Kacie**
I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? Well if you broke up with him and he 'didn't seem to care at all' that doesn't neccessarily mean he didn't care ... guys often hide how they are feeling.
Well it is normal for you to think about him ... you said you had a long term relationship so he was a big part of your life and you don't want to completely forget him, but just hang out with other people and don't sit around regretting anything. **Kacie**
omg!! i just contacts and i dont seem to know how to get them on or off* i have to like play around with it for 1 hour until it comes out* if ne advice plz answer me*
Contacts get easier as time goes on. It takes awhile to get the hang of them. If you have a really, really hard time you can go back to your optomotrist or wherever you got them and ask for instructions or explain the problem and maybe get a different brand. Just give it time though is the best thing I could say.
I am 16, been on varsity football since my freshman year, im going to be a sophomore, im not really worried about having a girlfriend, sometimes i just wish i had one, do you girls like to get close with a guy before you date them, as in like a best friend relationship, or do you like to meet guys and find something new about him day in and day out....?? i dont no anymore lol
Maybe not be best friends exactly but usually a girl will want to get to know you before she goes out with you. When you are interested in someone just start hanging out with them and get to know them a little and then after awhile you can move on and ask her out or whatever else you wanna do w/ the relationship. You don't neccessarily have to be friends first, just get to know each other!
Can u get an orgasm while just being fingered? They other night i was being fingered by my boyfriend, and he asked me if I had just had an orgasm. I honestly don't know what an orgasm is or how to tell if i've had one...
Can someone please tell me how to tell if i've had one and how to tell when im having one?
You can get an orgasm from being fingered but I would say it's probably not that likely. To tell if you had one .. hmm .. well you would get a really good feeling. Like even if it felt good the whole time he was doing it or whatever at one point it would increase in pleasure. Probably not last that long maybe a couple seconds. Sometimes you can kind of start to shake a little bit from it. My best guess is that you didn't have one but it IS possible so just try to figure it out next time if you feel the signs.
*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!
idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends??
Maybe you should plan a time where your mom can watch them drive and see that they are not as bad of drivers as she thinks. Or explain to her that you guys are going to be very careful and not have alot of distractions so its safter. otherwise, get your mom to take you where everybody else is going!
Ok, Well, my boyfriend is 19 years old and he*s in the military..I*m still in highschool..we write letters to each other often and i think about him every single day, but most of my friends say that i should break up with him, I really love him, but he's going to be gone so long! I have 2 years left of highschool, and if I stay with him that means i have to be faithful for 2 years! I dunno what i should do...
I hope you can help..xox
There is more than one person out there that you can love. Think about how hard it is gonna be to be with someone for 2 years and never see them. You're gonna miss out on alot of people around you that you could become interested in. I guess it would depend on how attached you are to him. If you really love him enough to stay together that long then that's great, go for it. Otherwise, there are more fish in the sea.
Hey, i had a friend problem, like 2 months ago. All my friends had ditched meeh cause they thought i was a bad influenced and i had hurt them too much..when i don't do drugs i dont smoke,. i dont know why they did that. Now they think that i've made a mistake they can never be my friiend again, what do ii do!?
Kimmey
Tell them that one mistake hasn't changed who you are and why they were friends with you in the first place. Ask them if they wanna start over and maybe they can help you stay on the right track even though you plan to from now on!
i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks
If you like him, why worry about what other people think? If you won't go out with him just because of other people's opinions maybe you should look a little deeper at your feeling for him. Maybe you don't like him as much as you think you do. If people make fun of you just tell them that they need to look inside the person and maybe they would understand what you feel for him.
i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx
I guess you could have a chance but you shouldn't act desperate and pursue him too much. Just let things be and knowing guys, if he wants another chance he'll come back. Don't have too much invested in him, move on!
ok well ive gone out wit people and made out wit people be4.. but the kind im kinda going out wit hasnt ever had a gf and has never kissed no one so im gonna be his first kiss what can i do to make it sumthing he wont forget!
People usually don't forget their first kiss anyway, but if you want to make it memorable just do whatever comes natural. Since you have experience you shouldn't be worried about how to do it and just make sure you let him know that he can be comfortable kissing you because you won't hold any mistakes against him! He's probably more worried than you at this point.
ok i know this sounds stupid..but i don't know what a hetrosexual is! can some please tell me?
thx
A heterosexual is the opposite of a homosexual. It means that you are straight or you like people of the opposite sex.