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urination problems
This started a few years ago. When im in a public bathroom with people I don't know, I have problems urinating. Like my whole body tenses up and I just can't. If it's with my buds or something I don't have a problem, but rest areas and fast food bathrooms are horrible, but lately it's gotten worse, like if theres some kind of weird music, or if the bathrooms really dirty, I don't know, I just know that at school I usually slip into the faculty bathroom or use one on the other side of the school that no one really ever uses. Also I had to start doing things like dehydrating myself before long car trips so that i would only have to go like once or never the whole trip. Is there anything I can do without seeing a doctor, and is this some kind of infection, or do I just get nervous sometimes?
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It sounds like you are already doing things you know will help you - going into quieter bathrooms, etc. The one thing you're doing that isn't helping is by drinking less fluids. Not only is this dangerous for your overall health, but it's not going to help you pee.
Having problems peeing in public is a pretty common thing. If you're drinking normal levels of fluid - or maybe even more - you'll need to use the bathroom more when you go. Right now your body is trying to hold onto any water you're giving it.
You're normal. You'll probably end up growing out of this, and if you don't, there are some things that could help. The main thing is remembering that no one in a public bathroom knows you. They don't care how long you pee, how big your penis is, or how long it takes you to get started. You'll never see them again.
The more you worry about peeing, the worse this problem will get. Just keep picking quieter bathrooms, use the stalls instead of the urinals, and if you walk into a busy bathroom give it 5 minutes and go back.
Good luck.
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hey you are just nervous when you go to the bathroom...you are like my best friend. I never had a problem with going to the bathroom around people but you could also be insecure about yourself. you will grow out of it dont worry! if you were drunk while you were doing it then that would explain everything...most chicks would be way happy if the guy lasts 25 min
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well no i dont think its a serious illness problem, but if you keep this up thats what it could turn into. just tell yourself "the bathroom is clean"...even if it isnt....also..maybe you could carry a little bottle of toilet cleaning solution and a paper towel and wipe the seat down or something...when your in a public bathroom just close your eyes and pretend lyk ur at your house....and yes if u keep this up it will turn into a VERY serious problem...fluids must exit your body..!!! i recommend seeing a psychiatrist...or counselor...they may help and if they dont GO TO THE DOCTOR!!
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The only problem you have is psycological since you can do it when you're around people you're familiar with. You should probably see a doctor .. I don't think there really is anything you can do without one. I doubt that would have much effect on ejaculating? Unless you are uncomfortable around the girl. 25 minutes could just be normal for you. **Kacie**
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lol. you dont have an infection! you are just nervous. you need to find a way to learn to just relax and go pee. i cant believe a guy could have a problem peeing, guys can usually pee like anywhere lol. but yeah find a way to relax, and dont dehydrate yourself that CAN cause problems.
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No its not an infection. You probably just have a phobia of using public restrooms. I dont know how they cure it exactly but you arnt physicly sick....
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