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"It could be worse. A woman could cut off your penis while you're sleeping and toss it out the window of a moving car."PREGNANCY INFORMATION
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Okay well im 14 going to be 15 in like 3 months. Me and my boyfriend make 6 months on the 4th of December so tomorrow. We have been talking about sex for that past few weeks now and I think im ready, but I still have this little voice in my head telling me im not. I know I really love him though and I know he won't do anything I wouldn't want to because he always caring of me. I really know I want him to be my first though, but the thing thats getting me is that im to young I think that's the only thing holding me back. What is your opinion on this and does it hurt your first time I really want to know pretty much everything please?
I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say that sex is as big a deal as you make it. It can either be not a big deal or it could be the hugest deal. The important thing is to remember that whatever you do, it's the right decision for you. 14 isn't too young, and I disagree with people that say things like "losing your virginity is the most important decision in the world and if you wonder if you're ready or not, you're not ready". That's sorta a bad attitude in my opinion, because it makes sex into something negative, and it antagonizes you for not being completely sure. People will almost never be COMPLETELY sure about anything, the important thing is to do whatever feels right for you.
so i want to call my boyfriend tonight, since its our anniversary. right now he's in California and im in pennsylvania. my question is that if we talk on our cell phones, is there going to be a long distance charge or do we just use our minutes like normal?
thanksss.
I'm pretty sure that there are no long distance charges for cell phones.
Basicly I have fallen in love with songs like "your guardian angel" by red jumpsuit apparatus, "passing afternoon" and "Sodom south georgia" by iron & wine, "slow dancing in a burning room" by John Mayer, "broken" by seethed and Amy lee, "beauty in a car crash" by flight 409, "great companion" by Landon pigg.. Ect.
But now I really need a lot more new songs like these to listen to because I'm starting to get tired of them. Pretty much any slow song or a song with beautiful guitar or harmony would be great.
Here are some of my favorite bands if it helps:
John mayer, iron & wine, switchfoot, fleet foxes, blue October, train, coldplay, relient k, and a lot more.
Anything related to those and something unique would be wonderful..
Thanks(:
The answer below me is a very good answer, but I will try to add some. You've probably heard of some of these.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Breaking the Girl
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Otherside
Iron & Wine - Flightless Bird, American Mouth
Iron & Wine - Such Great Heights
The Pixies - Where is My Mind?
The Cure - Just Like Heaven
Death Cab For Cutie - The Ice is Getting Thinner
Dispatch - Hey Hey
Eric Clapton - Tears in Heaven
The Flaming Lips - Yoshimi Battles the Pink Robots Pt. 1
The Flaming Lips - Flight Test
Jack Johnson - Better Together
Oasis - Wonderwall
Wilco - I Am Trying to Break Your Heart
Anya Marina - Whatever You Like
Which of these sentence s(if any) are grammatically correct?
"I like people who buy me things"
"I like people that buy me things"
I have issues when it comes to "who" / "that" in a sentence. I really don't know when you use which. :\
The first one, people are "who".
for college i want to get a mac. can you use microsoft word on there or is there something similar that i could use? i've never owned a mac so im just curious.
You can use microsoft word and excel and powerpoint because there is microsoft office for mac.
My printer WILL NOT work and i have to print this admission ticket for the SAT. If i dont bring it will i not be able to take the test??? There is not way to print it out.
No, you need the ticket for the test. Try going to a fedex kinkos or some other place like that and using their printer.
hey,
so there's this kid who's been trying to get me to hook up with him for almost three years. i always turned him down because he's told me that he likes me and has wanted to ask me out, but he said that he'll settle for just hooking up. i always thought it would be wrong to hook up with him because i don't like him and i don't want him to think we can become something more.
lately, i've been down and having problems at home and with friends and he's been nice to help me get by. i still don't like him but he insists on us hooking up and i feel bad saying no because he's helped me through kind of a lot. any advice? i don't want to hurt him.
thank you :)
Hooking up isn't a big deal, but it sounds like he wants more than just hooking up. Also, keep in mind that you don't owe him anything. If you don't want to hook up with him, you don't have to, regardless of whether he's been nice to you or not. Whether or not you hook up with someone is YOUR choice, and your choice alone.
That being said, it is important to keep his feelings in mind if you do decide to hook up with him. I don't know everything about the situation, but judging on what you told me, it sounds like he wants more than just a hook up. Maybe he thinks that if you hook up with him, it could lead to something more. It might be wrong to hook up with him if you don't have those feelings for him, because it could lead him on and he could end up getting hurt.
It's all your decision, but these are things to keep in mind.
I'm 14f and i really like this guy, we were talking last week about it and he told me he liked me, so i told him i liked him too. Since then, he's never even mentioned it. And lately, when i talk you him on msn, he's become kind of... unresponsive? I really have no clue about what's going on.
Maybe he's shy, or maybe he doesn't actually like you. Or maybe he does, and he doesn't know the next step to take, knowing that you like him too.
Your best bet would probably be to talk to him in real life and see what's going on, since it's pretty hard to be unresponsive in real life.
What is the benefits of these two?? Right now, i have Windows 2003. Should I just stick to this one? plz help! thnx
I use mac, but from what I heard, Vista is terrible. They supposedly came out with Windows 7 in order to respond to the flaws of Vista.
Is there any way to separate 2 self-titled albums by the same band in iTunes without changing their names? I've filled out the year for both, but even arranging it by "Album by Year" still groups both albums as one. My iPod doesn't separate the two albums, either,and it's very annoying.
Is there any way to fix this?
You can try putting track numbers on each, and putting one as "Disc 1 of 2" and the other as "Disc 2 of 2". That will arrange them in order, but that's probably not what you want to do. The only other way is by editing the name of one of the albums, or maybe naming the album as "**Name of Album** (year)" and the other one as "**Name of Album** (other year)"
I am 17 and seeing an older man hes twenty five and hes married is that bad...?
Why would you ask that? You know it's wrong, and there's not even any advice you're asking for...
Anyone could tell you that an 8 year age difference when you're under 18 is illegal, regardless of which state you're in. Anyone could also tell you that seeing someone who's married is wrong.
You don't need advicenators to tell you this.
So I've been having sex with my boyfriend and everything is fine. We have done missionary or just me on top, and there have been no issues.
But if we try a position from where he is coming from behind, it's extremely painful! I feel like he's pushing into the front of my belly [like a painful cramp]. No matter if we go slow, fast, nothing changes. It just hurts.
Any idea why???
From behind allows deeper penetration, it's possible that he's too big for you, and so he would be hitting your cervix. Maybe have him not go all the way in?
like im a 13 m and im in high school i like this girl right but im pretty sure she doesnt like but the thing is she like one of my best friend what should i do
If you think she doesn't like you but you really value your friendship, there is no reason to do anything to try to catalyze anything more than a platonic friendship. If you try to, and you get rejected, then you lose one of your best friends.
The best answer would be to try to get rid of your feelings and try to move on. I know that's not what you want to hear but that really is the best advice you can get right now.
15/f
i've been hearing a lot about oral sex lately
um i was wondering, is it just me or does anyone else think it's absolutely DISGUSTING? or am i just prude or something?
thanks(:
It's not really disgusting, it can be a LOT more pleasurable than just using your fingers/hands, and keep in mind that it's all the human body, it's just skin. Certain parts of our body are not inherently "gross", it's all up to personal hygiene.
That being said, it is completely your prerogative to feel however you want about oral sex. It's not for everyone, and what you think is disgusting now you might enjoy later on in life.
I tried uplodeing a video on youtube that I made on windows movie maker but they won't let me... any ideas on what i'm doing wrong???
Thanks In Advance :)
It depends on what kind of file you made. If you uploaded the windows movie maker project file, it won't work, because the file isn't an actual video. You probably need to do something like File, Export, and export a file that is .mp4
It might be too long, I think there is a 10 minute limit on youtube movies. It might also be too big, there is a size limit.
One day, my CD drive on my laptop just stopped reading CDs and DVDs. It still present on my computer, Device Manager states that it's working properly...but alas, I'll insert a cd and nothing will happen, it seems as if it is reading for a moment, but then nothing.
Any advice? This laptop is fairly new, and never had problems with the drive.
Oh, and the lens was definitely not damaged.
If the laptop is under a year old, I don't know of any company that wouldn't fix or replace it for free.
Hey! The woman on the new "V" series is unbelievably hot. Does anyone know who she is and if she has played in anything else besides this? I can't seem to find anyone who knows anything about her! I may be in love. :)
There are two women on "V", Elizabeth Mitchell is the blonde one who was on "Lost", and Morena Baccarin is the brunette, she wasn't really in anything else (she had a few guest roles in some tv shows but no major roles).
when putting music on a ipod touch do you have to use itunes or can you just put music from your computer on to it ?
You need to use iTunes to be able to listen to the music on the iPod Touch, if you just drag the music files onto the iPod Touch without using iTunes, they won't play on the iPod.
So I've liked this kid, let's call him Chris, for about three months. I talk to him every day in math class, and we seem to get along pretty well. Last night, there was a dance at my school. A girl, call her Melissa, was dancing all slut-like with him (and pretty much every other guy). At one point, they were next to me dancing said slut-dance. While they were dancing, I glanced over at Chris and he was looking right at me. We made eye contact for a few seconds, and I know I should have held it longer, but I'm shy, so I looked down and away. This happened again about a minute later. To me at least, it wasn't normal eye contact. It was probably just a normal glance to Chris, but it made me catch my breath and when I think about it I get a warm feeling in my stomach. But could it mean anything that he was looking at me while he was dancing with another girl?
It seems like you might like Chris, but it could have just been a natural reaction from seeing him dance with another girl. It also seems like he MIGHT like you, because he was looking at you intensely even while he was dancing with someone else.
However, we don't know enough about your situation to know whether he likes you or not, and this indicator alone can't tell that.
im sorry i hate to even ask this but hopefully someone else did the same dumb thing as me. So i had anal sex the other day not the first time but maybe the third and my ass is so swollen and red i dont know what to do does anyone know? I can barley move let alone walk around someone help please
Your butt doesn't make any natural lubrication like a vagina does, so you need to use lube. If you don't use enough lube, it will irritate your butt, which is what most likely happened.
To relieve the irritation, try using some cream for diaper rash, and make sure to use enough lube next time.