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so gross
im sorry i hate to even ask this but hopefully someone else did the same dumb thing as me. So i had anal sex the other day not the first time but maybe the third and my ass is so swollen and red i dont know what to do does anyone know? I can barley move let alone walk around someone help please
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The anus is not naturally lubricated. So your partner must apply a lot of lubricant to his condom before entering. And if you do anal, you must use a condom. It's far to easy to spread infections with anal.
To reduce the pain and suffering, try a hemorrhoid cream. For one, it's designed for the rectum, and secondly, it's meant to bring down redness and irritation.
In the future, use lots of lubricant and ask your partner to go slower and see if that gets you better results. If the entire experience doesn't do anything for you, and it's not just post-anal that is bothering you, don't feel like you have to keep doing it.
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Well now, let's take a look see shall we.
First off you don't say if you are male or female so I'll do the best I can.
Anal sex is not necessarily gross. Many many many people ENJOY it up the bum. And likewise many men ENJOY giving it up the bum.
That being said, see a doctor.
Make sure you are prepared to ask the questions you should, such as:
Am I permanently injured?
Should I discontinue with anal sex?
Are there any dangers in anal sex?
Does he have any cream or pain relievers that will alleviate your suffering hole?
I'm told that with time it get's better...
Happy Tails 2 U
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Your butt doesn't make any natural lubrication like a vagina does, so you need to use lube. If you don't use enough lube, it will irritate your butt, which is what most likely happened.
To relieve the irritation, try using some cream for diaper rash, and make sure to use enough lube next time.
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