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hooking up
hey,
so there's this kid who's been trying to get me to hook up with him for almost three years. i always turned him down because he's told me that he likes me and has wanted to ask me out, but he said that he'll settle for just hooking up. i always thought it would be wrong to hook up with him because i don't like him and i don't want him to think we can become something more.
lately, i've been down and having problems at home and with friends and he's been nice to help me get by. i still don't like him but he insists on us hooking up and i feel bad saying no because he's helped me through kind of a lot. any advice? i don't want to hurt him.
thank you :)
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Hooking up isn't a big deal, but it sounds like he wants more than just hooking up. Also, keep in mind that you don't owe him anything. If you don't want to hook up with him, you don't have to, regardless of whether he's been nice to you or not. Whether or not you hook up with someone is YOUR choice, and your choice alone.
That being said, it is important to keep his feelings in mind if you do decide to hook up with him. I don't know everything about the situation, but judging on what you told me, it sounds like he wants more than just a hook up. Maybe he thinks that if you hook up with him, it could lead to something more. It might be wrong to hook up with him if you don't have those feelings for him, because it could lead him on and he could end up getting hurt.
It's all your decision, but these are things to keep in mind.
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