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Is my bestfriend a liar about having sex?
My bestfriend told me that she had sex with this guy liam.. this was like 5 - 6 months ago.. ages I know.. but dont you normally fall in love or something with the guy you lose it to. Or isnt it supposed to be special and not a one night stand. When i lost mine to my boyfriend it was special and i loved him even more & that is the same with pretty much everyone else I know that lost theres.. but now shes come to having sex with someone else.. shes like.. planned it? but now shes all scared and she said she 'doesnt know what to do' when shes having sex does this mean shes virgin? and how do I explain this to her without her getting mad at me?
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I just want to correct the girl under me, she said-
"its perfectly normal to lose your virginity to a guy that you don't love"....Well it's not PERFECTLY NORMAL to loose your virginity to a guy you don't love. Does it happen? yes it doesn't but it's not normal or right to do. lol sorry that just bothered me anyway.... lol
Well she could still be a virgin, and just saying she had sex before because she is embarrassed that she hasn't yet and she could feel intimidated by you, and if that's the case you should tell her to wait for someone special and you could say "just because i already had sex, doesn't mean you should feel pressured to.
Or she could already of had sex and she was scared so it wasn't good at all so she still doesn't understand what she is sopose to do, so she is nervous for the next time she has sex cause she wants to do it right.
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Well for starters its perfectly normal to lose your virginity to a guy that you dont love, it may not be something you agree with because its not something YOU would do but girls/women/boys/men do it everyday. Sex is a very personal thing and its different with every person and situation. The fact that you lost your virginity to someone you love is great and yes it really should happen this way but it doesnt always happen the way that you want it to. If your friend says she doesnt know what to do when having sex, it doesnt necessarily mean she isnt a virgin, as it does take alot of practice with someone you are comfortable with to feel like it IS right. I would suggest talking to your friend as she may feel like she was pressured into having sex in the first place or maybe she just told you she had sex to sound grown up or something. The best thing you can do is just talk and listen to her without passing judgment and remember SAFE SEX!!!!! :) Hope this helps you.....
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