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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza


advice

Ok people... im Female, 13 and im telling you all now that im not crazy... Could i Be a vampire?? I like the taste of blood, have a dark ring around my iris, can see in the dark well, extremely good sense of hearing, can feel peoples energey (can tell if someone is near even when i cant see and can pick up on their emotions or how they're feeling... Its like hummidity sometimes too), Love the dark, have animal like insticts especialy when i go into fight or flight mode, and have fangs..... What do you guys think????? (no im not a cannibal)

No, you are NOT a vampire.

Stop watching so many vampire movies and reading too many vampire books. Yes, it's cool in the movies and it makes you believe it's real.. but honey, you need to step back into reality. Just fyi, drink tomato juice instead of blood. Seriously... lol

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I'm looking for a new powder that makes my skin look really smooth. Does anyone have any good suggestions?

I have recently started using Clean by Cover Girl. It goes on extremely smooth and it keeps your skin hydrated. I love it! I also like FIT by Maybeline.

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Everytime we cuddle together she likes to lay her head on my belly and rub it and kiss it. She pokes at my belly button too and she tickles me alot. Why does she do this ?

It's just one of her favorite things about you :) Some girl's are like that and have little fetishes. Every girl is different. I have a thing for soft skin also lol. It's not a bad thing, it's cute :)

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Im 14 years old and i just gave birth to my baby girl Dacey Aisillin Roache!! She is beautiful!! Im still in the hospital, but dont worry i have my laptop!!!!!!!!! :D Is it okay to let your baby sleep with a pillow or should i wait?

You just had a baby and you couldn't wait to get on a laptop? Hm.. Anyway, since you're at the hospital, asking the nurses and doctors would probably be the smartest idea. Besides, babies do not sleep with pillows. I suggest you ask a guardian to help raise your baby since you're still a child yourself.

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The last few of my periods have started with brown blood and they are lasting longer just wanna know why brown blood

It's just old blood. If you're that paranoid, go to the doctor and they will tell you the same thing.

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can brother and sister have sex?

No, that's incest and completely disgusting, and WRONG in so many ways.

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what does it mean if your period is brown?

It's nothing serious. When you're on your period, the blood is usually a little brownish towards the end of your cycle. All it means is that it's older blood and it's completely okay.

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I do not often cut my hair, and i want it to get long...like to my waist, but i cannot seem to get it it grow past my upper middle back. Any advice?

The fastest way for hair to grow is by getting it trimmed once a month. I do that and my hair is growing. If you straighten and curl your hair, use heat protection sprays and also shampoos that prevent damage.

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what does an orgasm look like

An orgasm doesn't look like anything. It feels great.

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What should i do in mmy school talent show?

What's your talent?

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Two nights ago, on May 11, my boyfriend and I had sex. We started off for a few minutes not using a condom because it feels better for him. I know it's not a good idea, but that's why I made him put on the condom after a few minutes. I figured as long as he wasn't close to cumming inside me, I would be fine. So then we followed our normal routine of him wearing the condom but pulling out anyways when he came. After we finished, we both to the bathroom to pee. Then about 30 minutes later, we spontaneously went at it again and didn't use a condom, but it was only for a few minutes and then we stopped and he didn't cum.

Yesterday morning, I was telling my friend about it and she got all upset saying that I could get pregnant because there is live sperm leftover in his urethra up to 72 hours after ejaculation and it could've gotten inside me when he had sex the second time without a condom. Is this true? She also said that because he peed after the first time, it probably cleaned out most of what could have been left over.

But should I get the Plan B pill to be safe? I know it works up to 3 days after an accident. I had to take it twice last year when our condoms failed, that's why we started pulling out even when he did wear a condom.

The chance of you getting pregnant is very unlikely at this point, but you're never 100% safe. The fact that you and your boyfriend went pee after you had sex reduced the risk of any pregnancy. However, if you're really paranoid, take the Plan B.

I would actually have to disagree with one of the previous columnists about Plan B. Now, the pill is newer and it is still effective FIVE days after unprotected sex; although, the sooner you take it, the better.

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I'm horny what do I do

Masturbate.
Watch porn.
Masturbate to porn.

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Im gay. so, AIDS and HIV are verry big issues for me. I was just wondering, what are the signs or symptoms of someone who has AIDS or HIV.

The thing is, you can't tell if someone has AIDS or HIV. The person might not even know because it's not noticeable. If you're already aware of this issue, make sure you use protection unless you know your partner has been tested.

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my mom wont let me get my belly botton peircered so i did it my self now i can't find a belly ring any where and i dont have any money

I really hope you didn't pierce it yourself, because that would be a really stupid idea. If you have no money, then you're screwed and it will probably close up, so you pierced it for no reason. You shouldn't of went behind your mother's back. Anyway, start saving any money you get if you really want that belly button piercing because it's the coolest thing to have right now and everyone is doing it :)

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Will it be awkward if my vagina is all hairy when i have sex? What if his isnt? What do i dooo!

It will be if the guy get's turned off by all of the pubic hair. A few guys might be into that, but the majority are NOT. I suggest you groom yourself before doing anything sexual.

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hi i just want to know whats a crazy place to have sex...

Somewhere public, but make sure no one sees you. It will bring excitement into your relationship.

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ok so i have had my period and i humped my bed and im rly rly rly rly rly scared can i be pregnant????plz help u dont understand!?

Unless your bed is a giant penis that produces semen, then no you will not be pregnant.

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So I activated facebook mobile. I have t mobile and unlimited texting and I wanted to make sure it won't cost me.
Thanks!

I also have T-Mobile and I activated it on Facebook as well. It won't charge you for texts. For example, if someone writes on your wall and it sends to your phone, or if you send picture messages.

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my car keeps dying. Sometimes it dyes when I am at a stop light or sign. I don't know what the problem is. Can you help me?

It could be anything, the battery, engine, etc. We can't examine your car so the best thing for you to do is to take it to a shop and have them look at it.

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I think my mom is cheating on her birthday he asked her what she wanted for dinner because he wanted to cook for her and her answer was NO. That evening I went to her job and there was two big ballons and flowers there. So I thought it was from my dad. It was from a guy named Sam.

Don't jump to any conclusions just yet. Sam could be ANYONE. Sam could also be a female. Your mother probably had her reasons for not wanting to go to dinner for her birthday, so it doesn't mean she is cheating. If she received flowers at work, that also does not mean she is cheating on your dad. If you start to get more suspicious, confront your mom and ask her.

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