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Hey I'm Melinda & I am 15 years old; october 15th. I am currently single but my heart is taken. I live in West Haven, & attend West Haven High, there I am a sophmore. I love my friends, there amazing, & they are always there for me when I am at my lowest & i love them for it. I love shopping; Hollister, American Eagle & a&f. I love summer & vacations, & taking pictures with your friends is the best. I love Laguna Beach & the Hills; me & my friends can bassicaly have a conversation about it like we live there. I love being a dork with my friends. I'm always laughing & smiling, I always try everything at least one time. you only live once. I love The Notebook, its my favorite movie, & I also love Zoolander, I know almost all the lines to that movie! I listen to all kinds of music; rap,rock,techno, & country. ♥




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So i'm a girl (15) and i like this guy we'll just call him hc. Well, hc and i are like really really good friends and he now knows that i like him. well, me and hc have not talked since i told him. Another problem, we are kinda related but not like blood related. his cousin married my brother. but we were friends before that and my brother got married in febuary and hc was dancing with me all the time we shrared drinks and food and we had so much fun. He's really nice and i can't stop thinking about him! I don't know how to even start our first conversation since he knows i like him! Please help! i rate all 5's usually!

omg, bassicaly the same thing happened to me "kinda" well this boy knew i liked him to and it was SO akward but i told myself to just act normal and act as if he didnt knew, and bassicaly i forgot her knew i liked him and the conversation just was easier, so just dont think about it and be yourself.
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Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.

aw thats really cute, i wish more guys wanted to know stuff like this :o) but anyways, call her beautiful, or say you look nice today.. touch her arm or try to hold her hand, and then ask her to the movies or out to eat, and then later on once you get to know her more ask her out im sure she will say yes :o) good luck!
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Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.

well ive been in a situation like this, i really liked the guy, and did all the stuff you mentioned.. but then i got over him and realised it was just a BIG crush, maybe you do love him, but i dont think so because you cant question love, i suggest try talking to him, or if your shy ask a friend to talk to him.
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how do you flirt with random guys at the mall. Like, if you don't know them and you walk by them and you totally know they're looking at you. Please no advice saying talk to them unless you add more detail to it- like how to start a conversation. Also, how can I try to walk by them in the mall with out making it seem like I'm a stalker? Thanx tons.
I rate high!

well if there by a store you like, go up to them and say, something about the store.. or say hey you look so familar, or just be like hey is there a reason why your looking at me and be all flirting heh ohh & smile.
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Me and my friend are trying to save up around $1150.00 to take a trip in august 9-12. we need money fast, easy, and soon. Does anyone know anything we can do to start raising money? any suggestions?

maybe do a car wash? .. or a tag sale.
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All the popular girls in my school (yeah this is kinda mean but its true lol) they're all pretty ugly. yeahh some of them are pretty at times, they have nice clothes. but they're not like extremely gorgeous. some of them are even a little overweight. (not a lot, just like kinda chubby) even so, the boys are always all over them. and i really don't understand why. yeah, they're outgoing and flirty.. but still. i know i'm not the prettiest girl out there, but i'm not bad. i have nice clothes.. but the boys in my school hardly even notice me. the only thing is, is that i'm REALLY shy. but around my friends, family, and people i've known for a long time, i'm really talkative and outgoing. the people in my school don't seem to realize that however. so i'm known as some girl who never talks practically. and it pisses me off because i know i do talk, they just don't know anything about me. but like, the boy i like is popular, and is always flirting with and around those girls.. what they see in them, i don't know.. how can i get boys to notice me.. especially since i'm going to high school in september and there's gonna be new people. i've never had a real boyfriend before either =[ 14/f thnx.

well the "popular girls" in school prolly are outgoing, & have a good personatly thats why people like to be around them.. so if you like this boy the most important thing is be yourself, and be flirty.. :o)
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A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..

aww, that must be hard.. one of my friends is going threw the same thing, but the best thing to do is be with friends, laugh as much as possible, go to camps, spend time with family, just try your best to have fun and soon you will forget about it.
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OK let me just say I am the type of person who can settle arguements easily and I can cooperate and really liten to my partner so dont think I am selfish. But lately we have been fighting about everything. And he likes to just ignore it and talk lets say the next morning or w/e. The problem is that I cannot sleep until I fix the problem. Today he said something that really hurt my feelings and i am sick of solving problems and him not giving a shyt. I love him to death but think i should dump him.

before you dump him, try talking to him one more time.. tell him exactly how your feeling. and if its still the same then break up with him, you sounds great and there will be better guys :o)
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okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?

thanks in advance

well your still young, your not going to find the love of your life at age 15, but i know how you feel.. so flirt more, and make it known you dont want to be a sister type, guys can be clueless at times, good luck hun.
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