I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
I have been through so many different things in my life, some more so easier to deal with than others. I got through it all, and I'm here to give you helpful, safe advice to help you get through them also.
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i guess i can say im jelouse, of when my boyfreind is with this girl in his classes and inbetween classes alot, and occsaionaly sits with her at lunch, i mean i trust him by all means, but i hate bein jelouse cuz it hurts me and effects my mood. but i hate seein them laffing together and im pretty sure what i see is a form of flirting... what should i do i mean do i have a reason to be jelouse if there kinda flirting...? he reassures me its nothing like that but when he first met her he was al like shes mad cool, we have so much in common , and shes in a lotta classes with me, and we walk together to our classes. it hurts, sometimes i just feel like shes on his mind when i want to b the one on his mind, and knowign that hes with her in gym and what not = / idkk i need advice (link)
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This is what leads to cheating. Once theyre always hanging out, talking about them, eating lunch together you should just have a talk with him. tell him how you feel. say
" Hey, i know you say you dont like her like that, but its really bothering me. It's like shes always on your mind. It hurts alot. and when you always talk about her it hurts even more. I just want us to be alright. and if you think differently tell me."
make sure you let him know how much its bothering you. and if he still continues to talk about her, and always hanging out with him. you guys will not work out.
ive wasted 7 months with my ex boyfriend. He did the same thing. but i didnt realize what was happening until he kept cheating on me. and i still kept him! i dont know why. just dont do what i did.
remember there are plenty of better guys out there. and if he isnt willing to give all his love and attention to you. he isnt worth it!
hope that helped =]
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of course this is about a boy. hes totally adorable and right now i like him so so much. but heres the thing. when im hanging out with him or talking to him online or on the fone, i totally dont like him. but wen we hold hands or watevr, or wen im just thinking about him, i totally like him!! hello whats the deal? why cant i like him all the time? (link)
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He's not the one. You are just happy because you are with someone. that happend to me tons of times. just be friends with him. It will be much better than going out and then breaking up because u relized you just dont like him. (that happened to me) so just wait for one you love to talk to on the phone, and be with. you will have a better chance of staying with them =]
if you need anymore help, or for me to be more specific just let me know.
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well I`m a 14-year-old girl and I`d say I`m pretty mature for my age. Although I`m a freshman, I understand things that most kids in my grade wouldn`t. I`m in the highest English class and I find many upperclass men relating to me more then anyone, because they say that I don`t act like a Freshman, nor do I look like one. but thats the thing. I can barely relate to the kids in my grade, especially the boys. I`m not trying to steriotype, but its the majority of them. I hate when I try to talk to them and they just end up saying or doing something stupid. I don`t exactly WANT a boyfriend, but it`d be nice, but I can`t find one in my grade, and I`m not about to date an upperclass boy. It pisses me off because all of my friends have had a long-term boyfriend already, and I haven`t had one. I don`t know what to do! Any advice? (link)
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I WAS IN THIS SITUATION! One thing you dont want to do is go out searching for a boyfriend. Let the time come. ALOT! and i mean ALOT of 14 year old boys are extreamely immature. u just have to get to know some of them. see which ones are mature. because i always thought i'd never date anyone in my grade because they are all so annoying and immature. but i found someone great. yeah he is silly sometimes, but he knows when to be serious, and doesnt judge anything. those people are hard to find. thats why you shouldnt go out looking for them. You will find someone buy getting to know people better. you dont always have to get older guys. just keep on talking ;) you'll find someone!
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if you have the left side of your lip pierced will it affect the way you give head? like, is it gonna get caught somewhere or something? haha i know that sounds horrible so im debating whether to get it pierced or not.
Advice from people with the piercing already would be greatly appreciated (link)
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No it shouldnt,
but you should wait till the pain goes away from it getting peirced, but if anything im sure it will make it feel better =]
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Anyone who can give me an advice for the unwanted pubic hair?
I've been using this VEET Cream to remove my hair down there but they have said that it's not adviceable for genital areas. I also tried using wax but it's super painful. I can't stand it. Last is just shaving but i experience itchiness. I dunno what would i use now.. I really don't like hair down there so please help me guys to choose which product is best and safe for this situation. Thanks in advance. God Bless.. (link)
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This site will explain what to do. It is very good.
http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/pubichair.html
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Okay when Im shaving "down there" it's all good but like right after it starts getting itchy.And it will last a couple days.How do I get down there shaved without paying the cost. (link)
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Okay , well when you shave use soap. a moisterizing one. after your done shaving wash it again. then when u get out if it still itces put some non fragrance lotion on.
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theres this girl in my art class at my middle school (13/f seventh grade) and shes my sister's good friend's younger sister. what a coincidence we're in the same class, right? anyway, shes pretty outgoing, and is really nice. like a couple times shes passed by my table and like said hi and stuff, commented on my picture, and said that her sister was friends with mine (noo duh, lol). i wanna be her friend, so what should i do? i usually get shy around outgoing people like that, unless i've known them for a while. (link)
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do what she's doing. compliment her, say things to her, say hi. Its likely that she wants to be your friend too! Shes just trying to get your attention. so why dont you ask to sit with her at lunch one day. invite her to come over with your sister. dont be shy, im sure she wants to be your friend too.
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I`m already worried about starting
high school next year, especially the drinking
scene. My best friend was given 20 minutes to
live this year after I found her severly drunk
at a soccer game. (Keep in mind, we're 8th
graders) Well, I had no idea any of this was
going on and I'm not sure if I can handle
my other friends getting into drinking next
year. How do I keep myself out of it?
I'm not up for risking my life like she did,
but I am curious about trying it! Thats the
problem. (link)
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no matter how much they try and pressure you dont do it. do what you believe in. if they dont accept that then they are not very good friends at all! trust me high school is not as bad as you think. there might be alot of people who drink and smoke. but most people i hang out with dont bother me about drinking or smoking. just tell them you dont like it and if they dont accept it forget about them.
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13/f
k theres this guy at my school and i dont know him but hes really hot and i see him looking at me all the time. How can i strike a converstaion with him, without looking desperate and also how can i drop some hints?
Any advice is appreaciated
Thanks! (link)
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ask him a question. like today there is this cool person in my class i dont nessicarily like him. but he seemed cool. and we both had the same brand hoodys on and i sed omg look we have the same kind of hoody. and he said yeah! and like.. came and sat next to me. lol it was fun hes cool. maybe ask him for help with something.
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I'm trying to find a certain song. I know it has these words
Your gonna make me lose my mind, y'all gonna make me lose my cool. Put your hands in the air
those are a few lyrics
What song is it? (link)
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DMX is the rapper not sure of song name
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does popping your cherry hurt and can you pop the cherry by wearing a tampon for the first time? (link)
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no it doesnt hurt much. you cant tell with all the pain if your having sex. and for the tampon thing yes it can be. also by playing sports.
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ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE. (link)
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okay well ask him some questions, get to know him better. talk about stuff you like. see if you have anything in common! dont let there be any silences. talk about anything. =] just dont be too obnoxious. that usually scares them away lol. just be calm. dont freak out. =] good luck
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I had a horrible day today in school. I prefer not to go throught the details, but all I will say is that i have not had a day like this in a long time. How can i relax myself and forget about this terrible day? (link)
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go relax in the tub, go for a walk, listen to music, or find a friend you can talk to about anything.
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OK, what is popping a cherry? what is giving someone head? what are all the types of sex? im sorry but im really curious right now! 13/f (link)
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okay, well
"popping a cherry" is when they hymen(cherry) stretches, and that causes it to bleed a few days maybe.
"giving head"
having oral sex.
sucking a guys penis.
Intercourse = normal vaginal sex
Outercourse = rubbing over clothes
many more i'd look em up
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I'm not the 'thinest' person in the world. I'm just not feeling 'ok' around everyone. Sometimes I think people think i'm retarded. There seems to be this line - you either skinny or fat. Sometimes it stops me from going up to people and talking to them (mainly guys.) I don't een feel alright just wearing a T-shirt (I wear a hoodie everyday.) I know I probably will neer be to there standers of 'skinny', but I would like to be a least be healthy. Some people are lucky enought to get fast sistems (I don't know how to spell the acally word) and it makes some people well to put it nicly 'jurks'. Any tips on getting in shape? Is drinking alot of milk bad? Whats good to eat and anone know any god sites for exercises?
- Thank You
Katherine (link)
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milk will strengthen the bones. could help. but also eat small portions of things. and try not to eat junk in between meals. go for walks, do some sit ups. mainly is just to eat healthy foods. you shouldnt also worry about what other people think. everyone is human not everyone can be perfect. but everyone is made to be special in there own way. so dont get all stressed =]
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What exactly does that mean? I've heard an awful lot about it and I know it has to dowith sex but what does it mean? (link)
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When you have sex for the first time the hymen(cherry) stretches which causes it to bleed. it might last a couple days.
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i have been getting my period like every 2 weeks,
its been 6 months, shudnt i be used to it by now?
its really obnoxious. (link)
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hmm that is kind of weird. you might want to tell your doctor.
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Shine solution which is from designline.
Where do you get this? Can you get it from the store or do you get it from the salon? I found the Sunsilk
Thanks=) (link)
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it is only sold in professional salons =]
it is about.. 10-12 dollars? $9.95 is what i paid for mine. but it works great. it makes the hair smooth while straightening it, and keeps it moisterized instead of drying up from the heat.
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dear reader,
i am 14 old boy. there is this girl that i asked to be my gf and its already been about 2 weeks and i still didnt get my answer. every time i call her up she says shes busy and cant talk. i think shes trying to avoid me also. what should i do?
rafol boy
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she is trying to avoid you. she obviously doesnt want to talk to you. try and go out with friends get your mind off of her and try to find another girl. theres always someone for everyone dont forget that!
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Im a guy and guys gotta look good. im a football player and i have an athletic kind of body. but even though i excercise and play sports. i still have fat around my stomach. all my friends have abs and all that and that makes me insecure knowing that they are more attractive. what should i do? does anyone know how to get rid of the fat? (link)
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what you gotta do is start eating healthier. do some exercises just as sit ups, this burns the fat on your stomach.
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