I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry.
thats not molesting. molesting is when he touches you in your private areas. i dunno i think hes jus tryin to get closer wit you. jus watch out and see what happens
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My bf and i are 16 he gets erections a lot
he gets a bit embarrassed about it i told him thats its ok its normal hes still a little shy about it what can i do? His penis is about 6 inches long is that about average?
first off six inches is normal and thats about all i can give you advice on because there aint nuttin i can tell you to do. hes sixteen and boys get erections and thats all there is to it. well thats all i can help you with. hope this helps you out well at least a lil bit ~amanda n alexis
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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha!
ok well not to be rude but yall is crazy for breakin up so many times. i think you like the whole idea of the chase and not so much the relationship cuz if you did you wouldnt have cheated on him or broke up 5 times. plus if yall had a strong relationship then a rumor wouldnt have broke yall up if you for real sat down and talked about it. maybe you jus jus be friends for awhile and see what happens then. good luck ~$aLeXiS~$
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?
You need to relax and go with the flow. You are only 15 years old. No matter how hard you try to stop it.. your heart will be broken plenty of times. it happens to almost everyone. if this guy is as awesome and nice as you say he is then you have nothing to worry about. have fun with him and trust him. keep everything open and tell him how you are feeling so yea hoped i helped ya ~amanda
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!
you should sit down wit him and tell him that you know he keeps lyin to you and that it needs to stop. if it doesnt you should consider kickin this dude to the curb cuz it will only get worse. jus talk to him without flippin and gettin loud wit him. good luck. ~$aLeXiS$~
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gosh i really hate reading and i have to take these tests and read books before the end of the quarter at skool and i have none!!! is there a way i can be encouraged to read!!!
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read books that interest you like things you can relate to thats how i get into what i read if it is something i can realte to or u can get a book that is about something that could actually happen and isn't way out there but yea that usually helps well hope this helps u to like readin a lil bit better ~amanda
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Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me?
dont even waste your time on him. if he funna act like a lil boy then you dont need to be wit him. hes triflin. jus forget about him even if its hard. you deserve better than that. ~$alexis$~
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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again?
everything is worth giving a second chance i mean this means thing can change between ya'll maybe you wil talk more and maybe not i say see how things work out n give it a while well hope i helped and hope it works out better for you the 2nd time around ~amanda
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ok, i like this guy. lets call him joe. i've liked joe for a few months. and we've become really good friends. and, my friend...lets call her betty...betty and i love to do 3 way calling. so we usually call joe and other people when we do that. but lately, like last night, he just seemed really annoyed or moody or somethin'. but i don't know if it was cuz of me and betty or not. and, lately, joe's been kinda...bleh. and when i was online one night i said hi and he never said anything. i don't know. i'm not sure if its me or not. i mean, is it just a guy thing? or is it me?
thx in advance!
Maybe you and "Betty" are calling "Joe" too much. There is also the possibility that Joe may like either you or betty and wants the other girl to butt out so he can have some one on one time with the girl he likes. It could also just be a guy thing. I hate to say this guys cause I love you to death but you do get pretty moody sometimes. Anyways, i hope i help u out with you "betty " and "joe"
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Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo
well i think that u should just talk to him for a lil bit and if it seems like everything is going right then try it but u might not wanna because it might ruin your friendsship if you do and it doesn't work out hope i helped ~amanda xoxo
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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help!
some people dont develop as fast as others. eventually you will grow but when is another story. and having your period has nothing to do wit boobs. talk to your mom bout it she could explain it better than me. jus whatever you do dont stuff your bra because when people find out they will make fun of you forever. good luck
~$alexis$~
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I have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and I really do love him alot. The problem is, one of my best friends is in all of his classes and I am in none of them. My friend happens to be his last ex girlfriend and now they are very good friends. I don't have a problem with that but they are always talking and laughing together and last night my friend said that she and him were very close. My boyfriend and I don't talk very much because we never know what to say to each other. He says it is because he hasn't got a very interesting life but whenever I see him, he his always with my friend. It's not that I don't trust my boyfriend because I do and I don't think there is anything going on between him and my friend, it just hurts me that he can't talk to me but he can talk to his ex. What shall I do? How can I talk to my boyfriend more?
the reason he might not be able to talk to you the way he can talk to her is because he might not feel as comfortable or like he can say anything to you. i know how that is. all you can really do is try and talk to him. jus throw stuff out there for you to talk about and if he doesnt respond then its not your fault and maybe you should reconsider your relationship wit him.
good luck ~$alexis$~
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I'm 15 and a female. ok i have been liking this guy for a little over a year now. We said we liked each other but we couldnt date because his dad said "i was too young" i just made 15 and he'll be 16 in May. So we decided we would date when i started high school in August. Well about two weeks before school started, i found out he was dating a girl from another school and i confronted him when i called his cell phone and she answered, but thats a whole other story. Well we didnt go to h/c together, he went alone and i went with a senior. We still have not dated but he tells me how much he likes me and I told him we either date or are just friends b/c I cant handle this anymore so he said he really likes me, and when he hears"my boo" he cant stop thinking about me but he said we should be really good friends and let nature take its course, whatever that means. Well I still cant get over him and we still go places together and he calls me and he acts like he likes me, i dont know what hes thinking! and I cant make myself like anyone else. I know it seems like I should just move on but he said hes scared hes going to hurt me again if we date for a while and I deserve better. And he doesnt want to lose our friendship so hes scared to date me. and he knows he messed up before! please help! Sorry its soo long, but what do I do?!
you should do your best to jus chill wit him as friends and not anything more. if he starts to say how much he likes you all that tell him if he cant step up and go wit you then he needs to not say things like that to you because it makes things even more confusing than they already are. good luck ~$alexis$~
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do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control??
no you can be a virgin and be on birth control.
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My exbf chris and I broke up 5 months ago. I broke up with him but heres my problem WE GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER. He hates me and I honestly dont knw why. I am completly over him and I used to want to be friends with im but I just gave up. Everytime I see him in the halls I get this funny feeling in my stomach. IDK what it is. I am not gonna lie I still care about him, and its like he thinks that its a crime if I care about him. He is sooo mean to me and I try and be nice but it ends up bitting me in the ass. What do I do? Just completly ignore him or what!
Im 15 and a female
if i was you i wouldnt let no bitch treat me like that. if he is bein mean to you all the time then dont try and be nice to him. avoid him as much as possible and when he does somthin mean to you treat that trick. dont let guys disrespect you like that. stand up for yourself. good luck ~$alexis$~
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :)
no if i was your friend i wouldnt lose respect for you because a lot of my friends are having sex too. what your friend told you is nasty and thats why people start to say shit like shes a slut and she gets around and all that mess. i think that you should wait to have sex wit someone that you care about and cares about you because if you dont you are jus goin to feel stupid when you lose your virginity to a guy and there were no real feelings between the two of you. good luck wit whatever you decide to do. ~$alexis$~
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I went derrell online .we talked online for one months.I gave him my phone number ,he started to call me ,he's really funny.I think I like him
he also askedme out and I said yes.now he's the only thing I think about,dream about and talk about.but I'm having some doubts,he lives really far from me.I kind of scare to tell what I feel
when he asks me what I want to talk about I say nothing.what should I do??
well to be honest you should date a guy that you didnt meet over the internet because he lives so far away. i mean will you ever really get to see this guy? hold his hand? go on dates? kiss or cuddle like other couples do? its not fair to you or him to be "tied" down by someone thats not really there. whatever you decide to do good luck ~$alexis$~
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I'm a 15/f and I haven't been interested in dating until recently this year. I'm starting to want to have a boyfriend really badly. Do you think the fact that I am so inexperienced in the "physical" side of love (ive kissed three people but I've never made out or gone beyond that) that no guys will date me. This is the only thing holding me back from dating. Also any tips on easy ways to say no to getting physical soon or telling guys that I've never made out that wont make me seem like to much of a loser?? Thanks!
when the time is right for you to have a guy you will know it. first you need to start talkin to dudes like "whats really good" not jus "hey lets be friends." dont put yourself out therer for any and all guys. thats how rumors and bad names get started. if a guy really likes you it wont matter if youve made out or not. and if you dont wnana do sumthin wit somebody jus tell them. if things start to go further than what you want jus tell them you cant go it. good luck ~$alexis$~
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I got a new neighbor a few months ago, tight before school started, he's nice and sweet and loads of fun to be around. I told him i liked him a few weeks after he moved in but he said he had a gf who he loved and would never leave. so i kinda gave up, but lately we have become wicked good friends. we hang out all the time at my house or we just walk around the neighborhood. a few weeks ago he tried to kiss me while we were on my trampoline(he admited to it later) but i had a bf at that point and he was still with his girl so i just turned away and got back up. the next day he tells me that he dumped his girl. the next day i get dumped by my bf cuase he wanted to date some slut in a grade below us. so i tell him that. my neighbor and i were on my trampoline again and we are kindalike wrestling a little...and he started feeling me up then we started making out.he pushed away from me and started saying why...why...why...i was soo confused. it was my first kiss too. aparrently he had gotten back together with his gf the day before,he didn't want to cheat on her so we stopped. like 2 minutes later he is fingering me and we are making out again.when we finally stop my brother was pulling in the driveway so we separated quickly and he went home(my bro saw nothing thank goodness).i told my friend who knows everything about me and guys that he kissed me and only that he kissed me i didn't tell anyone else and she said something about it to him and he flipped at me. he didn't want anyone to know cuase then his sis would find out and she would tell his rents then his rents will tell his gf who will start cutting or something again. he stopped talking to me and then one day last week i was sick from school and the next day he asked me if everthing was okay and we started talking again. we started hanging out again. but now we include my friend a lot cuase she lives down the street and we were down at her house and we were watching a cartoon thing on her comp and she was sitting at her computer desk and i was sitting like right next to her on the piano bench and he was sitting behind me. during this cartoon thing he started tickling my side so i grapped his hand. i let it go after i moved it away and then he tickled me again so i grabbed his hand again and he laced his fingers in mine. he just plays with my head like that all the time. should i tell him to stop or no? i really like him and everything but nothing can really form with his gf still there.What do you think i should do?
i think that you and him need to have a conversation about whats goin on between you guys. if he has a girl and doesnt wanna cheat on her then he wouldnt be messin wit you but i think he really does like you. he has to choose. and dont be hurt if he chooses his girl over you cuz you seem like a good person and you will get the right guy when the time comes. good luck wit him ~$alexis$~
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There is this kid at my school how likes me.. And I think I like him to and I want to ask him out But He is a freak not like nose rings and all I mean like a nerd kind of But I am afraid that every one will make fun of me.. And please dont tell me its doesnt matter what other people think and stuff like that I just want to know If I should get over it or something.. Will some one else like me I mean I am a lil bit pretty I think but my guy friends say I'm FINE but if so why doesnt the guy I like ask me out
if you fo real like this dude then you wouldnt care if he was a "nerd" or not. if you wanna be wit someone then you wanna be wit them and it dont matter if people say shit to you or not. thats jus my opinion and i know thats not what you wanna hear but its the truth. if you think you could go without gettin wit this dude and it not bother you then jus do that. it shouldnt be all about whether or not you have a boyfriend. good luck ~$alexis$~
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