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Please give me advice! sorry soo long
I'm 15 and a female. ok i have been liking this guy for a little over a year now. We said we liked each other but we couldnt date because his dad said "i was too young" i just made 15 and he'll be 16 in May. So we decided we would date when i started high school in August. Well about two weeks before school started, i found out he was dating a girl from another school and i confronted him when i called his cell phone and she answered, but thats a whole other story. Well we didnt go to h/c together, he went alone and i went with a senior. We still have not dated but he tells me how much he likes me and I told him we either date or are just friends b/c I cant handle this anymore so he said he really likes me, and when he hears"my boo" he cant stop thinking about me but he said we should be really good friends and let nature take its course, whatever that means. Well I still cant get over him and we still go places together and he calls me and he acts like he likes me, i dont know what hes thinking! and I cant make myself like anyone else. I know it seems like I should just move on but he said hes scared hes going to hurt me again if we date for a while and I deserve better. And he doesnt want to lose our friendship so hes scared to date me. and he knows he messed up before! please help! Sorry its soo long, but what do I do?!
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you should do your best to jus chill wit him as friends and not anything more. if he starts to say how much he likes you all that tell him if he cant step up and go wit you then he needs to not say things like that to you because it makes things even more confusing than they already are. good luck ~$alexis$~
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He wants his cake and eat it too. Wait until after he ends this relationship before you even think about starting to date him. His is immature and playing with your heart. This is not nice for anyone to do. And as far as friendship, he doesn't have to lose it. If he is still hung up on that note, then wait until he changes his mind. In the meantime, find someone else, you are worth it.
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