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Boy moves to town...girl likes boy...boy has girl
I got a new neighbor a few months ago, tight before school started, he's nice and sweet and loads of fun to be around. I told him i liked him a few weeks after he moved in but he said he had a gf who he loved and would never leave. so i kinda gave up, but lately we have become wicked good friends. we hang out all the time at my house or we just walk around the neighborhood. a few weeks ago he tried to kiss me while we were on my trampoline(he admited to it later) but i had a bf at that point and he was still with his girl so i just turned away and got back up. the next day he tells me that he dumped his girl. the next day i get dumped by my bf cuase he wanted to date some slut in a grade below us. so i tell him that. my neighbor and i were on my trampoline again and we are kindalike wrestling a little...and he started feeling me up then we started making out.he pushed away from me and started saying why...why...why...i was soo confused. it was my first kiss too. aparrently he had gotten back together with his gf the day before,he didn't want to cheat on her so we stopped. like 2 minutes later he is fingering me and we are making out again.when we finally stop my brother was pulling in the driveway so we separated quickly and he went home(my bro saw nothing thank goodness).i told my friend who knows everything about me and guys that he kissed me and only that he kissed me i didn't tell anyone else and she said something about it to him and he flipped at me. he didn't want anyone to know cuase then his sis would find out and she would tell his rents then his rents will tell his gf who will start cutting or something again. he stopped talking to me and then one day last week i was sick from school and the next day he asked me if everthing was okay and we started talking again. we started hanging out again. but now we include my friend a lot cuase she lives down the street and we were down at her house and we were watching a cartoon thing on her comp and she was sitting at her computer desk and i was sitting like right next to her on the piano bench and he was sitting behind me. during this cartoon thing he started tickling my side so i grapped his hand. i let it go after i moved it away and then he tickled me again so i grabbed his hand again and he laced his fingers in mine. he just plays with my head like that all the time. should i tell him to stop or no? i really like him and everything but nothing can really form with his gf still there.What do you think i should do?
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Ok. I really do think he likes you. When you mentioned about his girlfriend cutting, I wonder if he got back with her because she began to or hreatened to cut herself. If you really like him and want to go out with him you need to tell him to split up with his girlfriend. He needs to know that she won't be cutting herself just because of him, she will have other problems too. Make sure nothing else happens between you two until he has done this and then you can have a relationship without having to worry. If you tell him this then he will know you understand about fidelity and that he has to make the decision. If he does split up with his girlfriend then you will know how much he likes you and want s to be with you.
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i think that you and him need to have a conversation about whats goin on between you guys. if he has a girl and doesnt wanna cheat on her then he wouldnt be messin wit you but i think he really does like you. he has to choose. and dont be hurt if he chooses his girl over you cuz you seem like a good person and you will get the right guy when the time comes. good luck wit him ~$alexis$~
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i did this before and it was kinda like your story... except with the neighbors thing... umm and if things get bad it will be much worst at the end, let me tell you the ending... it ends bad yall dont talk for a while and when it finally blows over he still has a gf, so youve got two choices play around until it gets bad but dont send him too many signals or tell him to stop be friends and keep that friendship which once he breaks up with his gf.. which he will its not like they are going to get married you can be there for him as a friend and he will notice you and who knows but if i were you i wouldnt help him cheat youll just loose all your friends and get called a slut everyday in school and get made fun of by his girlfriend who will probably stay with him if its as bad as her cutting.... the choice is yours
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Well, being that said friend who lives down the street, i've spoken to you on the subject, and you know my veiws. He's a pretty nice guy, and as long as you're comfortable with it, make sure next time ANYTHING happens he's single, and tell me alllll about it, you're all set. :3
Love you always :D
Panda
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OKay well what i think that he does have feelings for you and that there is an attraction between you two. But i think he also has greater feelings for his girlfriend and has a guilty conseince about it all. If she cuts then hes probably afraid to leave her because he doesnt want her to hurt herself. I think you need to tell him to stop until he has everything else starightened out because its not fair to you or his g/f and dont let him go down your pants anytime he wants that way your sure hes not useing you and respects you.
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Well, first of all the guy seems like a asshole that just wants to hook up, and enjoys cheating on his girlfriends. I say you dont go any further cause if it does lead to a relationship how do you know when he is not with you he wont do that to some other girl. I dont know, listen to me or dont!..but let me suggest one little thing, next time you think about getting rowdy with a guy, go for the bedroom not the trampoline! Hope everything works out!
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I know that you really like him but it's up to you. But i think that you and just him should have a talk about this and how you feel. Also you have to question is it really worth giving up your boyfriend for him? Will you be happier with him. Also he might ( which i highly dought) that he just wants to be really close friends with you be cause i have a boy thats a friend that i hug and kiss and he tickles me and stuf but we just to that cause were really close friends and we love eachother as friends and my b/f under stand and his g/f understand we just don't make out and u kno that kind of stuff like we only kiss o the cheek and a kis son the lps if like were not going to see eachother for a really long time and sometimes i think about would i be happier with him instead but isay i love him but i love my b/f to i i think i am happy now and things are oing great so why ruin it? that what you have to ask yourself.
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well.. i think you should let this guy go...because he seems undecided..basically you should ask him whats going on between you guys and if anything gonna happen...if not den tell him to stop because he has a gf...and dats gonna bring problems in which u dont need...hope this helps...keep me updated
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