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derrell p


Question Posted Friday December 10 2004, 9:40 am

I went derrell online .we talked online for one months.I gave him my phone number ,he started to call me ,he's really funny.I think I like him
he also askedme out and I said yes.now he's the only thing I think about,dream about and talk about.but I'm having some doubts,he lives really far from me.I kind of scare to tell what I feel
when he asks me what I want to talk about I say nothing.what should I do??


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Daisy answered Friday December 10 2004, 4:08 pm:
How far away do you live from eachother? If you are scared to talk to him about how you feel it means you are getting to know him but don't know him that well yet. When you talk to him, as I said to another girl the other day, and you are worried you will run out of conversation, then make a list before you/he calls so you know you won't forget anything. By doing this you will soon get the hang of it and start to feel much more relaxed around one another. Once you feel relaxed you will feel more confident in confiding how you really feel and it will come more naturally.Distance relationships are hard but if you want it to work out then you can.

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DemonicAnthony answered Friday December 10 2004, 3:06 pm:
I think you should get a boyfriend closer to yourself. Online relationships are tricky due to the fact you really dont know who you're talking to most of the time. For all you know, regardless to the phone calls, he could be a 40 year old child molestor. I think it's best if you try and get a boyfriend in your own area so that its 1.) safer and 2.) more convient for you. I hope this helps and above all stay safe. :)

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Ditsy answered Friday December 10 2004, 12:59 pm:
well since he lives far away u should just be friends and find a new love life closer 2 u

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cUteNsImplE answered Friday December 10 2004, 12:35 pm:
-well goign out with sum1 far away isnt easy-trust me i'v been there-i also have been in a relationship where i had sum trouble beling everything he said-because he didnt live near me. He was also a guy i thought about all the time-non stop-but finlay i got to the point where i had to turn to my friends-they told me they had seen sum changes in me-so i decided that a guy isnt worth worrying abuot-yes i will be hard-it will be ver hard-but if you rlly want to be happy-this guy isnt going to help-unless you think there is a chance that you two could work it out--

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NikNik answered Friday December 10 2004, 12:08 pm:
tell him how you feel...just tell him you like him if you do but the distance thing isnt working out...thats what i would do.

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snitches6945 answered Friday December 10 2004, 11:49 am:
well to be honest you should date a guy that you didnt meet over the internet because he lives so far away. i mean will you ever really get to see this guy? hold his hand? go on dates? kiss or cuddle like other couples do? its not fair to you or him to be "tied" down by someone thats not really there. whatever you decide to do good luck ~$alexis$~

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veekiez answered Friday December 10 2004, 11:03 am:
Well i really happy you met someone you like so much, but is he a shady kid? Meeting some1 online sounds kind of suspicious. Well anyways, boys should not be your priority right now, i mean i love carlos, but i have other things in my life, friends, family, my hobbies. So definetly pursue the realtionship with him, but hang out with your friends, go out, dont obsess about him too much. Good Luck

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