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everytime I see him!!
My exbf chris and I broke up 5 months ago. I broke up with him but heres my problem WE GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER. He hates me and I honestly dont knw why. I am completly over him and I used to want to be friends with im but I just gave up. Everytime I see him in the halls I get this funny feeling in my stomach. IDK what it is. I am not gonna lie I still care about him, and its like he thinks that its a crime if I care about him. He is sooo mean to me and I try and be nice but it ends up bitting me in the ass. What do I do? Just completly ignore him or what!
Im 15 and a female
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if i was you i wouldnt let no bitch treat me like that. if he is bein mean to you all the time then dont try and be nice to him. avoid him as much as possible and when he does somthin mean to you treat that trick. dont let guys disrespect you like that. stand up for yourself. good luck ~$alexis$~
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You probibly still really love him and its killing you inside that he hates you. He probibly hates you because you broke up with him. Have a friend ask him to go somewhere where you to can talk things out. If hes stuborn just keep asking till he gives in. Then maybe you too will become friends soon. Sorry i didnt really help...ex oh ex oh
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Well you shouldnt completely ignore him unless he is being mean or whatever.maybe you get a funny feeling because you still think about your relationship and what not. I think its good that your being nice to him, because it shows that you are a good person.
~Brina~
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Give him a wake up call. As in hit him where it hurts.
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Hey, i went through something like that when i first started going to a new high school...i had a boyfriend and like on the 3rd day of school after school started he broke up with me...why i dont know, in the process he told me he still wanted us to be friends and then when i would say hey to him at school he would ignore me, he told me he wanted us to break up because he wanted to be single and focuse more on his school work which he lied about cause he went off and got him another girlfriend and has never talked to me again...for a while after that everytime i would see him i would feel the same way....the weird feelings in the pit of my stomach and sometimes i would even start to cry, because i missed him and i wanted to be with him again but how i delt with it is i just ignored him...acted like i had never met him and i got over him that way...alot of geys are mean like that you just have to find the right one who will treat you right...i hope i helped u...just ignore him is what i would do.
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Men are very stubborn and the fact that you broke up with him will have bruised his ego. The best thing for you to do is give him space - I know that is difficult cos youre at school together but the more you see of him right now, the more mean he is going to be. My boyfriend was exactly the same to me. I left him alone for a couple of months and then bumped into him at a party and he apologised for being a jerk but said he needed space and time to get over me and by seeing me every day didn't help and made it worse. I think you are in the same situation so give it some time and leave him alone for a bit and it will get better! Good luck x
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You could always ask a friend to talk to him and to tell him how you feel! Maybe you could write a note explaining how you feel! He shouldn't be doing this to you! Once he knows how you feel and how he has been treating you, he should talk to you! If not, then just ignore him! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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