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ok so i want to get my belly button peirced & my mom is still thinking about it. but i want to know if its going to hurt a lot and what i should do to keep it not infected & anything else important!!
thanks in advance=] (link)
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it hurts like hell.
but keep it cleaned and turn it. dont take it out, just turn it so the hole wont close around it. thats what they told me to do. clean it two or three times a day when you first get it done.
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um..do all tampons look the same and are just a different size? Because I thought they were round on both ends so that when you insert it, it won't damage up there but I looked at thsi box of tampax pearls and on the picture on one end it's really sharp like a needle! (link)
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not all of them are the same.
some of them, like playtex sport, are for people who are active and expand wider than regular ones. some of them are anti leakage. i usually buy the tampax regular ones. it just depends on your likes. but no they arent sharp.
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i'm a girl who just turn 13 and i want to know what sex feels like,i've been fingered by my boyfriend and everything but i'm just wondering what sex actually feels like. (link)
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dont do it. its not worth it. it hurts the first time.
and, my boyfriend came down for my birthday and ive missed my period. im really stressed.
it gives you a bad rep at school.
its not worth it.
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ok i started for the 1st time on tuesday
but i had no tampon or anything and i had swim and then wednesday it stopped
and i saw today it came back
and ever since tuesday my tummy hurts a lot
and iono
i feel weird
can someone help
and tomorrow i have a swim meet TOMORROW AND IM PRETTY SURE ILLL STILL BE ON IT
SHOULD I WEAR A TAMPON ? (link)
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yes wear a tampon.
usually when you swim its irregular.
take midol or asprin for your cramping.
if you think its not natural, talk to your mom or a doctor.
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if my boyfriend tries to put his arm around me at the movies, how do i react? do i put my arm around his shoulder or do i just sit there or do i look at him? ahhh, im so scared. (link)
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dont be scared.
look him in the eyes and kiss him
or put your head on his shoulder.
good luck
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Have you ever just had it where your head and heart are fighting to be right and you just don't know what to feel, you feel head over heels in love, but know you shouldn't be, yet your not sure if you should persue this person or just end it before you get hurt and broken again...well that's kind of how I feel. I just have no clue what to do, I wish I could have what I want and at the same time I know what I want is so stupid and that I shouldn't want it. Someone please help me....seriously.
17/f, this guy is my ex, we dated for 3 years (link)
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ive been with an amazing guy for 3 years. i thought he was [the] one. but things happened and i knew that i couldnt have him.
"Sometimes...
What may be the best thing for you to do
Sometimes its the hardest thing for you to do
And thats real
Cause i know that i love you
I know how i feel about you
But i also know that don't make everything alright
And for that reason
I gotta say goodbye"
it took me 2 years to get over him. i finally got to the point where i knew that i couldnt be with him and i was loving him for pretty much no reason. so i tried letting go. and because of it, ive gotten closer to an amazing guy who is now my best friend. and ive known him for 7 years now. it will be a long and difficult road to let go. and it will only happen if you want it to. im not going to lie to you. i spent alot of nights crying in frustration. it was difficult.
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okay so this boy that i have loved senc like pre k hates me now and I don’t know why well i think i do but I’m not sher cuse one night we were aiming and talking and then we got to talking about myspace pic's and he was all like you need pics of you in a bikini and i am so self conscious about the way I look and he was like no you'll look fine and then out of no were he became this person I had never seen b4 like he kept trying to presser me into taking the pics and i was like look don’t make me do this and now he blocked me on aim, deleted me off myspace and in school when ever we see each other we act like we never new each other and I hate it what do I do how can I fix this?? help me=[[ (link)
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try and talk to him.
i know that you love him but sometimes whats the best thing may be the hardest thing. if he wont let you explain yourself, then give it time. if after a while of cooling off and he still wont let you explain yourself, let him go. i had to do that with my ex. we broke up when he moved 1000 miles away but we still loved eachother. and we recently got in a fight and i had to learn to let him go. it was best because i couldnt make him happy.
just try and tell him what you feel and about your insecurities and if he wont let you explain yourself, then tell him that you love him but youve gotta let go.
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Ok is there a way I can NOT have bad breath in the morning other then like brushing every three hours? My class is going camping and I just have TERRIBLE breath in the morning. Not like normal which is just pretty bad but ok, just so bad. It's worse then a skunk! (seriously I smelled a skunk b4 and it didn't even smell that bad for me) (link)
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mints work best.
dont use gum because it causes saliva.
listerine or mints work best.
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Ok I know what a bible is but i don't. I know it's like a story of jesus' life. I know it's for christains. I believe in Jesus I just don't exactly know what the bible contains. Please tell me everything you know about it. Like wat it contains and stuff. (link)
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it doesnt just contain his life story.
it also contains his teachings.
and the way that christians should live.
it contains parables which are stories that are supposed to teach a lesson.
it covers just about everything that anyone could possibly face in their life. from cheating wives and husbands to bankruptcy.
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i have known this kid for 9 years we get along great he is major cute and he liked me when we were younger but i blew it with him and now i like him...but unfortunatly he has a gf i knwo i should wait till they break up but if we go out and then break up will that jeaprodize our friendship? (link)
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ask him straight up when he breaks up with his current gf. tell him that you cherish your friendship and while you are falling for him, your friendship is super important to you. think about it first. are you willing to put your friendship on the line for a relationship? in my opinion, an amazing friendship is so much better than a relationship.
my best friend, jessica, just went out with our best friend, steven. they broke up on bad terms and now they dont talk anymore. (she cheated on him). but from the beginning he told her that it depended on what they broke up over, wheter or not they would still be friends.
but not all end like that. some work out to where they are still as good of friends.
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Ok..Me and this girl I like have been friends for about a year and a half. She used to think I was weird and what not, but now she's like my sister. But the thing is...I like her. But I'm not sure if she does...She tells me how sweet I'am and that anygirl would be lucky to go out with me...But she also gives me nicknames and what not (none of them are bad) and I'm not sure if she likes me or not..You think she does? Thanks in advance... (link)
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sometimes girls just like to play around. im not saying she doesnt like you, because i dont really know you or her or the situation. since youve known her for a year and a half, i think you should talk to her. dont have someone else do it, cause it seems immature.
good luck.
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i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you! (link)
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i know what you mean when you say "and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents" my life isnt exactally perfect, but thanks. =]] i wish my parents were more understanding of this site.
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can anyone help me out with makeup like completely cause i am clueless lol. anyone in particular really good? i can send a picture but i dont want to post it here to everyone (link)
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you can send it to me if you want.
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Okay. So there's this guy at school, who's in tenth grade. His name is Tyler, and I'm in ninth grade. We both know we like each other, but I only met him 2 weeks ago. And he was telling my best friend that he wants to ask me out TONIGHT! But the problem is, I like him and all but I feel like things are moving way too fast. So how do I let him down easily without shoving him away? (link)
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what i was saying is that you dont have to reject him and be like "i dont want to ever go out with you" just tell him that you want to take things slow and get to know him more before you go out with him.
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I love my boy friend tons and he told me that he has strong feelings for me i wanna kiss him but i'm afraid of what my parents and friends would say.
My friends would probably say i'm a slut but i am worried about my parents as it would be my first kiss
I really need help (link)
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he's your boyfriend.
kiss him.
its not as slutty as some of the things that you could be doing.
just do it.
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anyone know of some places in south florida that hire 15-year olds? (link)
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my best friend just got a job at subway and she's 15.
she also applied at mcdonals.
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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i have been recently been going thru alot of shit too. family problems, friendship problems, stress from school. but ive been talking to one of my friends about all this and he told me that no matter what, i shouldnt give up. because wether you realize it or not, theres someone out there thinking about you and loving you. wether it be your brother or an old friend that you've lost touch with. why hurt the people youve touched by ending everything? ive wanted to commit suicide. ive cut. he always tells me that things are going to get better. think about all the possible people who look up to you. or who care about you. keep pictures of them with you to encourage you to keep holding on. Consult a doctor for your physical problems and a psychiatrist for your emotional problems. email me if you want to talk more.
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okay, i don't get this at all. my mom like doesn't trust me. doesn't like me going out with boys alone, but its wierd because im such a good kidd. i don't break the rules. i always do what my mom tells me to do. honestly, i think that she doesn't want me going out with guys alone is cause she thinks i'll be doing stuff with them only cause i have big boobs lol but how do i get her to trust me more. i don't do anything bad.. (link)
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ive been battling with my mom about this for literally YEARS. its not that she doesnt trust you, its that she doesnt exactally trust the people around you. she just doenst want to see you get hurt. try talking to her. if that doesnt help, what i have to do, is rebel. and prove to her that im my own person and i need to make my own choices. its not the ideal thing to do. going against your parents. (im a pastors/cops daughter). my best suggestion would be to talk to her about it.
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I'm looking for a sweet sixteen dress. I would like a pink one..can anyone tell me where i can find a cute dress?! (link)
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i get all my dresses from bodyshop. they are so adorable.
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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
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hey,
you can email me. ive been there.
deje.un.mensaje@gmail.com
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