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Q: hey i am 12 and i just got my period abd it is really not a big deal but when i told ma dad he is treating me different because i have always been a daddy's girl and a sports player how will i get ma dad 2 treat me the same way

you should show him that you are still your old self. dont give up sports and your old hobbies. he will most likely realize that you arent any different from your old self. the only difference is that your body changed. you still like sports and stuff. show him that.
~Maegan~
ps: congrats on being a woman

Q: Ok so i just became a level I mod. how do i rate questions if i dont see the "Rate This Question: (little faces)" i tried loging in and out again what should i do? thanks

theres a little circle at the top of the question. click that and you can pick a face. andthen its rated what you picked.
~Maegan~

Q: How do you know your a level moderate I or II or III does it tell you are what cuz im confused ??

at the top of the page where you answer questions, it tells you what you are.
~Maegan~

Q: is it ok to wear an (light) orange polo with a denim mini and pink flats?

yea. i wud.
~Maegan~

Q: okay i dont really like to read but i am going to give it a try do any of you recommand a good book i was reading some book today it was "A Child Called It" and i loved that book so do you know any more books like that and if you havent read that its about a child being abused plz help i rate 5s

i don't know of any books about any children being abused, but i know books that are kinda like that. all the books by anonymouse have to do with real children. the books are in diary form and focus on events like rape, diseases, teen pregnancies, and other real life events. hope i helped.
~Maegan~

Q: hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed

if you havent gotten it yet, that means you cant get pregnant. but you still have to worry about std's.
~Maegan~

Q: What do you say when asked if Santa has children?

i would tell your kids yes. his kids are the elves that help him at his workshop.
~Maegan~

Q: What Does "Rip Music" Mean? Just Wondering and what can you do with it?

rip music means take music from a cd and save it to your library on wmp.
~Maegan~

Q: When you make a new screen name for AIM, how do you transfer your buddy list from your old username to your new username?

go to people. then click send buddy list. type in the name you want to send it to. then click which sections and hit send. then since your sending it to yourself, you click accept.
~Maegan~

Q: i can't delete my myspace because i forgot my email password but does anybody know how to make it so nobody can see the comments or friends on your page?? pleaseee help meee i'm desperate!!!

to make it to where only people who are your friends can see your page is:
1. go to edit profile
2. click basic info
3. scroll down and click edit
4. change your birthdate year to a year that makes you under 16
5. then click save changes
If you are under 16 they cant show any of your info to people so the people who look at your actual profile are only your friends.
~Maegan~

Q: I need to get my upper lip waxed... but the thing is, what happens if you get it waxed a couple of times and then you stop waxing it? Will it grow back even worst? I DO NOT want to just leave it. If waxing isn't that good of an idea, what other options do I have to make it unnoticeable?

bleach the hair above your lip. they sell home kits.
~Maegan~

Q: ok i have diabtes (type 1, im not overweight or anything) and im a little shy about it well i mean i dont like telling ppl about it. only my close friends know about it and some other people who i didnt want to find out about having it. my friends think that its stupid that i dont tell people and they say if they had it they would have no problem telling ppl. but they dont have it so they dont know. its easier to say then do. are they right, should i not be so shy about it?
btw i have had it for about 2 years

if you dont want people to know then thats fine. you shouldnt be pressured into telling people something personal about you. no metter who thinks it's silly. if it matters to you that people know then dont tell them. tell people when you are ready, until then go on with not telling. i think its fine that you are shy about it.
~Maegan~

Q: okayy i have 90$ to spend on christmas presents for 3 girls and 3 boys. The girls i have picked out already and that leaves me with about 40$. This one guy jimmy, i like a real lot and i was thinking of gettin him a 24$ calonge from abercrombie so thats 26$ left. i don't know what i can get my other two friends.

Luke- he's a skater, he's funny, likes sugars and candies and even though he's 13 hes pretty much loving in a 8 year old attitude. like he gets excited over stupid things and the other guy, Tyler if pretty much the same way only hes not a skater i dont know what i can get either of then with 26$ so if anyone had ideas i'd appreciate them so much!

- ill rate if you answer

Thank you,
Alisha

for luke, get him a hackysack or some decals for his board. hacky sacks are about 7 dollars at pac sun.for tyler, if you have like jokes between you two get him some things that have to do with them. like if you laugh everytime you see a person with a red shirt on, get him a red shirt. sorry thats all i could think of for them.
~Maegan~

Q: I'm going christmas shopping for all of my friends tommorow. I know what to get all of my close friends that are girls, but I really don't know what to get my best guy friend. It's actually kind of sad because I've known him for almost 5 years, but I am seriously clueless on what to get him. Can someone please tell me what guys like as gifts, that isn't priced over $25, besides gift cards? Thanks!

get him a t-shirt or a hat. if he likes to hacky sack get him one. trust me they can never have enough. i bough presents for like my best guy friends and i have like eight. they like just getting anything. if you can't get him anything else get him a gift card to like a movie theater or his favorite store. for my best friend's b-day im palnning on taking her to a store and letting her pck things she likes and im gonna buy her them. try doing that with him. or be sneaky. take him with you and see what he looks at. then go back and get that when hes not with you. thats what i did with one of my friends and she was sooo happy. hope everything works out.
~Maegan~

Q: ive been dating my boyfriend off and on for 5 years. were together and doing very good right now... but christmas is just around the corner and i cant think of anything!! every one says get im cologne or clothes but he wouldnt like that. were 16 and i know one of the things he got me and its a bracelet..i want to get him something special. maybe something i make and something to buy. im willing to spend 35-40$ any ideas?? thanks!

if you want to make him something and you can cook him his favorite dinner. since you didnt say your age that may be hard but if you are young your parents coul help. hope i helped!
~Maegan~

Q: Next week for my tennis team we're doing a secret santa gift exchange! And I'm totally spaced on what to get! The girl I drew doesn't really wear scarves/hollister/ae kind of stuff, she wears a lot of t-shirts, but she still gets dressed up - skirt - every once in a while. So I'm not so sure about clothing. I was thinking Pj Pants, a tank top, in a christmas stocking. Any cool gift ideas?! thanks!