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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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when you have sex for the first time, does the girl bleed? and if so, does it get everywhere and make a big awkward mess?
Some girls do bleed and some don't. There is really no way to tell unless you do it. And it may not be too messy depending on if you bleed a lot or a little (if you even do bleed at all) and for some people it won't even hurt to have sex the first time. It just all depeds. Make sure you take it easy though and i might suggest doing it somewhere where u can make a bit of a mess if that's the case. Good luck. =]
ok. so i dated this one guy forever ago and it didnt work and now were only friends. but now i have the love of my life
This is exactly what is happening to me. ou need to tell him he needs to stop being mean to your boyfriend. If he is really a good friend and cares then he will respect that. If he doesn't then you need to think about your friendship. He shouls stop doing that because it hurts your boyfriend, but also you. Hope this helps. =]
hey i need advice on where i should spend my new years eve.. my boyfriend that i have been going out with for 3 years wants me to spend it with him. And im 16 years old .. my dad aprroved of it and so did my mom .. but ill feel awkward around his family and not being with mine will upset me. i dont want to say no to him because ill feel really bad i kept saying wait till i get older for ever and now that we have a chance im thinking more about it and i need your advice.. ill miss my mom and i dont know will i regret not spending this new year with her? =[ i dont know anything. where should i spend the new years eve? my boyfriend wants to spend it with me at least till 12 im not sure what to do so ppppppppplease helppppp .
I think you should spend it with him. Try something new. I bet you will have a ton of fun with him. I spent mine with my boyfriend and I had the time of my life.
If you don't want to though why not ask him to come to your place? Just be honest about it. I'm sure he will understand. Hope this helps. =]
My boyfriend doesnt call me when I ask him too. He always yells at me about something. He hurts my feelings 24/7 and expects me to wait on him hand and foot. I do everything for him and yet that still isnt enough. everything he has iv bought it. I feel worthless and I get stressed out with him and we get into screaming fights because he wont let me do what I want but I have to let him do what he wants. He used to be friends with this guy and I cheated on my boyfriend with him like 2 years ago. I know it was wrong and I admitted it but this "friend" of his keeps lying to him. and everyone thinks im the liar. What should I do?
I agree with them.
If he is hurting you...you shouldn't stay with him. He has no right to do that to you. Plus he shouldn't expect you to do all of that for him. If you dump him and he asks why give him the facts. I wouldn't put up with it either.
As for his friend...he should believe you over his friend. Which is another reason you should break up with him.
Hope this helps. =]
hey i need to ask something.. my boyfriend talked to my mom and said i was beautiful and im a nice and amazzing girl.. should i believe this from him.. i really love him and he really loves me.. but like he said im a good girl for him bc he needs someone like me in his life.. please help and i will rate U.. Thanks and merry christmas=)
I think that was very sweet of him. If he would go out of his way to tell your mom this I would say that he really does love you. You said above that he loves you correct? And you love him? Well if you trust that he loves you and he said that to her I would say that he most likely does. Hope this helps and merry Christmas to you too. =]
alrightie.
so me and this kid like each other and everything is good until his best friend always seems to get in the way.
He always tells his best friend our personal buisness and then his best friend always gives me shit for it.
and the part that pisses me off the most is that when i confront either one of them about it theyre always like well we were just kidding you always get mad over little things. his best friend is always making fun of me and telling him not to like me im getting fed up with it.
his best friend is going to ruin things between us but i really like this kid! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO.
Explain to him that he is important to you and that his friend is really hurting your feelings. It's not a joke to be treated that way and he should understand that. You may even want to talk to his friend. Tell him how happy you make your boyfriend and if he is a really good friend he should be happy for you two. Hope this helps. =]
I really need help on this one.
There is this girl i have been talking to for the past 2 or 3 months, there practically isnt a day that went by where we didnt talk, she told me how she wanted to hang out and vise versa, and all of that. well we finally decide to go to a movie the other day, and keep in mind she is a quiet girl. well i had fun, it was a good moive, and she seemed to have fun, but i am not 100 % sure she did. she is kinda short with her answers to me now, but i think it might be due to the up coming christmas holiday (tomarrow). In a couple of days, I want to know if I can just come out and ask her if she is intrested, and if she would like to go out again. is that too creepy and forward. What do you think i should do?
Rob 20 & male
I think you should come out and tell her about it. Don't make it like too awkward though. Tell her how much you like her and for how long and say something really sweet. Maybe do it in person over dinner or something. That would be nice. I hope this helps you. =]
I have a horrible problem. I overeat a lot, compulsively, and I think I have binge disorder. It's usually only on days that I'm not doing anything, but I'll go to the freezer and grab a tub of ice cream and take it to my room and eat it all alone. I don't know why either, it's just an impulse I guess. I'm not depressed... I have a lot of friends and a boyfriend, and I'm not overweight, somehow :/ but I always feel awful after I do it, so I just keep eating junk food. How can I stop myself from doing this?? I want to kick the habit before anyone finds out about it, and before it gets worse, to where I start gaining weight.
Hm....I would suggest getting healthier foods around the house. Instead of going out and buying a ton of ice cream maybe buy some of the healthier fudge pops. Try to stay away from all the junk food. Also make sure you get every meal in. If you are skipping any meals this may be one of the reasons you do this. If you start to really get bad you may want to see a doctor. I hope this helps some. =]
Okey, This guy I met 2 weeks back, Mike. His parents divorced when he was 2 so he went off to a boarding school,and since the past 2 years he's been living alone. He hasnt even felt what its like to have a family. He doesnt have any close friends (He calls whoever he knows aquaintances) He is really into books and uses dictionary terms when he's generally talking. But he is really poetic and treats me like a princess and is soooo..H.O.T!! Ok, he is somewhat like Noah, from 'The Notebook' if you've ever read Nicholas Sparks. I see myself falling for him. No,no I'm totally crazy for him. The problem is I'm a social butterfly whereas he doesnt even hang out with anyone. I feel if my friends would ever come to know about him, they would just die laughing at me. But I really like him. Can anyone please help me?
Thank you sooo much!!!
Love y'all...
I think you should totally go for the guy. I mean if he's who you want your friends shouldn't laugh about it or anything. They should support your choice and help you out. It doesn't matter what anybody thinks as long as you are happy. Good luck. =]
I am 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now. The other day, he invited me over to spend Christmas Eve with him and his family. I've met them before, but never actually sat down and had a meal with them or anything, so I'm pretty nervous.
Any advice/tips on how to make a good impression? =]
Well first of all make sure you use good manners but make sure you are still being yourself. You could wear something nice that they will approve of. Don't talk about anything that is inappropriate at the table. Just show them how charming you can be. and make sure to thank them for having you over. Good luck. =]
14/f (sorry this is long!)
okay. normally i'm really good with relationship advice, but apparently i can't help myself with this one. so, there's this guy at my school-we'll call him 'trevor.' so, i have liked trevor since the beginning of the school year. he had a girlfriend-let's call her 'jenny.' jenny is really nice and we talked a little bit. but anyway, i liked trevor but trevor was going out with jenny. well, we flirted a little bit and trevor and i became friends. then, we had a sadie hawkins dance at our school. i went with a guy friend. trevor went with his other friend that's a girl (she couldn't find a date, they're like bro + sis), and jenny went with one of her friends that's a guy. well, trevor had absolutely no fun with his date, while jenny flirted it up with her date. trevor breaks up with jenny. jenny comes to me and tells me everything. she says she's over him. he now flirts with me nonstop. it's just funny little things, sports things, or me making jokes (i'm the funny one =]) and him saying that i'm really funny/cute/cool. i want to go out with trevor more than any other guy. EVER. but still, i have this weird feeling that i would be betraying jenny. help ! what do i do ?
I would advise that you tell her how you feel about him. She should understand that. Tell her how long you have liked him and how much you want to date him. If she is a true friend this shouldn't affect your friendship. I wish you well. =]
15/F .
Well there's this guy named Joe, and one of my friends had sort of like a "physical relationship " they were like sex buddies but without the sex . She claims she fell in love with him. Anywho, i dated him 6 months after they stopped talking because he left to the airforce. When we started talking, we hit it off, and after that we went out for 5 months. Me and him broke up because the distance was too painful and i didnt want to go through with him getting drafted off to a far away place, so we remain really good friends. But now my friend constantly calls him, texts him, and she's always talking to him on webcam. I know me and him arent together, but that still makes me kinda mad becuase he IS my ex and she should respect that. On thanksgiving when he came down, he came to my house and while he was here, she didnt know and she told him to sneak into her house. And i know what her intentions were. So i think she does it to make me jealous because whenever we ask stupid questions like "if you could have anybody in the world who would you pick? " she would say him . stupid things like that . How do i tell her that it makes me mad? because ive already told her and she responds me "well you went out with him knowing how i felt about him " like wtf they hadnt talked in 6 months. Well please Help! Thanks
She probably is just lying to make you jealous. If she wanted him in a physical way before then that's probably all she is wanting know. I doubt she really loves him. You have a right to be mad. Maybe you shouldn't just talk to her about it. Talk to the boy also. Tell him how it makes you feel and if he cares he will listen. She should do the same. She isn't really a friend if she goes around and does that to you. I hope this helps you out some. =]
15/f
Well me and this guy ive been going out with for 3 months already had sex for the first time after the 3rd week . Is that too soon?
This really depend on you two and the relationship you have.
Do you really love him and think you two will be together for a long time?
You should ask yourself questions like that...
also if you continue to do these things please use protection. You never know when you could have an unplanned pregnancy or an std. Just be very careful.
But if you think it was too soon then it was. If you love him and he loves you and you two wanted that then i'm sure it's fine.
i hope this helps. =]
Okay, first I'm a girl and I'm 17. From the end of December to the middle of May, I was on and off with this girl, whose 15. I fell for her, hard. She tells me that she fell for me too. Since we haven't been together, we have been really good friends, but I'm still in love with her. We hooked up on July 4th, but that's the last time we've been intimate with each other. We flirt constantly and act like we're together just without the kissing and holding hands and what not. I keep asking her to give me another chance but she won't. Now, she doesn't want to be "gay" anymore. She tells me that she loves spending time with me and I make her happy and that it's not that she doesn't like me because she "loves" me, it's just that she doesn't want to be gay anymore. I asked her if we could just be together until I go to college, which is in August, but she still says no. I just don't understand. Every time I bring it up, she gets mad and won't talk about it. She said the only reason she has to give me is because she just doesn't want to be anymore. So, two questions. Does that mean everything she said she felt for me was a lie? And, I know I shouldn't pressure her, but how could I possibly convince her to give me another chance?
Well, this is very though. I mean maybe she is attracted to guys now and that's all. If this is the case you have got to let it go somehow.
No. It doesn't men it was a lie. She probably felt these things for you. Over time she might have just changed her sexuality.
Maybe if you keep spending a lot of time with her it will work. don't keep asking her about it if it makes her mad though. Maybe if you stop asking and just go with the flow she will realize she still likes you. If not there isn't really anything you can do about. Remember there are always other fish in th sea to choose from. If this girl doesn't love you find somebody better who loves you back.
Hope this helps. =]
so i wanna get my boyfriend something that he'll love for christmas.. but i dont really know what.. we've been together for awhile.. so i feel like i should know what he wants but i dont. I want to get him something pretty inexpencive.. like under $40 because he doesn't have much money right now and i dont want him to feel like he needs to spend alot on me. He's 23.. and he's kinda rocker-ish. He plays the guitar and he's in a band and he really likes 12 stones... Any ideas?
Hottopic has some really cool band shirts that you can sometimes get on sale two for one.
You could also get him some really cool guitar picks.
Also maybe some cd's he will really like.
I eould say a good place to shop for him is Hottopic or a cool music store near by.
17/female, This boy I like asked me out almost 2 years ago by note and i liked him then and still like him now but i didn't respond to his note because i was being dumb. So, now he's on my myspace and I e-mailed him telling him everything but i sent him a few e-mails all explaining everything little by little but he never responded. He's still single and we are both seniors and I really just want to be with him and can't stop thinking about him. He is probably the sweetest guy you'll ever meet. The last e-mail I sent was about 2 weeks ago and i'm giving him time to see if he'll respond but he won't respond and you can tell if they read your e-mails when it says read so he read them all but he's just ignoring everything and now I don't know what to do because I feel like I shouldn't e-mail him anymore and I should just wait. I've been waiting for little over a month and I don't know why he won't answer and I even gave him my aim screenname and number but nothing and it's driving me crazy. He's the greatest guy that I have ever met and I just don't know what to do anymore and I just don't know if he still likes me or not. Please help, thanks!
I would say he is probably still hurt by what happened in the past. Maybe he thinks if you really liked him you would have said yes in the first place. It's okay though. You should be able to fix this. Try explaining it in person. This will hopefully have a better effect. I bet he still likes you. He is probably just afraid of getting hurt. hope this helps. =]
I like..well attracted to this boy. I'm in yr 11 but he's in yr 12..
We wear different uniforms at school so he knows im younger than him and everyone is seperated by their uniforms. I dont want him to think of me as a little school girl ; for I do look quite young. My friend is in the same year as him and she has told me his interests and told me some funny jokes he's made ad done and they are so similar to mine and my personality. When I see him my heart stops and I can't help but stare. I know she will introduce me to him ; but my God what am I supposed to say. I see him on my bus, but I can't help but stare, and he catches me so I don't want him to think of me as weird. I'm always bumping into him and my best mate so I know he recognizes us. When we make eye contact, he breaks away but I can't read his face...how can I get his attention, and not look like a little school girl? I'm not going to go out my way for him, because that will go against all my morales...thanks!
You said you and him have similar interests and jokes right? Well try that out on him. Talk about something you know you are both interested in next time you so him. Or if you bump into him when he is with your best mate again then say what ever it is you both have in common loud enough for him to overhear if you don't want to approach him yourself. Hopefully this will strike up conversation between you to. If not why not sit by him on the bus one day "on an accident" I hope this helps. =]
15/f
me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and i've been thinking ahead instead of last minute like i always do hah. he loves the Bright Eyes so i was thinking of getting him a bright eyes t shirt and he plays guitar so maybe some cool guitar picks or something? is that a good idea? any suggestions welcome!
From what you've said I think that's a great idea for him. A shirt and the guitar picks are great. Goodl uck. =]
what are some good emo/indie/punk bands.
even like punk/experimental like 30h3!
Well I like Fall Out Boy, All Time Low, My Chemical Romance, Metro Station, Boys Like Girls, Lincoln Park, stuff like that? I hope this helps you. =]
(17/f)
there's this boy at school, and I've kinda sorta got this huge crush on him....and he knows. we used to talk last year b/c we had a class together, but now that's over. I don't know how to talk to him without coming off as completely creepy. my head gets all jumbled when I simply walk past him in the hallway, so talking to him feels like it would be exceptionally hard. my friends keep telling me to just have confidence in myself and go for it, and if he blows me off then I should just move on. just one problem: I can't. I've liked him for over a year...without any real prompting from him. I don't know how get up the courage to talk to him or anything...so I was wondering if someone could help me. please.
Why not start off with something simple? Text him, or tlak by internet first. You will be less nervous that way. Then after that you could see him at school and talk about something like a project maybe. Start talking to him on the phone. If you do this you two will grow closer. Good luck. =]