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Off Limit Ex .
15/F .
Well there's this guy named Joe, and one of my friends had sort of like a "physical relationship " they were like sex buddies but without the sex . She claims she fell in love with him. Anywho, i dated him 6 months after they stopped talking because he left to the airforce. When we started talking, we hit it off, and after that we went out for 5 months. Me and him broke up because the distance was too painful and i didnt want to go through with him getting drafted off to a far away place, so we remain really good friends. But now my friend constantly calls him, texts him, and she's always talking to him on webcam. I know me and him arent together, but that still makes me kinda mad becuase he IS my ex and she should respect that. On thanksgiving when he came down, he came to my house and while he was here, she didnt know and she told him to sneak into her house. And i know what her intentions were. So i think she does it to make me jealous because whenever we ask stupid questions like "if you could have anybody in the world who would you pick? " she would say him . stupid things like that . How do i tell her that it makes me mad? because ive already told her and she responds me "well you went out with him knowing how i felt about him " like wtf they hadnt talked in 6 months. Well please Help! Thanks <3
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She probably is just lying to make you jealous. If she wanted him in a physical way before then that's probably all she is wanting know. I doubt she really loves him. You have a right to be mad. Maybe you shouldn't just talk to her about it. Talk to the boy also. Tell him how it makes you feel and if he cares he will listen. She should do the same. She isn't really a friend if she goes around and does that to you. I hope this helps you out some. =]
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that's just how girls are. she probably doesn't even really want him. she is using him as competition with you. the sad thing is, if he realizes that you 2 do this which he probably does, he is likely to play you two against one another. like if you make out with him, if he tells her that she may beyond making out and stuff like that. if you want this guy, your best bet is to get his attention on you. but, if u run after him then that's a problem. i'd say to make him jealous. maybe seem a little busy when he calls. suggest that you are spending time with guys around like at the movies and stuff. if you do this well, then he will want what he can't have. if your friend is chasing him and you are making him want you, he will be more interested in you.
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