Question Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 3:00 pm
17/female, This boy I like asked me out almost 2 years ago by note and i liked him then and still like him now but i didn't respond to his note because i was being dumb. So, now he's on my myspace and I e-mailed him telling him everything but i sent him a few e-mails all explaining everything little by little but he never responded. He's still single and we are both seniors and I really just want to be with him and can't stop thinking about him. He is probably the sweetest guy you'll ever meet. The last e-mail I sent was about 2 weeks ago and i'm giving him time to see if he'll respond but he won't respond and you can tell if they read your e-mails when it says read so he read them all but he's just ignoring everything and now I don't know what to do because I feel like I shouldn't e-mail him anymore and I should just wait. I've been waiting for little over a month and I don't know why he won't answer and I even gave him my aim screenname and number but nothing and it's driving me crazy. He's the greatest guy that I have ever met and I just don't know what to do anymore and I just don't know if he still likes me or not. Please help, thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? S_C answered Sunday November 16 2008, 10:38 pm: Have you ever considered that he's over you? It has been two years and he hasn't shown any interest in you since you rejected him.
It's possible that he's still hurt, but I doubt that. After 2 years, most people get over someone who rejects them, especially if there never was a relationship in the first place. He asked you out, you basically told him no... what makes you think he still likes you?
Let it go. You've sent him tons of emails, messages, etc. He has your number and your screen name. You're doing nothing but making yourself look desperate and silly. If he likes you, he will contact you. Honestly, though, it doesn't look like that's going to happen.
Leave him alone. You're basically "myspace stalking" him, and I'm sure he thinks it's annoying. If not, he would have made a move by now. Get over him because he's apparently gotten over you.
I'm sorry, but this just seems so obvious to me. Why would he ignore you if he liked you? Why keep trying if he's not showing any signs of interest? You're pestering him with e-mails! Just stop already and move on. It may seem difficult now since you claim to like him so much, but it'll be easier in a while. You'll find someone else who is actually right for you.
I hope you don't take what I'm saying as offensive. I just think you really need to hear something other than "oh I'm sure he likes you, it just takes time" because that just doesn't seem to be true. I understand this isn't what you want to hear, but honestly... he would have said something by now if he likes you.
Sure, there's a possibility he's "playing hard to get", but I doubt it. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
babezz20 answered Sunday November 16 2008, 4:49 pm: If he still likes you, he will talk to you!!! I think you've done enough, explaining everything to him and giving him your number is enough...Now, it's all up to him and not you, i think you should let it be; if he wants to be with you trust me he will find a way no matter what but dont do anything else because you dont want to look like ur despreate;you know...<333 Good luck... [ babezz20's advice column | Ask babezz20 A Question ]
shelbz7077 answered Sunday November 16 2008, 4:39 pm: I would say he is probably still hurt by what happened in the past. Maybe he thinks if you really liked him you would have said yes in the first place. It's okay though. You should be able to fix this. Try explaining it in person. This will hopefully have a better effect. I bet he still likes you. He is probably just afraid of getting hurt. hope this helps. =] [ shelbz7077's advice column | Ask shelbz7077 A Question ]
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