hey there (:
im shannon.
i play volleyball.
im 13, but ive been told i possess much wisdomm for my age.
i'm here to answer any questions you might have.
so please, dont be afraid to ask me anything (:
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Ok i have went through alot of stuff lately in my family..divorce..affairs and a drug addict sister. I am going to be a senior this year and i have survived my vball team for the past 3 years. I hate volleyball..dont like practices..games..nothign..but i do it because its a sport and my parents want me too. Well this year..i dont want to go through another season..my mom says i should go through with it..im not sure what do..what do you think? (link)
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If you don't like it, don't do it. no ones forcing you to, so why force yourself?
but since you have been going through a lot, it might be a good way to keep your mind off of everything.
but I'm not sure if thats a good enough reason to put yourself through something you dont enjoy.
but in the end its your choice.
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so i used to have super long hair, and all one length...but i just got it cut.
i play volleyball and i dont know how to do my hair so it doesnt get in my face. i have the kind of bangs that kinda sweep to the side and they never go back in a pony tail....anyideas? we're not allowed to use bobbypins or other metal things (link)
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i know exactly how that goes lol.
i use pre-wrap so my side bangs stay back.
and as for the rest of my hair i just throw it up in a pony tail (=
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i play sand volleyball and im thinking about getting my belly button pierced. I see a ton of people with theirs pierced who play, but since sand is starting up i feel like if i get it right now itll hurt bad if i dive on it/get sand in it, or will it be okay? thanks (link)
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personally, i would wait until the seasons over to get it pierced, therefore you have slight to no chance of getting it infected soon after you get it pierced.
but if you want to get it done now, im sure it would be okay, just as long as you clean it right after your done playing.
just to be safe id ask the person whos going to do the piercing if its okay.
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I have a bf and i cant tell if he really likes me or not. can u please help me? (link)
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well, if hes using you he'd probably be pushing you to do sexual things with him.. if he's not doing that than odds are he likes you.
but there really isnt a real good way to tell, so as the person below me suggested, i'd talk to him about it if i were you.
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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.
1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?
haha thanks (link)
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1. yes you can get an std but its doubtful.
2.you dont HAVE to, but i would recommend it, guys like it (=
3.i guess it would, but it would take away a lot of the pleasure for him.
4.if i were you i would shave your pubic hair.
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if you finger yourself and you find blood
what does this mean?
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you could have either
a) popped your own cherry.
b) scratched yourself with your nail.
c)started your period.
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When my boyfriend fingers me, eats me out or we have sex, I always end up having a really intense orgasm where my legs shake and it's the whole arched back thing. Though... afterwards, I get like... after shivers? Is that normal? (link)
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Yeah, thats completely normal(=
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When you are giving a handjob to someone while they are fingering you, does that have a name? Thanks. (link)
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mutual masterbation(=
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Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it? (link)
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yes, it will hurt the first time.
but normally itll only hurt for a couple seconds.
the pain won't be unbearable though, so dont worry.
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me and my boyfriend have had sex like 5 times and i havent told my mom but she wants to take me to the gyno just to get on birth controll. if ur under the age of 18 do the gynos tell your parents if ur not a virgin? (link)
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If you ask your gyno not to tell your parents then they won't.
But since your mom is taking you to get you put on birth control she probably already thinks your sexually active, so it shouldnt be a big deal either way.
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so i was in the ocean the other day and my boyfriend was fingering me and i started jacking him off but i told him to finish it so that he didnt cum near me cause in the water its harder to control where it all goes... so i went away from him and then a little while later he fingered me again... is that bad?? that cant cause pregnancy right? (link)
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if he still had cum on his hands then yes there is a possibility, but its a VERY low chance.
and if you were in the ocean, it probably would have gotten washed off of his hands.
so i highly highly highly doubt you are pregnant.
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recently this group of immigrants from africa came over and i was to show them around school...a couple of them were girls and i ended up dating and having lots of unprotected sex with them...they were about 17 so theyve deffinetly have had sex in africa...i always puilled out in time but do u think i might have AIDS or HIV? what should i do i dont want my parents or anyone else to know. (link)
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the only thing you can do is get tested, just to be sure.
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Iam going to the gynocologist tomorrow for the first time and iam scared i might have something what am i suppose to do if i have an std? (link)
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if you were to find out you have an std while you're there your gyno will tell you everything you need to know about the std you have, and what to do about it.
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we are about to go on vacation and my twelve year old got her period not for the first time. can she wear a tampon and if so what kind
marie (link)
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yes its perfectly fine!
it doesnt really matter what kind she uses, but if your going to be doing alot of active things on vacation i recommend getting her playtex sport
you can barely tell you have them in (=
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So you think its fine to shave your pubic hair off? Because Im a little freaked out that guys will get weirded out by it...Do they? (link)
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go for it!
most guys prefer it shaved
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ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?
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why don't you call him and try to talk him or something, tell him you miss talking to him and you want to start up your friendship again(=
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Basically at the moment I have my top 8 friends on my myspace profile showing but I would like to delete/hide them and instead have a link to them. I've seen this link on other people's profiles and it is: "View All Of ___'s Friends". By clicking on that you just go straight to all of their friends. I was wondering if you knew a code to do that? (link)
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i think this one works.
td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br {display:none;}td.text td.text table {background-color:transparent;}.r{}td.text td.text table table br {display:inline;}
i'm sorry if the links not there, it should be though.
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when i use a blog layout on myspace, it is never centered its always to the left. I have the middle alignment clicked, idk what to do! (link)
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< center > < /center >
take out the spaces(:
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It starts out with this... I needed to find a specific picture of a logo that said something but I only found a logo with something close enough. so i was wondering if there was a program somewhere where it let me change what the logo said but keep the font?
or if that is not possible, if i can somehow get the font name from a picture so i can type in whatever i want?
thanks (link)
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normally if you save the piture, then open a "Paint" document on your computer, then go to
file.
open.
the pick the picture, you want.
then you click 'view' at the top, then click text toolbar
then the font that the piture is in should be said right there.
sorry if thats confusingg lol
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so when a girl shaves around her vagina is it okay for it to be alittle itchy afterwards? (link)
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yeah, thats completly normal!
and if you want to reduce the itchiness, put some deoderant on it after you shave, sounds weird i know. but it works good(:
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