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Hey I'm 14 years old and in july i have an 2 weddings to go to and i have no idea what to wear. I'm a very informal dresser, dressing up for my is rock consert clothes. I want to have something nice to wear but not look really girly because thats ust not me, have you got any ideas of what i can wear?

Thank You!
XXX

Try a tunic dress with skinny jeans or leggings under neath with flats. It's cute, fancy but not "over the top"


Here's some links..

This Dress:
http://www.darylk.com/shop/images/spring07.jpg

These Leggings:
http://z.about.com/d/fashion/1/5/A/N/1/leggings.jpg

These Flats:
http://www.dandelionfeet.com/images/Pearl_Black_Patent2.jpg

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I have alot of fat on my stomach and thighs.
I am always gaining weight now..
and it doesnt look good.
What are some tips that i can do, to loose some of this fat and stay healthy and skinnier.?


thanks
xoxo

No need to cut the sugar completely.

Exercise daily at LEAST 30 minutes a day.

Instead of..

ice cream have frozen yogurt
Butter pretzels have an apple with caramel
Popcorn have kettle corn (It is a bit healthier)


*If dieing for a soda, get sprite, 7up or Sierra Mist. They are the LEAST sugary soda there is.

FACT! -Diet Coke is worse for your body than Normal Coke!!

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I just got a macbook and I am interested in putting the songs that are on my iPod onto the laptop's iTunes. How do I do this while keeping the songs on my old computer's iTunes and my iPod?

Please include thorough directions because I get confused easily

Okay. Before you do this I would make a CD of ALL your songs on itunes on your normal computer just in case. Then On your new computer on itunes when you plug in your ipod click "Sync" it should pop up. Once its done click "Erase and Sync" If it doesn't work and your ipod is blank put in the CD you made and download all that to your itunes then sync it to your ipod

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recently, ive been sweating excessivly. But for some reason..my armpit sweat has been green.. its really starting to freak me out. I really dont know what it could be. this has never happened before. its almost like some kind of juice because its so thick and rich. i am very embaressed to admit this, so please do not make fun of me. i hope you understand my problem and help because i am so embaressed to even tell ANYONE.

It could be an allergic reaction. The kind of deoderant u use. BTW what kind do you use? I reccommend Degree or Secret.

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I need an honest viewpoint on this.

Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your table at lunch and sulks.
If this was your case, do you think he's depressed over the break up?
Thank you

He's at the point where he LIKES playing hard to get. When he can't have something he wants it. When he has something he doesn't want it anymore. Just think of it this way..

*You really want this new phone so you buy it
*Then you find out its crap so you give it away
*Once you gave it away you realized you want it again

Anyway, He could be depressed over something else and the break up is just 1/4 of it.

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I have these scabs on my legs that, I'm embarassed to say, I've picked at. I know that this is a disgusting habit that I need to stop. I usually picked while I was waiting for something, like an internet page to load, even while I was driving. They could've started from a bugbite, a scratch, anything. I've tried to do my nails nicely to keep myself from ruining them, but it never worked. I tried simply resisting my urge, but I can only handle it for a day or so.I need to know how I can break my habit, get my skin to heal, and make the scars fade. It's so embarassing to wear shorts! Any help would be much appreciated. And please don't just tell me my habit is gross, I know that already. Just help me to stop it!

Well it takes 28 days to break a habit for good. If not, longer. I know this sounds harsh but it will work. Ask someone at a drugstore for this stuff.. I cant remember what its called but it makes your fingers sting when you touch it but its only meant for your skin to leave it alone. So every time you go to touch the scab it will sting you so bad you feel like your skin is burning. It helped a friend of mine stop doing the same as you.

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so people say i'm emo. even though i'm not. but on the other hand i have nothing against them. i just dont liketo lable myself. so yeah my hair is dark and i have a fringe, and like black eyeliner and wear green/blue/red/purple skinnys.
what is so bad about that? i mean everyone hates me, just because i'm not a hip hopper and dont drink&smoke. everyone else does but so what? i just dont want to be like them. i just dont understand why people hate me just because i'm different. no matter how nice i am, they just hate me.
i have no friends at all. i guess i was just unlucky with this school.
but what should i do?
i wont change though.

You know. I like you. You don't give a sh*t what other people think. You be the best you that you can be. I like black eye liner and skinnys. Personally, im blonde but still. Emo's are cool and they arent emo coz of the style but because of the emotions. Tell the people that hate you to back off because you are not emotionally depressed. Just please DONT change your ways of things. You dont want to be fake. Start hanging out with the emos, or the goths, or the nerds. Whatever it doesnt matter. Join clubs outside of school to get to know other people. Dont worry!!

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me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent

however

we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago

we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...

i dont know what to do

i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom

i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do

my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S

anyway,

i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.

he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication


my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks

my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it

she is also against me marrying

i always wanted to have a baby and get married,

but i wanted to go to university first

i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...

if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...


someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..

:(


i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do

I know you aren't gonna like this. But just read it.

1. Your young, how are you gonna afford taking care of you, your "hubbie" and a child?
2. Your still in school, and being a mom takes 24/7 time.
3. If you like kids that much try babysitting :D
4. If you want to try out having a kid you can go to adoption centers and take a child for nearly a week and just tell your mom its a school project or something. Please just try this, I don't want you to try something and regret it.

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A while ago me and a friend made enchildas for a class. Her mom can't find the recipe but when I tried googling it I couldn't find one that was easy or similar enough. These are the ingredients I can remember: Cans of chicken, Mexican blend of cheese, Green enchilada sauce, refried beans, and tortillas. I can't find a recipe with all or most of those ingredients so if someone can help me find one that'd be great! :]

Try this link

http://chicken.betterrecipes.com/greenchilesourcreamenchiladas.html


If it doesnt work message me bak

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I'm trying to trace someone's phone number back to him... He keeps sending me strange text messages and I don't know who he is. Doe anyone know of a website that will let me see a full profile, at least a name, for free? I already know where he's from.

Okay I know this is bad but it will work. Call him from a different phone number and use *67 then type the number. Lets say his number is 2005 then type *672005. Then just like, idk pretend to be someone or w/e and find out his name, and age. Then you could try googling him or something.. I'm not sure, but be careful.

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ok so whenever i send my bf a message on msn he never gets it. we can only talk when he's the one starting the convo. and i only have this problem with him. its no trouble talking to anyone else.
lol does anyone else have this problem?
thankss

Try deleting your bf and re add him. If none of this works go to www.meebo.com and you can sign on from there. No downloading or anything.

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okay so my skin was so nice before.
like everyone i would get a zit once in a while but i was so happy with the way my skin looked.
but these past few days my skin has just been getting kinda bad, its not one zit its like 10 on my cheeks and chin. and theyre all like under my skin and only come up a little.
my mom booked me an appointment to meet with my doctor so we could get a referral to see the dermatologist, but thats on june 2. if i even get the referral itll be a few months before he can see me.
i was just wondering what i could do to clear up my skin as fast as possible ?!

thanks ♥

I suggest Pro Activ. Some people say its bad for your skin but it IS worth it. And personally, i dont think its bad. Also you can use Clean&Clear which i reccommend if it isn't TOO bad. Don't use coverup or touch it at all. Rinse daily. DO NOT POP THE ZITS!!!!!!!! It not only leaves a big ugly scar on your face, it spreads the stuff inside the zit all around your face which creates more.

Also, if you are stressed you may get more zits because your body will produce more oil. If you have bangs or dont take many showers than that doesn't help.

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14/f
so i have a pool in my backyard and go to the beach constantly and you know im gonna wanna have a pool party for my birthday. and with planning ahead and sending out invitations im scared the party dates gonna fall on when i start my period. and its not like i can chart it or anything because i take medicine which makes it realllly irregular and unpredictable and i cant use a tampon. ive tried and it just wont...go in! and my mom thinks theyre really unhealthy.
and especially when i have my guyfriends over, what do i tell them?? ahh im freaking out here. HELP?!?!

Well if it REALLY bothers you. I suggest not inviting guys [But that should be your last option]

Wear a pad and practice using tampons. It's a part of life and guys should get used to seeing this happend. If they can't they are just big babies and they need to grow up!

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17/m

I get complimented on my eyes pretty often, and I just want to know what to say to the complimenter when this happens. I feel like a jackass just saying thank you.

Any advice is appreciated.

Comment back, say something like 'Yours too'

Or 'Really? THanks'

haha

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Hey, I am 13/female. One day during lunch, my friends Rachel and Mandy had an argument. WEll it went like this: Another of my friends Sonia told Mandy to shut up because Mandy said Rachel and another friend Veronica sucked at dancing and singing. She was just joking and I can tell, but I dont think that Sonia realized it. So then Mandy got mad and went to sit by herself. Rachel went by and I didnt go because I was too afraid. I thought she got it all under control, but then me and another friend Carmen went back there and asked her if she wanted to join us. She said no. Then we asked her if she was okay, and she was like no. And then she burst out in tears. \

Afterschool, Rachel sent Mandy an email apologizing at first then the rest was an insult. This got Mandy even madder. What should I do about this?

I'm sorry to say but if I were you I would stay out of it. I'm very positive they will become friends later on, they just need a break from each other. This has happend to me alot, dont worry. Things WILL get better.

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well i really want to move schools. im in year 10 and im going to be doing my school certificate this year. so yeah i want to move schools because i hate my school now. everyone there is just so stupid and pretty much all lack common sense. so i talked to my mum today and she just starts telling me off about how next year we will talk about it becuase i should just do my school certificate this year etc. but its not going to be a problem if i do my school certificate at a new school! i just really want to move schools. please how can i convince her?
thankss

Well write down on like a post it note abunch of reason why you want to move schools. Explain to her why you find it important for your education [they really care about that FYI] and yeah. I'm sure she just doesn't want to either 1. Waiver you [Filling out papers, etc.] and 2. Maybe have to pay for this.

Hope this helps a little at least.

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for baby names can anyone think of any names that start have an "on" or "en" ending like :

braylon
brighten
lyndon
aiden


any other names like that boy or girl?
or just any unique cute names you can think of could help
thanx

*London
*Jayden
*Hayden

Sorry thats all I could think of.. I like hayden the best though =]

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Ok when I'm with a guy he always tells me about "oh this girl likes me, she does too, she likes me.. Oh these girls we're trying to talk to me, they said I was cute & but I told them I had a girlfriend." Blah blah and they tell about all their incidents with other girls why??

AND THEN.

When I talk about my incidents with other guys they get mad?

Weeeeeird.

They are trying to impress you. And when you impress them they get mad because they feel that you are "better" than them. I know, guys are very insecure but it's something women have to get used to. haha

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i wanna do a poem of apology to anything

like my friend or mom

what should i do or say like any rhyming techniques?

can anyone writ one i kinda me a brief rough draft short i kinda need it by tomroow


please and thanks

an apology poem.

Hmm.. I'll try! Haha.

To: Mom

You are so great,
Not everyone might know it, but you have to trust fate.


A mother is important to every child.
I can keep going but this shall be mild.

You love and care, you always will,
Sometimes I need to hush and chill

I know we may fight,
But look beyond the darkness and find light

You are so special in many ways,
I could go on, and on, and on for days.

I love you mom!


Sincerely,
*Sign Name Here*



SOrry im bad at poems.. I hope this helps u!

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i am 19f and and i have been experiencing very bad jealous and anxiet attacks. i am overly sensitive as well and it GREATLY effects my relaitonships with everyone. my boyfriends, friends and family. it is not good and i cant help it. idk what to do. should i see a therapist

Yes you should see a therapist or a phsychiotrist. I reccommend a therapist though. You maybe going through some interesting changes or have something bothering you. Sometimes you don't even know what it is. Instead, try taking some time off and just having a good time with your family and friends.

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