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well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!
yess definalty.. if shes getting over him then this is ur chance to get him!! :D good luck!
well i have this guy friend that i talk to right but it the thing is the is like in his 20 and i really like him. and i can tell that he likes me...the bad thing is that i have boyfriend and i dont want to tell this guy that because he will be heartbroken... i mean he really wants me to go see him like everyweekend i have no clue what to say to him. god i really need up with this one... i really want him what should i do...PLZ HELP???
u need to tell this guy that u have a bf b4 something happens that u migt regret.. but if u want to see him and n want him, then i guess u have to decide whos more important to you, him or your boyfriend..and once u pick then u can spend time with whoever u want every weekend. how old r you?
im a columnist... and it is way easier to give advice to other ppl then to urself..so can u guys help me out wit this one!! i have been friends with this guy for 3 years.. and the entire three years i have been in love with him... but now im confused b/c i think he is starting to like me again.. but the thing is is im moving on the day after turkey day... and im really gonna miss him.. more then he knows.. i just wish could figure out a way to tell him i love him before i leave.. but wait there is more... he talks to me and tries to get advice on this gurl and i get all shy and stuff cuz i dont wanna help him get a date w/ anuther girl... today he thought it was gonna be the last time he was gonna see me for a while so he hugged me and it was a really long hug.. like the one u give ur b/f when he is leaving for a week.. i started crying and he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and i went home.. now do u think he likes me...
p.s he told my friend last summer..sometimes he does and sometimes he dont... any help on what that might mean...
if i was him then i would have a hint that u either really like me or that ur gunna miss a really good friend. so it could be either one of those.. b4 u leave i think u should tell him how u felt about him, and if u ever do move back then maybe something could happen between you two. even if u dont move back, still let him know, cuz im sure he would be happy to know how u felt
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
i would tell him to just try to get to know my best friend bc they will prolly be seeing alot of eachother n i dont want anything to change between us. just ask him if he'll be a little bit more considerate when he sees her next time =)hope i helped!
there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone.
wow can u say STALKER! lol dude im sorry.. u just need to face her n say hey can u back off a little.. stop getting everything changed at school just to be the same with mine. u need to be straight with her n tell her how it is
sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!
sometimes it just releases pain or sadness.. for some ppl its not ment to kill themselves, just to bring out some pain.. but i heard that ppl do cut deep enuf meaning to kill themselves, so it depends on the person i guess
ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)
p.s. sometimes my friends call me Lee for short but not very often
theres nothing really u can do about that one,sorry.. people always miss pronounce peoples name bc we dnt always know what they say. think of a nickname u like n tell every1 to call u by that
well one day i asked my friend catherine if she has talked to my boyfriend yet and she was like well no but he told me that if something hapeneds between you and him we will still be friends no metter what?
PLEASE tell me what you think that means should i talk to him about this or not?
hmm sounds like she has a lil secret... yess defiantly talk to him and her!!
Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15]
the only way u two could see each other on a regular basis is him coming over to your house.. so u need to tell ur parents if u want this to last. bc seeing eachother once or twice on a weekend isnt gunna last long at all
hey rach, ok i've liked this guy for the longest time...im a freshman and i've liked him since the end of 7th grade. i mean i've like other guys while liking him but no matter what i've always had feelings for him. the thing is: we NEVER talk anymore, and hes totally not my type..im really loud and hes a shy guy..what should i do? and why do i like him so much???
opposites attract! hmm idn there has to be something about him that makes u crazay over him... try to focus on one specific guy instead of a whole bunch
MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?
tell ur mom how bossy he is to u and ur sister..hes not ur real dad so u dont have to listen to him TAKE CHARGE :D
14/f
okay, this weekend i was at an academic kinda thingy...there was a dance and i met a guy there, he was really sweet and we had an awesome time....when it was over he walked me to my hotel room and gave me a kiss :o)
the next day, i saw him again. long story short we made out...well, know i'm back home and i could shoot myself b/c i didn't get his AIM email or anything! what should i do to feel better?
try to find him!!! i had the SAME prob. with a guy who meet this girl n he didnt get her # or anything, n i told him dnt worry cuz she'll come find u.. n like not even a week l8er she found him by asking every1 she knew if they knew him! so it will happen for u :) just go to every1 u know from the academic place n see if they know whu he is good luck!
I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done anything to me. I know it wasnt right of him to call my friend bad names and i stood up for her even. but i guess thats not enough for her. My other friend told me that im putting him infront of my friendship w/ my friend since hes my first bf. Everybody is getting mad at me just bc im going out w/ him. Today my friend told me that i was hurting her by going out w/ him. She keeps rubbing things in my face and shes making it seem like im a horrible friend. and it hurts because i dont want to be. I dont think i did anything wrong. She told me that i should put friends first. And i do put friends first. i stood up for her did i not? i dont know what to do...i really need ur advice!! because i like this guy alot and he doesnt treat me bad or anything but my friend hates him. and sooner or later i might have to choose between them. but i dont want that to happen. please help!!!!!
well it is friends 1st and it seems like u did put her b4 anyone else so thats good. it seems like to me shes just jealous bc she thinks sooner or l8er ur gunna want to stop hanging around her and more with him.. i dont think u did anything wrong, i think ur friend is overreatcing and she needs to get over it =) so just tell her that u love both her n ur bf and ur not gunna break up with him just bc he cussed @ her.. my friends bf cusses as me all the time its no big deal. let it all out hun n speak ur mind to that so called friend of urs!
the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~
hes just one guy out of a million your gunna like.. dont worry bout him go find someone worth being with :D
how hard is to get pregnate at the age of 37? ia there any helpful method to make pregnancy happen? my husband and I want to have a baby and we are afraid because , as i said, I am 37 and he is 41. Thanks, ceci
hmm well it might be a little harder than if u were in your 20s but im sure u guys can make is possible
What should I wear to a dance? It's not formal. I am a blonde with green/blue eyes and pale skin. I'll rate high. :-)
wear a mini skirt and a really cute like halter top or a shirt that goes off ur sholders a little..curl ur hair n wear it down.. wear make up-- basic stuff~ mascara, eyelinner, base, bronzer, and a light brown eye shadow. and always wear some lip gloss :)hope i helped
theres this one kid on my bus and hes mexican. i have nothing agains mexicans but he is really annoying. but i feel bad 4 him kas he gets harrasses so bad on the bus. every one makes fun of him. i laugh at it sometimes because it is a little funny but i still feel bad. what can i do to stop them frim makin fun of him?
you cant really stop ppl from harrasing.. bc some people are just cruel jerks like that who dont care about anyones feelings.. all u can do is when u witness it again just stand up for the guy :) show those losers what ur made of!!!
How long does an akle sprain usually take to go away, and is it smart to be running track right after it?
it really depends on how bad u hurt it.. usually it will take about a week and a half for it to go away.. and nooo lol dont run track right after u sprain it! wait til it heals
13/f
I always look at the people around me, happy with their boyfriend or girlfriend. I sort of want a boyfriend, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it's the right time. I have a few guy friends, but not many. I don't hang out with any guys after school. There's one guy friend that I talk to a lot, but I don't like him like that (and he has a girlfriend anyway). So I need advice on what to do? I know you will all say "You're only 13 you don't need a boyfriend", or "Just wait until the right time, he'll come", but..I just feel so lonely sometimes, and I want to know that someone will always be there for me.
aww im sorry! i feel like that sometimes too bc im single at the moment.. im not gunna tell u that ur too young to feel lonley so dont worry. when i feel lonley the only ppl who i can come to for FULL support are my tru best friends, u need to let them in on how uve been feeling n they will have something to say to help u out trust me!! dont worry babe
There is a guy I like and he doesn't show any interest in girls, or talks about any other girls. There is a suspicion of him being gay by his friends and roommate. But just recently he's hanging out with girls that like him, and he knows they like him, and it kinda shows that he has an interest in them, but I don't know what to think about the situation. I don't know how to see or find out if he really is gay. What should I do?
hmm.. well i mean if he doesnt show interest in any girls then thats kinda suspicous.. u need to like watch what he does @ night n see if he gives guys a lil more attention than he should be.. ask ppl who know him too n see what they say