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Q: Im just checking if anything is wrong with me or anything. lol. Im not sure what it could be or if its nothing really. Well, lately i have been getting dizzy a lot. Sometimes when i first get up from sleeping. When Im watching T.V. ill get up and then ill get really dizzy when i get into my kitchen to the point when i know its coming now. I also get really dizzy when its hot outside. Its not hard for me to get dizzy, and i can feel it coming. When i do get dizzy it lasts a while and sometimes i loose my balance, well, most of the time i do. Im not sure what it is, or if i have to worry about it at all.. If anyone knows or has any ideas of what it could be or if you have any suggestions please let me know. Sorry its so long.

well, i get dizzy like that a lot especially when youve been laying or sitting for a while and then get up right away, a lot of people get dizzy for a little bit. same when its really hot. however, it continues for another week or so you might want to go to the doctors to make sure nothings wrong. =]

Q: okay i am dark brunette and im thinking i wanna go blonde. okay is that a good idea? and im going to the beach and im gonna be swimming so will that ruin it?? thanx guys

mkay. well i'm dark brunette and once i got red highlights done professionally, however they turned blonde and it looked like shit. but if your face is right,it would look good, it depends on your face. if you decide to do it you might also want to dye your eyebrows the same color lol.

Q: so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do???

that sucks. i know a couple people that cant date for a while and it really sucks, especially when i liked one of them. i've been in your situation twice =[ soo here's the advice..well there isnt much you can do. you can explain to her that you like her but since she cant date for 4 more years that you are still going to date other girls (if that's what you want to do) and tell her that once she's 18 if you two are still in touch to call you and maybe you two can go on a date. hope i helped, good luck. =]

Q: how do I stop sunburn that itches?

aloe vera. that green gel stuff.

Q: Oook, I know I sound like a foolish idiot by asking this but what does "fo shizzle my nizzle" mean? People say it all the time and I say it too, and I know people say it to "try" to act gangster but thats about it. Help ?

fo=for
shizzle=sure
my=my
nizzle=ni***r

i tink it could also mean okay, basically..

Q: ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please

well if he really loved you and cared for you he would accept the fact that you are WAY too young to be having sex. it's good that YOU realized that you're too young to be having sex and he should realize that too as your bf. but if all he wants is sex, you should get out of that relationship. good luck and hope i helped.

Q: Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.

Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything?

haha thats pretty funny but before you did it didnt you think about where the dildo had been. haha. anyways, i probably would have done something like that too. yes, it was pretty immature, but hey, we all make mistakes. you should just call your friend and tell them to wash it off. hope i helped. haha. i cant get over that, its pretty funny =]

haha good thing you used gloves. that'd be gross lol/

Q: On myspace, I know how to make Html hearts (&hearts)but i was wondering if there are any other codes like that. I am wanting to make stars and clovers and anything else there is. I was wondering if anyone knew a code for these.

Thanks a lot!

www.myspace.com/laurens_lovely_layouts

you have to add them first; but then in their blog they have about 20+ codes for shapes..you'll love them plus they have layouts, icons, pixels, and more codes besides shapes. thats really the best site out there! so tell your friendS!!!

Q: Ok, I have been having dreams of being with other men even though I have a bf. I love my bf and would never cheat on him. I used to have those dreams a lot but it stopped for a while but now there back =/. I hate it, I used to just get up and forget about it, its just a dream right? But now they are really bothering me. I love my boyfriend so much and our two-year anniversary is coming up. We tell each other everything but I haven’t been able to tell him about this cause he can get very jealous. He tells me stuff like that and it really wouldn’t bother me. Should I tell him? Is there anyway to make the dreams stop? Do they mean something? I used to like all the guys that I dream about, but i really don’t like them anymore. This is how my last dream went...

We were on school busses and they left us at what looked like a mall but also a school. Any way my bf was with me but we got separated and I hung out with my friend and we found out there was a concert on the roof. we went up there and one of my bf's friend that I used to like was there. Anyway during the concert someone bumped into him and he feel on me and kissed me, I kissed him back and then stopped and started crying. He said come on you don’t like him he doesn’t treat you right don’t cry, don’t you like me? Which made me cry more and I ran downstairs and then woke up.

This guy is the one I dream of the most and he’s attractive but I love my bf and think he is much more attractive so why am I having these dreams! And do I tell my bf? I really want these dreams to stop I never even think of those guys and I end up dreaming about them! AH! Please help

mkay. you shouldnt tell your bf quite yet. try spending more time together doing things you both like. your dreams may not mean you dont love your bf or you want to cheat on him it may mean that your relationship isnt as "good" as it was in the beginning. after you try spending time together and you still have the dreams. you should tell your bf about them, tell him you dont like the dreams and all and ask him what he thinks about them. hopefully, he wont think much of them, or even better they stop before you "have" to tell him. eventually, you may feel guilty and feel you have to tell him or the relationship wont last because relationships are about honesty. you could go either way. hope i helped and good luck.

Q: 15 / Female

Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.

This is beneficial, right?

no you should NOT be doing this. when you dont eat you arent letting your body get nutrients which is very bad and will make you weak. its not beneficial and ive never heard of it flushing out toxins. to flush toxins out of your body there are different spa treatments for that and if you cant get to a spa you can close your bathroom door and let the shower run hot and then soak up the steam.

Q: well im 14 and want to get physically fit this summer. its not that im over weight. actually im underweight and dont want to do anything that will make me loose weight or cost me money.

are there and at home things u can do to get your legs stronger and your arms stronger. i cant even do a push up.

i'll rate 5's.

okay for your legs: you can do lunges on each leg, run up and down your stairs, run in place during commericals on the tv, and for your calves go up and down on your tippy toes (trust me it sounds stupid but it works and it hurts a little)

for your arms: try doing the plank its when you get in the push-up position but rest on your elbows..this also works your abs so a bonus lol

Q: Well, I got a message saying that I need to call this woman to set up an interview for McDonald's. I was hoping you guys could tell me the kinds of questions they ask in interviews like that, and any other helpful tips. Thank you.

well in any interview they ask what kind of job experiences you have which if this is your first you have to be creative with how you say you dont rly have any. they will ask about yourself to see how you can work with people and what not. its not that hard. make sure you always smile, speak clear, be nice and have eye contact, dontjust wear jeans to the interview even though its just mcdonalds, youll still give a better impression and give a firm handshake; not too limpy and not too hard. good luck

Q: ok..
so im only 16.. im about 5'7".. 140 lbs
and my breasts are already an overflowing size of 36D.
im pretty sure that they arent gonna grow anymore.. but i love looking at cute bathing suits.. and it SUCKS that i cant even find any that are the right fit for my bust! Guys always stare and it makes me self coonscience.. because i am always thinking that guys are only talking to me.. and think im pretty because of them...also.. girls think that theyre jealous.. but they really arent.. because i dont see how you could want boobs THIS big.!
Any comments?!

well the girls are jealous because you;re getting more attention. with the guy thing..some guys will only talk to you and go out with you because of your boobs which sucks, however if you were flat, guys wouldnt go out with you at all, it sucks how a lot of guys are pigs. and the bathing suit thing, now a days (not that im old or anything), 2 pieces are sold by the piece not as a whole, sooo you have to get like an xl top and a small bottoms or w.e. size you take. but youll have to get a big top to fit your bust. hope this helped.

Q: i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f

oh trust me thats the same deal with me, but you're probably skinny, see i'm not (which im working on) so im SUPER insecure about my body when im with a guy even if i DONT like him. there's nothing you can really do except pretend you're on the phone and just tell yourself you look awesome..it helps.

Q: My cousin is a big person, she's fat and big chested. Some of the clothes she wears are really inappropriate. Yesterday she had on something that looked like her boobs were going to fall out. What should I say to her about the way she dresses? At school she's just a big joke with all the boys. They called he Double D Lottay and stuff. So what should I do?

well you could go shopping with her and pick out regular t-shirts and stuff and then you could try sitting her down and telling her she needs to start dressing better and tell her about her nicknames it will open her eyes. the truth hurts..but she might fix it

Q: Next year I'll be in high school and I have to do a summer science thing where I go to work with someone who has a science related career. I have to design an interview for the person too. I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas of a career that I could go "stop in" and use for the assignment. I'm not interested in like nuclear weapons or anything. I like more things along the lines of genetics or nutrition or health in general. So a doctor would seem like the right place to go, but what kind of doctor? Thanks...and feel free to go beyond the doctor stuff, any other ideas would be great, I'm open to pretty much anything.

well you could do dermetologists, orthondists, dentists, brain surgeons if they have the time. hope i helped..

Q: Hey my name is rachel and iam 14 years old and my twin sister named michelle is 14 and she told me she was pregnant and i don't know what to do I know I should tell my mom,but iam afraid she'd never talk to me again iam so scared what should I do?

you shoudn't tell your mom. she should tell her herself. its her problem and its your problem too but not as much as hers. im sorry to hear that though, unless she wanted to get pregnant? but thats REALLY young. she should consider adoption oh and sry you didnt ask some of the things i said and sry if it offends you about the adoption thing..just stating my opinion. but my advice is all of it as well. thats confusing.lol. good luck hope i helped.

Q: uhm i am wondering.. how do you know when your breast stop growing?

and i have another question but it is okay if you dont answer it when did your breast stop growing?

Did it hurt when it was growing?

um they usually stop growing around 18, 19, 0r 20. basically when you become a legal adult.
mine are still growing lol

it doesnt hurt when it growns sometimes they itch and that means they are growing. but if you go down the stairs without a bra on it hurts and when you flop them around without a bra, it hurts..lol.

and you;re big for your age, but that isnt necessaily a bad thing. i'm 13 and a b32.

Q: i get my hair cut on the 15th and i was looking for ideas. right now my hair comes about 4 inches past my shoulders and is brown with highlights in it. its parted to the side and has a few layers too. my hair is sort of thin and straight and i dont want it to be too short. any ideas? im always looking to change it up because i get bored w/ it being the exact same. thanks so much!

you should get it about shoulder length or a little shorter..maybe flip it out on the bottom. you could also get side swept bangs that cover one eyebrow...hope you figure something out and like it...tell me what you end of doing =]]

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Q: Hey,

I'm 15 and still have not had my period. I have looked alot younger than people in my grade, but now im starting to look older and more developed. I still feel unconfortable about it though... im just hoping that i'll really start looking older and more mature...
My doctor told me it was normal to get ur period this late...and i might get it this summer.

I just feel behind my friends and am a little worried i'll always look a little younger.

-Anna, age 15

well i personally am jealous of you i wish i got my period at 15. i got mine when i was 12. and trust me you want it as late as you can get it because its a very tedius and annoying thing to have. however, some people dont get it until their 16. if you dont get it by 16 you should go to the doctors..but dont worry you'll get it soon.