I have had my fair share of life's lessons and learned from them. I come from a family filled with divorce and family problems so I have a rough idea on how to personally handle things.
As for matters of the heart I can tell when a relationship is or isn't going to work. I understand the importance of communication and give and take after spending around two years in a relationship were I almost ran my ex boyfriend's household and looked after his siblings.
I understand that in certain parts of the world I am not yet of legal age to have a sexual relationship and that in some religious circles it is frowned upon for an unmarried woman to do so. What can I say? I have been in love and I have expressed that love but I have always been careful to avoid any trouble. I know how most contraception works and how the system works so don't be afraid.
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Age: 22
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I know that I am WAY early, but i just found out that we are going to hold our huge family gathering at our house this year! This is over 100 people, and there are various ages to amuse. Can you tell me the fun family things you do at Christmas in your house?
I would really appreciate the help! Thank you! (link)
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We play Trivial Pursuit, Scrabble, and a lot of families play Charades.
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hey guys, what type of help is offered for eating disorders? (link)
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I think it is mostly counselling that is offered as it is usually psychological the reasoning behind them. Sometimes people think they are big because their friends are smaller than them and some think that it is acceptable to look like a catwalk model.
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Yes, I know it is early... but I am always late! LOL! So, I figured if I started trying to find things now, maybe, just maybe, I will have a chance at being done when that time rolls around again? :)
I am not asking for specific gifts, but rather places you know of that list popular trending gifts for various ages and genders. We are holding the family christmas party at my house, and I still have a bazillion gifts to think about.
What would you do in my position?
Thank you so much! (link)
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In my experience disney is always popular with kids so try somethings from the disney store. All the ladies in my family are crafty so I get them paper and glues and things like that, men mostly like sweets and that is usually how I plan my shop but a little nearer the time.
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There's this kid who picks on little girls, (mostly physical), tried to kiss my friend, tells off teachers, annoys kids in my grade by pushing, biting ,punching (he punched my friend in the stomach for not letting him touch a button in a book), and was sent to the princable's office countless times. Why don't they just expel him? When he's mad he shakes. I find it weird. Why is he like this?????? It's crazy. (link)
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He could be autistic or have behavioural problems. Maybe he hasn't been brought up to know how to behave around other children?
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I just went natural and I normally go to a salon to get my hair flat ironed. It's not really helping much because my hair still ends up in a ponytail. So instead I thought of using a product that will let meme west my hair out and curly without being really poofy. If you can name some product names that would be a great help! Thanks! (link)
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Not sure where you live but in the UK we have a few straightening shampoos available such as Herbal Essences and Garnier, if you check the different bottles.
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can anyone sugest a good killer name i need one for my story (link)
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Strange as it sounds, have you tried using a baby name book? There are so many names in there that you are bound to come across something you like and I hear a lot of writers do it.
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In my dream I was having a regular school day, except that morning I forgot to wear my pants and underwear, and no one noticed? What is that supposed to mean? (link)
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I think it is to do with nervousness, maybe you have something on your mind and you are hoping you won't forget to do something because it is as important as remembering to put on your underwear.
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Iam too slim 4 my likeing so I bought this medicine xasten ,I dnt knw actually weather is working or not cause I'm still slim I want to add. (link)
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3 meals a day and the odd snack should help. I am talking toast or cereal for breakfast, a sandwich and some fruit or snack and a cooked dinner should help plus a pudding.
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Everyone wants to be on birth control but I want to be pregnant! Are there pills you can take to make you more fertile so you get pregnant easier? (link)
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It is recommended to take folic acid supplements if you are trying for a baby and plenty of iron containing foods. If you are struggling to get pregnant perhaps see a specialist with your partner and check that you are both fertile.
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Hi! So I'm 18 & my boyfriend is 19, we've been dating for about 9 months now & we've started talking about having sex! I'm a little nervous because we are both virgins, but I really want to expierience this with him. He has a genetic disease called cystic fibrosis & because of this he is infertile. Even though I know this, I'm still scared about getting pregnant. We talked about it & he suggested that he just pulls out before...you know. But I'm still unsure... Any advice? (link)
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Condoms do not only protect against pregnancy but STIs (sexually transmitted infections) which even innocent couples can get from having sex with each other.
Also due to your age I would be cautious about anyone claiming that they are 100% infertile no matter what diseases they have. You do not want to get pregnant after your first time so always take precautions and maybe go to a family planning clinic to discuss your options together as a couple.
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Ok, so don't laugh please? I have always been small chested with only a B and I feel ugly because other girls have larger breasts than me. Are there any drawbacks to going and getting breast implants? Things I need to know before I go for the appointment? Anything? I want them, but I am scared of surgery at the same time. :( (link)
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Before you opt for the knife I can tell you as a woman with natural large breasts that it is not all it is cracked up to be. Back ache is a certainty and it makes exercising very difficult and painful to do and so weight gain can occur, not to mention the larger the cup size, the more you have to pay and most large bras are very plain and boring to look at.
Plus you can also get bras with padding and that give an extra boost to your chest if needed and it is a lot less hassle and less frightening than the knife.
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Hi! I'm 14 and I'm Catholic, so naturally I am going to get confirmed. However, it seems that all of my friends are getting confirmed this year while I am getting confirmed next year and I am envious of them. They go to different churches, but even so. It bugs me that I have to wait another year when my friends are getting confirmed this year, if not already confirmed. Is this normal to get confirmed at 15? In my opinion, this is a very late age to be confirmed since the Church says that seven is the age of reason, and my parents were both confirmed at the age of 12. Am I being mad for no reason ( this makes me SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO mad to the point where I curse out the lady, of course not to her face)? All answers are appreciated. Thank you! (link)
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When I went through Catholic schools we were not given the option of confirmation until the last year, however I have since heard that the Catholic church are considering tying in First Holy Communion with Confirmation at the age of around 7. I live in the UK and can tell that your faith is of importance to you and another year will surely fly by.
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Hi! Can you tell me what web browser you think is the best one to use and why? There are so many now I don't even know which one is going to be safest and hopefully still fast. Does anyone know? (link)
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I use Google Chrome as it is better for games and youtube or catch-up TV, less buffering and quick at loading things compared to other web browsers.
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I am a 44 year old woman. I have been married for 3 years. During the marriage I have been happy, but my husband hasn´t been. He has cheated on me 3 times, left me twice, and has currently asked me for a divorce. My problem is: I fight tooth and nail for a reconciliation. I have used logic, patience, understanding, and giving in to my husband´s every whim to get him to see how worthwhile it is to have a good life together. I feel all it takes is maturity and respect to make things work. To me, divorce is the last resort. I would feel like a total failure with divorce. When I didn´t agree to divorce, my husband became infuriated. He started throwing things, breaking things, and yelling F*** YOU, I HATE YOU. I cant let him go! I have an addiction to this man that I cant shake. What do I do? (link)
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I am sorry to hear about your marital problems but it is difficult loving someone who does not love back. You seem to be in a lose-lose situation in that if you get divorced you are unhappy but he will be and if you don't you are in a marriage with a man who has no respect for you and clearly does not want to be married to you any longer.
Perhaps try a trail separation before you go to court and make any decisions? Give each other between 2-4 weeks of minimal contact and go from there, meet for coffee and discuss your options.
I wish you all the luck in the future.
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My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 6 months now. He's the best guy I've been with and our relationship is wonderful. The problem lies in the fact that he is good friends with an ex. I actually recently found this out because they don't hang out too often, but do talk/text occasionally. She is also in a serious relationship herself. My boyfriend and her had a clean, mess-free break and it was many years ago. Is this normal? I'm feeling threatened, and don't know how to react since I've never been in a situation like this before. I have no reason to not trust him, but it makes me worried that he's still close with someone he was in a relationship with. Am I making a big deal out of a non deal-breaker? (25/f) (link)
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Take care, jealousy can cause irrational thoughts and actions. The last thing you want to do is alienate your boyfriend and come across as unreasonable. I have been there myself with my own other half and it drove me crazy, especially as she didn't have anyone else and believe me it is a lot harder.
I would take comfort that she is in a serious relationship with someone else. It is normal to still speak after a mess-free break up. My step-dad's parents get on famously unmarried and they both moved on.
At the end of the day he is in a relationship with you and not her. For what ever reason she had her time, it didn't work out and she has moved on but still thinks a lot of her ex as a person, which is a lot nicer than avoiding each other and feeling bitter.
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I'm kind of scared now of what's been happening.. The Connecticut, the Boston.. I'm kind of getting scared of going to school and stuff :( Please help (link)
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Sounds like your part of the world has had a tough time of it and I don't blame you for being concerned.
However, I wouldn't let it put you off doing what you do, after all part of going to school is planning for the future, try and concentrate on that rather than the chances of bad things happening, after all you are just as likely to be struck by lightning and run over by a bus as to someone coming after you.
Also if it helps, arrange trips out or to school and back with friends or as a young-ish adult member of your family to take you to school or where ever you need to get to. I know street cred is important and you probably don't want your parents taking you everywhere but explain how you feel about it and talk about it with them.
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I need help! I dont know what to put on my Babysitting flyer!!!!!!!!!! Can you help???? (link)
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Basic details, name, age, brief previous experience if any and contact details so that people can get in touch with you.
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I wanna go 2 this girls house and have oral sex and she wants to just as much as well. But I don't know what 2 say 2 my parents because it will be awkward if I say I'm going to this girls house to fuck. What shall I do or say? (link)
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Mum and Dad do not need to know. You will learn that there are certain things that remain between you and your partner and no one else, especially your parents.
By all means give them a going out time and a time that you will be back but tend to use brief terms like 'catching up with...'
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I'm just a little curious about this. I know I'm too young(14) for sex, but yeah. Also, I can't seem to have an orgasm anymore. I love porn, but I can't seem to cum from watching it anymore. I'll get really wet, but that's all. That's why I'm considering "breaking" my hymen, and using something as a dildo. (link)
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Pain depends on your own personal pain threshold, everyone is different. The best way to describe it is perhaps 'uncomfortable' and possibly a few spots of blood.
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Okay so me and my bf broke up 2 months ago. We went about a month and a half with out speaking to each other. He texted me first just to check how I was doing and then recently he asked me to go to a concert with him. then he asked me to spend easter with him and his family. And then I spent his birthday with him and his family again. I don't know what to make of the situation. Im getting mixed signals and I don't know why he keeps inviting me around him and his family. (link)
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You need to ask yourself what you want before you ask what he wants. Is it friendship or more? Only the two of you can decide. I used to go around to my ex's a lot when we broke up as I was still on good terms with him and his family. This went on for a couple of years but then we both went our separate ways and were seeing other people.
It is all to do with intent and you have to make sure that if it is what you want, you make sure you are giving him the message that you want nothing more than friendship.
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