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How bad does it hurt to lose your virginity?
I'm just a little curious about this. I know I'm too young(14) for sex, but yeah. Also, I can't seem to have an orgasm anymore. I love porn, but I can't seem to cum from watching it anymore. I'll get really wet, but that's all. That's why I'm considering "breaking" my hymen, and using something as a dildo.
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Some advice from one woman to another... Don't bother with a dildo yet. I've found that sometimes penetration makes it even harder to reach orgasm. I don't want to sound too forward, but find something 'soft but firm' like a tightly wadded blanket, and er...rub yourself on it as if you're having sex. It can do the trick if you do it right.
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For most women, it's harder to have an orgasm vaginally so the idea of using a dildo might not be as effective as you think. It might work, but it might not so just keep that in mind. If you're ready, your partner is gentle, and you are properly excited (do a lot of foreplay), it shouldn't hurt to lose your virginity. That area is really stretchy if you're relaxed. All three of those criteria are really important though. Whoever it is that you decide to have sex with must know that it's your first time and you have to be able to trust them to be slow and careful at first and not get really excited and carried away.
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Pain depends on your own personal pain threshold, everyone is different. The best way to describe it is perhaps 'uncomfortable' and possibly a few spots of blood.
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