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Q: I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again.
well i know this will sound even worse but i think you should pray mabey get involved with a deciple ship group if yuor church has them i am sorry you feel that way running away is not the answer!
hope i helped.
rkgurl13 ;)

Q: My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.

I'm scared for her.

Any Advice??...

- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.


Thank you
if i were you then i would sugest highly adopyion because alot of ppl out there want a newborn like that because i think that abortion is very bad but that is just me.
hope i helped.
rkgurl13

Q: well theres this guy i like, but my EX-bff likes him too! i asked him who he likes better me or her! he said me~how do i get him to ask me out or how do i ask him out
just go up to him and say '' hey do you want to go and see a movie or something with me and just me'' just something like that.
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rkgurl13

Q: were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie
wal-mart if you are ner one.
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rkgurl13

Q: can people see who asks the question on advicenators? i mean like i'm asking this question, can anyone find out that it's me?

thanks
no not unless you say your user name

Q: i am not uaually hungry, but my schedule doesn't allow eating just whenever i get hungry. the problem is, once i starteating i eat to much. how can i control this? help! i rate high!
schedule you have a schedule? just stop when you think it is enough.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: ive heard that the brown jelly bracelet is 'toss my salad' but i have no clue what that means. can someone please tell me?
either it means to have sex with him or her or messing with your boobs that would be my gusse.

Q: What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship?
well i do not think that this girl should even bo in a relashionship with this guy who is like either 26 or 27 because that is ileagle in alot of states. so i am not going to suport her.
hope he doesn't end up being arested

Q: do anyone wear mary kay makeup?

is it good or bad i heared it was for old people
i don't but my sister does she said it was pretty good. and no it is not just for old ppl.

Q: When my dad was a freshmen in college he got an offer to work at an airline company. He needed to take the job so he could help pay for his 10 brothers and sisters education. Well, as most of you know, since 9-11 the airline buisnesses have dropped alot. Since my Dad took that job, he had to quit college. Whats going to happen if he gets fired since he doesn't have a college degree?
he could aply for colege and and work a good paying jod until he could find a better job. because there are some that you can do on line
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: well me adn this guy have been pretty close. ive been out of town for quite a while and i got back a few days ago. we went and hung out and did some things... but now it seems like hes not interested anymore... we usually talk on the phone for likie hours but last night we didnt even talk for three mins. hes like im tired im going to bed... so what should i think?? pleas help!
well does he have a gf cause that mabey why?
hope i helped
rkgur13

Q: my parents and i dont get along. they always try to get into my bussiness and ruin everything.. i dont tell them anything and i am not plannin to either. my problem they think i spend too much time on the computer. i cant do anything. my parents are over protective and dont let me do anything with my friends unless it is with a parent. i am really gettin tired of my parents bullshit. i dont want to go otuside and make friend with the girls out there because they are ALL snobbs. i have tryed it before. and when ever i talk to a guy my mom questions the shit out of about the guy.. i have no idea what to do anymore i leave me parents alone i do what they say but in return they wont leave me alone... i used to barely be on the computer instead be on the phone and they didnt like that either. so i would like to know what to do. can someone please help me..
well i think you should just sit down with them tell them how you feel that mabey be the only way to haldle things
hope i hhelped
rkgurl13

Q: OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do?
i think you should be a good friend and give it to her even though he is to old for you or her but that is ok.
hope i helped
rkgurl13

Q: why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me??
mabey he is jelious if he does that.
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Q: I am looking for a site were you can get your dreams interpreted(They tell you what it mean)...But I need the site to be free!! Anyone know of any sites like that??
no but what did you dream?

Q: ok, my grandma always makes me do ALL of her dirty work for her. she makes me do EVERYTHING! i hate it and today i just blew up on her. i yelled at her and then she called my mom and told her. so ofcourse my mom took her side. now im in alot of trouble with my mom and my mom doesnt belive me.

ill rate high to anyone who gives good advice and doesnt tell me to sit down and talk to them....
well i i know you said not to say this but you really do need to sit down and talk to them gbecause that is the only way things are going to be setled.
hope i helped
rkgurl13
p.s. try not to smart off and yell again.

Q: my parents get mad at me whenever i say something about religion that doesnt agree with their views. they tell me im to young to have an opinion about that kind of stuff. and i do. and im not that good at communicating. so should i just tell them that i believe in god? even though i have doubts?

thanks.
well if that is your opinion then thta is your opinion. i probly would tell them but that is up to you
hope helped
rkgurl13

Q: what happens to the soul who commits suicide? what is life after death?
i would think hell not heaven
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rkgurl13

Q: First, let me preface this by saying that this is going to a bit long and that I'm not highly religious. I always believed that if you lived your life morally and right, God or the cosmos or what have you, would reward you in a way. You would be able to affect people's lives by the way that you live.

So I've lived my life well- I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, engage in pre-marital sex, am always kind, and work hard helping others, however, I'm losing my faith that its all meaningful. It seems to me that people in general are becoming too superficial. There is no more great search for knowledge and truth and TRUE beuty. People don't trust people anymore- always thinking the worst ulterior motive, even when there is none. I feel like I'm fighting a dying battle to keep a little bit of innocence and purity. Am I just being naive thinking that if I keep living my life the way I am, will "reward" me in the end? Am I the only one who feels like this? Am I the only one who thinks that we're not progressing but rather giving in to our most carnal urges? I'm losing faith and I know eventually all the people I help will feel it by the way I treat them. Your input would be appreciated.
well then if that is what you think that will get you into heaven then you are very wrong see the bible says that you can only get into heaven through jesus wich is very true i think you need to go to church if you don't already and get your self involved and become a christian and don't just go there and do stuff like that really get to know god and let him be your forever friend.
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rkgurl13
p.s. if you need any thing ealse on that then just drop me somthing in my inbox.:)

Q: I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~
well all all of them are the father, the son, and the holy ghost. now all three of these are god just in diffrent fiugres like jesus is the human fiugre the holy ghost is the sprit fiugre and the father is God him self it might not make any scence but if you star reading the bible then it will.
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rkgurl13

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rkgurl13
hi my name is rachael i like giving advice i think god has given me a special talent i also like surfing the net. my fav movie is either napoleon dynamite or lotr the triligy (i know big difrence). o and i like being random and i like googling things be that is the best place to find all you answers!

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