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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!
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Okay theres this guy I've liked all of grade 7 and he's in my class and we flirt CONSTANTLY.We had this friends with benifits thing once...(less than doing it more than making out).he's in the popular click I'm...not but I have lots of friends.the guy I like's friend said to him if he goes out with me he'll never talk to him again.
Anyways after out F.W.B. thing the whole school found out while he was at camp...so he got back today nad was PISSED well we fixed it up...he's not mad as long as I tell everyone it's not true I got dared to say it.So I agreeed to.cuz he'll lose his friends cuz they're really superfishal.
I am 99.999999999% sure he likes me.I've asked him out (it was after his friend told him not to go out with me.) he said no...now I can get his friend to tell him he can go out with me...should I ?? Should I ask him out ? ?!?!?! I REALLY like him and trust him.He didn't tell anyone it was all my fault...
Love,
CONFUZZELED
I see that you reallyyy like him..
but it doesn't really seem like he genuinely
likes you back.
I went through this exact same thing. You have to really think about the situation as a whole. He may just be the flirty type.. or maybe he hooked up with you just because you happened to be there at the right time. But if he really truly liked you, he wouldn't be so upset with you for getting the word out. This boy seems to be pretty superfical and more concerned about his reputation.
It also couldn't hurt to ask him out.. if you really want. Maybe this way, you can find out if he really liked you. If he were to say no, don't get down about it. You'll probably end up finding someone more concerned about you as a person rather than your social status..
hope the helped :]
-rachael
im trying to compile some music which is up tempo and easy to dance or run to.listening to music while trying to get fit really helps so it has to be up beat and make me want to run dance etc.
Sandstorm-Darude
Black eyed peas-pump it
illusion-benny benassi
dj mangoo-enlightenment
Newton-Streamline
freezepop-less talk more rokk
goldfrapp-white horse
Jay z-99 problems
Ladytron-playgirl
Madonna-hung up
Mims-Like this (CN remix)
Mount Sims- How we do
most of those are techno..
i, personally, like working out to techno cause it always has a good beat haha
hope you like :]
what's a good shampoo/conditioner hair product?
I've heard these work good-
Herbal essences
dove
sunsilk
fructis
suave
My friend said that pantene actually makes your hair worse and fall out!!!
if you can, please rate how well each hair product i've mentioned is. thanks
I think, out of all of these, sunsilk is the best. It makes your hair soft and shiny.. and it comes at a decent price.
The rest of them are pretty good too..
The least best choice out of these in my opinion is suave.. it's cheap and doesn't do much to your hair.
:] hope that's useful..
im 15/f and the only makeup i usually wear is a little bit of black eyeliner. if i dont wear eyeliner i think i look gross haha. but anyway i need some new makeup and i need help with what to use. i always always always have bags under my eyes and i hate it! they never go away! and sometimes they are dark so i guess i need some good coverup. i have big green eyes and brown hair but the front of it if blonde because of the sun and it's my baby hair, i never dyed it. my skin is kind of olivey i get tan in the summer but sometimes my face stays a little fairer and i get freckles under my eyes. what would work for me?
what is your price range?
you could get make up products like MAC, they're good, quality cosmetics, but they don't come at a cheap price.. haha
Try visiting www.mac.com to check out prices
If you're not looking to spend a lot of money, you could try getting cosmetics from an Ulta store. They have products like covergirl, rimmel, revlon and such.. but they also have their own line of cosmetics.. and they always have sales.
www.ulta.com
Make up you could try using is:
1.Liquid Foundation evens out your skin tone and gets rid of blemishes: $6.00 at Ulta
2.Mineral powder foundation finishes the look: $7.00 at Ulta
3.Eyeshadow. Green eyes look best in colors like brown.. it really brings them out. $3.50-$5.00 at Ulta (try using brown or brown/black eyeliner)
4.Mascara (try Almay for green eyes.. it has hints of green in it that can bring out your eyes a lot) $3.50 at ulta
Tools are also really important when doing make up.
Be sure you use brushes.. and never those little stick things that come with eyeshadow.. you cannot blend eyeshadow very well with them.
Tools you can use are:
1.Smudge Brush for eyes $4.00
2.6 peice brush set: $1.99
3.Wedged eyeshadow brush:$1.99
hope this helped some :]
-Rachael
how much is an abortion?
it depends..
if you go to a teen crisis clinic.. it could be free.
is it normal to dream of someone every single night? has this happened to anyone. ever since ive liked my best friend,ive dreamed about him every night for the past 5 months!! why does this happen? and he doesnt like me as more than a friend. he told me that. how do you know if you're falling in love with your best friend?
Yep. It's completely normal. You probably do like him more than just a friend if you're dreaming about him every night.. maybe subconsciously you really do like him.. idk, just a thought.
:]
Hey there.
Okay, so. I work at Six Flags & this new guy named Alex just recently started working there too. So, we started talking, exchanged numbers & what have you. I never exactly told him that I liked him, because I knew he had a girlfriend.
Basically, him & his girlfriend were on a break, because she had chosen to be on it. Like, a month before he even met me and then we went to the movies last night & two nights ago. She was sooo furious. She got SO mad like, and Alex's younger sister sent me a message on Myspace, and she's like freaking out because she loves his ex girlfriend.
I don't know what to do. Because, Alex's ex girlfriend works at Six Flags too, and even though I won't see her all the time, I just don't want her starting crap with me.
Is this like, normal that his younger sister like totally hates me? Because, I don't want her to hate me already. Haha, it sucks. & also, is it wrong that I'm like dating Alex too? Has anyone else been through this?
Thanks.
all that matters right now is that you like him, and he likes you. His ex girlfriend, to me, seems kind of passive agressive. she doesn't want him when she's with him, but when he's with you she won't have it. Don't let her come between you two. His little sister shouldn't be a problem either. You said she really like his ex girlfriend, but she probably wants to see her brother happy too. Once she warms up to you, then she'll probably start liking you as well.
hope that helps :]
well ok i was wondering like what happens in a handjob. ok i know like what you do and what not but like what if you don't go any further and the guy 'explodes' like do you just let it come out or do they go to like the bathroom. and after you have sex i know the guy isn't supposed to cum in you so what's he do with it if you don't give him head?
if you let it come out, it's going to be a mess..
if you don't want to finish, let him finish in the bathroom..
if he doesn't finish at all, it's going to hurt.. and he'll probably have trouble walking.. lol.
after sex if you dont want to give him head, either you or him can jack him off.
hope thats useful :]
Lately I've been having weird dreams, not bad weird, good weird.
And they haven't been about the same thing over and over they've been totally different things so it's not something on my mind.
I was just wondering, what might be causing them? Because whatever it is I want to keep doing it. These dreams ROCK!
Maybe you've just been in an all around good mood lately.. like, less stressed. If that's the case, try to be like that as much as possible.. and you're dreams will be good. Dreams are normally your subconscious perspective on what happened earlier that day. just look back to whats been different about yoy lately.. and try to keep it that way.. :]
I have side bangs and to keep them together i use hairspray but then they look greasy. I see tons of girls who look like they dont use hairspray but how to they keep them together?
Maybe you should trim up your bangs a little.. maybe layer them. The way I spray my bangs is i push it off to the side with my fingers and spray them from about a foot away from my head. Maybe get a different hairspray? Try extra hold.. or you could try styling wax. Idk, just a suggestion..
hope thats useful :]
Alright, I am a sixteen year old female.. and I really want to attempt to use 'body sugar' waxing to remove hair. I know it`s going to be painful, but is there anything else I should know? Shaving hasn`t been the greatest for me and I want to try something new. Thanks.
Be sure you're not shaved before you wax. Though it's going to hurt when you're ripping out hair, it's going to hurt worse if you have razor burn.
hope that helps.. :] good luck
So I was dating this guy, and we ended up breaking up. He said I changed, and that why we broke up because he liked who i used to be. Now I did change in drastic ways but he influenced that. I lost my virginity to him and i smoked pot for the first time with him. He says that now i am a poser because i would ocassionaly smoke and that i didnt need it or want it. So i know how i've changed in that bit, but the other bit he is saying my whole attitude is changed. He wanted to get back with me but how i used to be not who i am now. I liked who i used to be better, how do i go back to that?
ty for taking the time to read this
Simple.. just be who you were before. Do you want to get back with your ex boyfriend? Do you want to change for him? ..or do you want to do it for yourself? Don't change just because he wants you to.. Do it for yourself.
Well, I see alot of people win lotterys every day are so. I want to know if I was to play everyday is there a chance of winning like the megamillions those type of things.
I heard..
You have better chances of getting into a car accident, plane accident, or struck my lightning, than to win your lottery.
I wouldn't waste your money on it..
Lotteries are designed to make people lose money.
You could try though..
When a dick is hard do you suck it or just jack him off?
I really need help!!!
it doesn't matter what you do..
ask him.
you don't have to do anything you don't want to, though.
don't fall for "blue balls", please.
i've had the best boyfriend in the world for almost 2 years. he's so sweet and affectionate, and he does the nicest things for me! the problem is my friends. most of them don't have a boyfriend, and they're jealous. for one thing, my boyfriend is really cute and i know some of my friends have crushes on him. besides that, they're just jealous that i've had a boyfriend for so long when they haven't had one at all. so they either wish they could go out with him, or wish they had a boyfriend like him. and its a problem, because sometimes i get the idea that my friends are trying to break us up. like they'll flirt with him a lot, or try to get him mad at me. or sometimes, like if he brings me flowers at school or gives me a hug, they'll act kind of mad at me for a while. and please don't say they aren't my true friends, because they ARE my best friends. i think they just cant help feeling jealous. i'd probably feel that way too. but it makes me mad and sad at the same time, and i dont know how to handle it. or is there even anything i can do???
Have you ever talked to them about it? I'm sure they are jealous because they probably feel like they lost one of their best friends to a boy. It seems like they're not trying to steal your boyfriend, they just want you back. Maybe try creating time for both of them. Tell your boyfriend about this, too. If you've been dating for 2 years, one of your friends is not going to break you up. Eventually, they'll find boyfriends and it won't seem as bad.. but I know from their stand point, it's hard when your best friend gets a boyfriend. I also know from your stand point, it's hard to make time for both of them. Right now, all you can do is put up with it.. but know that your boyfriend loves you, and not your friends.. so the odds of him breaking up with you for one of them is slim.
i hope i helped a little.. :]
I'm a college guy, and I'm in a long distance relationship. I have to talk to my girlfriend on the phone, because she needs to hear my voice. I tend to always say stupid things and make her really upset. What are some things I can keep in mind to keep from hurting her feelings on the phone?
You don't say things to intentionally hurt her, do you? Cause if you don't, then she may just be over reacting.. If she's one of those girls that gets mad at everything you say.. then there's really no way to avoid it. But try asking her questions about how things are going where she's at.. Ask her how she's feeling.. tell her that you miss her.. idk, be cute. Let her know that you don't say things intentionally to get her angry, too.. maybe then she'll understand and not get mad at you all the time.
I hope this helped.. :]
i want to get a photo on a computer but i don't have a scanner and i can't e-mail it becuz its on paper and its not on a digital camera
how do i get it on the computer
umm.. the only way possible is if you take a picture of the paper..
otherwise you're going to have to get a scanner..
haha
Soo, hello.
Well first off I'm 14 and a girl so this may seem like another, '(pre)teen thinks she's in huge dilemma even though it's a simple answer'. Well, I know the answer but I need some more...advice.
Okay so I have this 'major' lust for a guy friend of mine. He's just everything I want in a boyfriend but also some things I don't want. I am planning to make a 'move' on him but there's just a large problem in my way,
The Communication going on between us. Our communication isn’t…. A lot. He’ll talk to me one day and then sort of ignore me the other day. Most times, we only say hi to each other. It wasn’t always like this, we use talk like good friends and joke around too. That’s the person I really fell over for. I need help with this. Before I ask you them, I have talk to him about it but he doesn’t see anything weird about it. I have told him I liked him TWICE and he doesn’t really say anything but an ‘ok’ and ‘that’s cool’. Even if we don’t talk to each other, I always catch him looking at me and I try to wave back but he turns around quickly when he sees that I’ve caught his look. Haha, okay moving on.
Should I really make a move on him and would it be worth it?
Do any of you have suggestions as to why he acts the way he does with his ignoring and looking?
Much appreciated if you’d answer. Thanks a lot!
This happens to a lot of girls with guys. The fact that you like him is making him uneasy. I think that he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. It's not normal to respond to somebody liking you by saying "okay" or "cool." I, personally, think you shouldn't make a move.. because there are some signs that say he thinks of you otherwise. Maybe talk to him about the communications issues though. Tell him that you're confused by when he ignores you one day, then talks to you the next.
I hope I helped..
I have Verizon Wireless.
I'm due for a new phone and was looking at KRZR's.
One of the features says wireless bluetooth technology.
Does this mean i can trade songs with people, because if i can't, well, im going to die, im tired of 2.99 for a song thats as short as a preview on itunes, its just ridiculous.
i just want to know if i can trade songs with people?
also, can i only trade with certain phone, or company's?
Yes, you can trade songs.
No, it doesn't have to be to a specific phone company.
what should i talk about with this guy i like? i cant think of anything. help please.
ask him questions about himself.. ask him what his hobbies are.. boys love to talk about themselves.