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I've changed
So I was dating this guy, and we ended up breaking up. He said I changed, and that why we broke up because he liked who i used to be. Now I did change in drastic ways but he influenced that. I lost my virginity to him and i smoked pot for the first time with him. He says that now i am a poser because i would ocassionaly smoke and that i didnt need it or want it. So i know how i've changed in that bit, but the other bit he is saying my whole attitude is changed. He wanted to get back with me but how i used to be not who i am now. I liked who i used to be better, how do i go back to that?
ty for taking the time to read this
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you cant change just because you want to,
it takes time and in no time you will change
automatically, maybe you should try to stop
smoking & if you wrote in diaries before read
them & learn from them :)
hope everything goes well.
♥kay
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Simple.. just be who you were before. Do you want to get back with your ex boyfriend? Do you want to change for him? ..or do you want to do it for yourself? Don't change just because he wants you to.. Do it for yourself.
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don't get back with him.
he seems like a bad influence.
and if you don't like yourself anymore make a list of how you are different now compared to before dating him. like what you used to do for fun, your usual moods, the way you dressed, and feeled.
then make a list of how you can be a better person.
take baby steps to fulfill those goals.
hope i helped and if you need more help you can IM me at xox gor jess
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