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My friends are jealous
i've had the best boyfriend in the world for almost 2 years. he's so sweet and affectionate, and he does the nicest things for me! the problem is my friends. most of them don't have a boyfriend, and they're jealous. for one thing, my boyfriend is really cute and i know some of my friends have crushes on him. besides that, they're just jealous that i've had a boyfriend for so long when they haven't had one at all. so they either wish they could go out with him, or wish they had a boyfriend like him. and its a problem, because sometimes i get the idea that my friends are trying to break us up. like they'll flirt with him a lot, or try to get him mad at me. or sometimes, like if he brings me flowers at school or gives me a hug, they'll act kind of mad at me for a while. and please don't say they aren't my true friends, because they ARE my best friends. i think they just cant help feeling jealous. i'd probably feel that way too. but it makes me mad and sad at the same time, and i dont know how to handle it. or is there even anything i can do???
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Dear.????... First of all, starting with your boyfriend... Does he respond to your friends flirty reactions? Does he act as if there is nothing wrong with his girlfriends bestfriend giving him her sweet little attitude, and trying 2 get closer with him? If so.... Write back 2 me and tell me....
All I have 2 say is that when you really love a guy and you know for a fact he is totally honest and you can trust him for everything then there is nothing to worry about when he is around your friends... But if he is the player type then to be honest with you , no girl, not even you deserves that!!!!
HINT: BTW... One good idea to help your friends out is to , ask your boyfriend if he has any friends or guys he knows that would like to go out on a date with one of your friends... You could have a double date or somthing like that....... Just try that and see if it works...
If that doesnt work, i have plenty more ideas but i cant write then allll down right now, lol!
So just write back when u can.... thanx!
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sometimes you might just over think
about the whole situation, i am pretty
sure at times they get jealous, but if
they were your true friends then they
would feel happy for you, try to talk to
them in a nice way, & maybe hopefully in
the end, everyone wins :)
♥kay
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Have you ever talked to them about it? I'm sure they are jealous because they probably feel like they lost one of their best friends to a boy. It seems like they're not trying to steal your boyfriend, they just want you back. Maybe try creating time for both of them. Tell your boyfriend about this, too. If you've been dating for 2 years, one of your friends is not going to break you up. Eventually, they'll find boyfriends and it won't seem as bad.. but I know from their stand point, it's hard when your best friend gets a boyfriend. I also know from your stand point, it's hard to make time for both of them. Right now, all you can do is put up with it.. but know that your boyfriend loves you, and not your friends.. so the odds of him breaking up with you for one of them is slim.
i hope i helped a little.. :]
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