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Q: i bleached my hair from brown to bdirty blondish on sunday...can i go swimming? or will it turn green?
it will only turn green if its light or theres too much chlorene or you dont wash out your hair soon. usually when i dye my hair i wait atleast 24 hours i just leave my hair alone and dont wash or swim in 24 hours. it depends on the color chlorene and washing it to see if it turns green. you should be able to swim just wash your hair out good.

Q: we are doing a performing where we need to be scary..and its hard..because we're doing a soundscape..and we need noise that our voice that are freaky..is there anything else that is scary except for whispers tha we can use
try demon screaming it scares people away when you want them to leave ;) keep trying to make your voice go very low and start screaming and yelling i just do it i dont even try but my friend is practicing and this is what he said do it loud long and low ~OR~ if you can change your voices try going raspy then start going lower and lower or if you wana be normal(yawn)be moany but not like sexy like creepy or like the grudge. i sugest demon screaming ~hope i helped these are the questions i like to answer~

Q: ok this might sound weird, but i have a huge crush on my cat. i've tried dating both guys and girls and no one has been able to give me the satisfaction that my cat gives me. every time he patters by, i get butterflies in my stomach and i feel like i'm gonna faint. he might not know this, but i love to watch him go poo poo. tiger is soooo hott!!!!! someone please help me. what is the best way to be involved in beastiality without anyone knowing. especially my parents, because they would send me to either military school or a mental institution. :(
you love your cat like a brother or a pet fish and maybe more lol its on TV. just stay with your cat love on it and kiss it. hang pictures in your room. maybe a little crazy but normal is overated. maybe you just really need someone right now and your cat has always been their for you. its your first love first loves are always different but fun. talk to your cat kiss your cat love your cat. hope i helped if not tell me ill change it.

Q: 15 f
ok so..my good friend lets call her jaime, wants some advice about what to do with her boyfriend. lately hes been very agressive. like before they used to play fight and now hes actually hiting her like really hard (playfighting). he even left her a bruise but she didnt say anything because they are jsut p;aying/ she says that if she hits him then he hits her 5 times harder!. she also said that he is still really sweet but that she misses her old boyfriend. jaime says she doesnt know what to do. i told her to talk to her boyfriend and let him know but she said that she already did and that he said sorry baby i really love you but that he still doesnt get the point. BREAKIGN UP WITH HIM IS NOT AN OPTION she says lol. i already told her that and she said no. haha. so any advice for my friend? thanks! also, ps her boyfridnd does love her alot. he just hasnt been gentle with her how a boyfriend is supposed to be.
tell her to ask him if he could be a little softer and tell her to show him her brusis and next time hes doing it tell him as their playing ~hope i helped~

Q: what are some really good dares or like group dares for truth or dare?
kiss your crush
kiss the person of your choice
kiss the person of their choice
give a lap dance
kiss everyone
hug everyone
moon everyone
flash everyone
tell the next adult your madly in love with them
run down the streets singing/screaming im in love with a stripper 'or you pick a different song'
thoes are the dares i say that i can right on here if your into different stuff tell me ill change them ~hope i helped~ i do no fucking in dares

Q: k well first i'm 13 and a girl and i really like this guy i mean we've only hung out a few times but i've had an on-and-off crush on him since the first day we met. the other day i went to his house and at first it was kinda awkward but then we started making out and we went to his room. once i realized everything i was all like "no you have a girlfriend you can't do this with me." and he was all like "but i might break up with her." and i was really confused i mean i really like him and this was like wow. I convinced my self what she doesn't know won't hurt her...right?

so we had sex but for some reason it wasn't what i expected and it was just disapointing. i mean this is the guy i've liked for a least half a year and we shared something that is meant to be special but it wasn't really all that great for me. i mean i want to be with him so bad and he told me straight off that we can't go out because he has a girlfriend but he just cheated on her with me..

so wat am i suppose to do wait on him until they break up or just forget about him i'm so confused plz help!!!

THANK YOU =D
hes a player and you fell for it. he has a girlfriends already and fucked with you. think if you were his girlfriend and he fucked with her. he said he might break up with her but after he had sex with you he said he wont break up now. he just said that to make you let him fuck around with you. if you do ever date he will probly end up haveing sex again with someone else. and hes only a on and off crush. you lost your virginity to him and you werent even dating he is taken and you only hung out a few times. forget about him. hes a player. i think 13 is the right age for sex but he already has a girlfriend and a player he led you on. im not meaning for this to be mean but its a bad day for me. i was also on the phone with my best friend(a guy)and i told him this question and he said 'ooooh hes a playyyyyaaa' in a funny voice and we love eachother but wont date hes the only person to make my day better. then i got home and the great day turned to hell. just dont have sex again till you dated for atleast a day. nothing is in a mean way if it sounds it. just forget him.

Q: Does anyone know where I can download the Naked Brothers Band songs? But nothing that I have to download a program for or anything--like not limewire. &something safe.
www.projectplaylist.com
www.music.aol.com
www.yahoomusic.com

Q: My mother says that she hates my boyfriend. I am 14 and we are 2 years in our relationship. We tried everything but she still hates me. I cant understand anymore, and with it, now she hates me! She doesnt trust us because we've had sex. So she just hates both of us and breaking us apart! I dont know what to do. Please help! What should i do? I cant break up with him? and why does she hate me about it?
im in the same way but never had sex. just dont break up its your life and dont give up. we were just about to kiss and my mom walks in. kissing is nothing bad. sex is worse. but still nothing bad. my mom doesnt even trust us we were bestfriends and are in love. she hates you about it because you had sex and your her daughter. and in my mom and i's words in fight ''YOU GUYS ARE TOO YOUNG YOUR MY YOUNG DAUGHTER~I HATE IT THAT YOU ALWAYS PULL AWAY FROM ME~then she has the nerve to say~I DONT HATE YOU I LOVE YOU YOUR JUST A FUCK UP BE LIKE YOUR BROTHER'' i hate my mom to. although my brother had sex at 12 and dated at 10. i dont think theirs anything wrong with sex i say at 13. but i never did yet. dont give up fight back if you give up its over. fight back and defend for anything you got. say your sorry but you love him and would do anything for him. dont break up.

Q: i wear the sexbands the game way lol. but which way to wear them was virgin but taken and virgin and single and virgin in love virgin in tears. and whats red mean.
i wear them too. fig2~fig7~fig5~fig8 in your order. red is masturbate.

Q: im new to this all and theres alot of questions about a person i think theyre from her. i think randomgrl if not sorry for bothering you. how do i find out if its her or can someone else help me i seriously need to know if its her. i havent seen her in awhile-HOW DO I GET YOU TO FORGIVE ME? i am going deppressed over you youre my best friend and ive never even had a girl really talk to me this much but your my bestfriend i just dont really understand you not in a mean way but your crazy my parents dont like you your parents dont like me we never can see eachother unless we do sneak. were loseing contact. your very interesting thats what i love about you but you scare my family. i love you. i need you. since the incident everything got so messed up im sorry real sorry i just couldnt take it there was too many of your friends around. you know who scared me so bad you know she scares me. i know i do get scared easily and you dont at all but i love you i need you i miss you. i am going depresssed over you. you make your life seem easy theres so many thing you cant take in your life and i get one thing and i go crazy i love you to infinity. im not sure if you still love me or not atleast like a little i know i messed up big time. the black was for you. now its summer and i dono what to do ill miss you so much if we dont see eachother. i know i really messed up at the party i hate myself for it i will do anything you want just forgive me. i was trying to make you jelous with your enemie never worked i never knew you hated her that much i am so sorry for that. im so sorry what i did at the party. im so sorry for all ive ever done to you. i never ment to hurt you ive never ever seen you cry and i hated it. you know i dont think before i act you know that. i found your art in your locker forgive me you are so amazing and interesting and you never hold back on what you think and your hott and mysterious and unique and strong and i love your art no matter what it is and i can go on forever and I LOVE YOU! how can you forgive me? all i need is to know if you forgive me and if you hate me. i love you no matter what they say i love you! please how can i make it so you can forgive me? how do i make it up to you? i kicked my bro in the crotch for you but you can do it again if you forgive me. he says you have the right to hate him he just doesnt want you to hate me. i love you i miss you i need you!
i forgive you~i could never hate you you know that~i do love you still i told you i always will~well i told you before the incident~zig was supposed to tell you what happened~i never knew you felt alll that about me thanks someone cares about me more than i thought~read your email i guess i was writing all this to when you were writing to me lol~whyd you write it all over an open site i have 6 email addresses and 5 s/ns and you could have called~ill finish over email~i do really love you but just a thought pay attention~your very interesting unique and cute too and are you still my pengi? tell your bro he deserves what i did to him over and over again ha but hes off this time. i forgive him for what he did and i forgive you too. i love you to infinity are you still my freaky dork. i love you. your really what i live for im happy once again i love you!

Q: I was thinking about throwing my first boy/girl kinda party. I'm 14/f and I have a pool, so I wanted to have a kind of pool/summer party. I need advice about how to exactly organize the party so everyone will have fun and what to eat and drink. How long should it be? What are activites boys and girls both enjoy? Do I just invite the people, they come, and do their own thing? Help; I've never done this before and I need advice!!!
to invite people just email or shove invintations in lockers. most people usually come. have loud music and dont run out of music. get lotsa 2 liter bottles of soda and water bottles. get lotsa cake junk food chips and BBQ. waterguns and balloons. make it around 5 to 11 pm. get games. people do their own thing usually ends up kissing games or anything. people will find something to do as long as you have good music no slow junk. try rock evanescence or the used or anything like that. people will allhave fun unless theres parents and its all planned and has a scedule eww. youll always have the drama be ready. you could do airsoft or paintball too i love thoes partys playing shooting people and running through the woods and the pouring rain and the mudd thats my kinda party then go in to eat BBQ and play Xbox dare and crank up the music and get the guitars.

Q:
I'm just really scared right now. My dad has
just got finished with hitting me over and
over again and he took a plastic hanger and
just keep whacking me with it on my toes. And
that kills! I kept trying to run away but I
was too in shock to move out of his reach and
my sister doesn't think anything of it because
he does it a lot so she thinks that's what your
supposed to do. After watching my dad hit me,
my sister frequently elbows me or punches me in
the stomach if we play hide and seek and she loses.
My parents buy my sister everything and play games
with her and treat her well but they treat me
like I'm a piece of crap. They call me "a piece
of shit" and "a waste of space." And they threatened
to send me to a shrink and never let me see my
family again. My relatives gossip to everyone if
I tell them my dad hit me and they don't believe
me so I can't tell them. I will NEVER tell my
friends because even though I love them dearly,
I couldn't trust them with that. Also, I hate my
guidance counselor and I just can't tell him. After
my dad hit me I had my hand on the phone and I
was just about to dial 911 but I got scared and
stopped. I did it once before but my parents
denied everything. Once I was on vacation and
my parents were verbally abusing me and this
lady heard and called the police but my parents
denied everything. Sometimes I give my parents
a reason to hit me like if we are in a fight
but I don't know I'm really scared to come out
of my room right now. I need all the advice I
can get and if you believe I should call a number
and tell them what's going on who do I call?
I want a professional. But if they take me away
from the parents, where will I live? I really
don't want to live with strangers in an
orphanage! Would they put me at a friend's
or relatives house? I'm just really scared and
I don't really want to leave my parents. But they
can be abusive and I don't know how much longer
I can put up with it! Help!!!!!


Sorry this is soo long.
my friend was abused physically and with drugs. her mom went to jail for doing all that to her when she was 4-10. record it with a camera it could be faceing or not atleast get sound. dont hold back. have windows and doors open if a parent is coming at you scream as loud as you can and bring a cell and run dont stop running. or if you dont run out just keep screaming someone will hear i bet one of your neighbors think or know already. something about all the abuse. or runaway one calmer day and DO NOT STOP when you didnt fight yet so they wont suspect. the police will understand the runaway so just keep running till you get to somewhere you know. someones house or a resturant anywhere far. dont hold back go crazy you have a right. they could kill you if they ever do anything real bad. call 911 with proof since your parents deny you need proof. print this page like someone said and record you just downstairs and your parents doing something to you anything. call the police in your room or outside tell them your parents are abusive and they denied last time the police got called tell them you have proof and tell them you need someone to come down NOW. dont sound mean but its your life on the line. get the police involved. your parents should go to jail for abuse and lieing to the police last time. ask if you could stay with a friend not a orphanage or relative if you do not want to then dont. call 911 its your life on the line get proof first even if it means getting hurt again you neeeeeed proof then get the police involved. get proof and call now

Q: I'm in 8th grade and i really like this guy and he likes me too, we talk and flirt constantly but he just won't make a move. I would love to go out with him but he's kind of shy when it comes to the asking out part and i don't really want to ask him out so what do i do to give him some hints that i like him?
when your talking to him say so do you like anyone more than a friend and just tell him you do. OR. when your talking to a friend and hes right there say well i like __. look over just act nervous thats what my bestfriend did to me i took it fine. OR. tell a friend to tell him. my friends would anyway even if i didnt want them to but i told my bestfriend i liked him face to face.

Q: what are some signs of skin cancer?
dark blotches~raised moles that arent symetrical~harder dark areas~painful purple black dark areas~doctors have all to know about all cancers

Q: where can i purchase a roll of that police tape that says "police line-do not cross" or something like that? does anywhere sell it, or do you have to be in the police force?
all halloween stores~spencers~twilightinos~i love thoes stores

Q: hey so tomorrow i have the classes, when i see this guy in the hallway cause its the day i always see him.

eh i dont like him but i want him to notice me

and i want my eyes to stand out
im part asian...
theres my eye underneath haha
http://i5.tinypic.com/62zcfvd.jpg
yeah how can i make my eyelashes look longer? and prettier?

thanks!
to make your eyelashes longer use mascara. to stand out haha my specialty~i use red or black mascara with either blue red purple black or brown eyeliner and bronze or red or black and glitter eyeshadow. use either black mascara and black eyeliner and red eyeshadow ~OR~ red mascara black eyeliner and red eyeshadow ~OR~ black mascara purple eyeliner and black eyeshadow my eyes change color but there usually very light grey or dark grey or bluegreen

Q: Ugh I have this huge cut in ym mouth from my braces which is KILLING ME! I brushed my teeth clean and put the wax on. Oh while I brushed my teeth the brush hit off my cut so it hurt even more!

Is there anything else I can do to make it heal quicker?
use listerene its usually green

Q: people keep saying I am a rocker and I like that because I want to be rocker or emo BUT the problem is that I act like a preppy girl and I dress like that and this school year I keep think WHAT IS MY LABEL??????
does it matter. it just makes people hate everyone. but preps live more hate from others that arent preps i hate the preps at my school now loong story. no one hates emos they know how to have fun our way.

Q: 14/f
I don't know if I'm depressed or if it's just teenage hormones but...
Since 4th grade, I've been getting multiple suicide thoughts and in the past year and a half, I've been attempting to kill myself but backed down at the last moment. & I feel like a horrible person, friend, daughter, sister, and everything. I feel like no one cares about me and that no one would miss me if I'm gone. I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone and that everyone deserves someone much better than me. I've tried to drug, drown, strangle, and cut myself to death. And I always seem to stare out of my window wondering where I'd fall and if I would die. I've been cutting myself for over a year now and blah. I'm afraid to let anyone get close to me and I just pretend like everything is fine. But when I get home, I just want to kill myself and start crying.

What's wrong with me? This has been going on for 5 years now and it's not getting any better but getting worse and worse
make a friend try and find someone who understands you. im the same as you. what most people told me was that theres atleast one person in your life that will love you. i have never believed this but then i realized it. just dont lose your friends i was in the group of all the goths and we were all bffs then we got in a fight then got separated to different schools. they were the only ones that cared for me enough to even try to save me. there the only ones ever to keep me from my last suicide thought. my bff saved my life from being there and stopping me from bleeding to death instead of like the others he actually stayed all from cutting as deep as i could VERY deep. there is always someone worse than you my friend was worse than i thought anyone could get she was 15 and is dead. im getting over cutting by cutting up stuff not me it sounds bad but im getting over it go cut up leaves books anything but you or anyone else. and think if you kill yourself you have a good life you have food and atleast one person in your life you really know i didnt think i did but i do. your not diening of starvation. for a project we are penpals with people our age in VERY poor places. mine has her mom just died of disease the day before she wrote it and within that same month her sister of starvation. she hasnt eaten for 6 days and is still trying to live a happy life she says i sounded mad or deppressed about something then she told me her story. and where she lives a kid dies every 20 seconds. 12 kids died so far while i was writing this. and they loved their life. she said she lives like shell die tomarrow. but to answer your question someone has it worse than you and someone loves you i never thouth that at all life is hell make it worth it someone else could have had your life but you were ment to live it there is something you were ment to do. life gets to its breaking point before it gets better in deppresion. im still at the very edge of the breaking point. you sound like me and writeing this kept my mind off my life. i was crying and sreaming when i started this but now im calm. and cut stuff not you. taking away the sharp stuff didnt work at all probly made it worse for me. anything can kill you life is death soon. never give up. your in deppression me to this is what im doing so far and ive lived for almost a week with nobody. a record between my old friends when i had them. hormones only make it worse its not just hormones at all something happened in the star of this all you HAVE to find out what try everything you can and right a journal. ask me more questions if you ever wana. ill update you on how im living it out to. DO NOT GIVE UP. im right now i could die tomarrow. live life till your death of old age not suicide. so many more kids have died that loved their life 36 while i was writing this remember you are ment to do something to change the world. and find out what started this all. hope i helped at all.

Q: do you think it would be pretty or wierd? like if i get like one big layer. and the bottome layer like the hair underneath is a redhead color then the top is a dirty blonde?
thats what i want it looks so good

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randomgrl777
-i dont change for people -my only fear is being hated again -i am extremely hyper at times and adicted to coffee -i curse way to much -i have a bad temper -in love with taking pictures -has had a very emotional life -im NOT emo or gothic but thats what everyone wont stfu with -i think of guys as better friends -id be gone without my friends -my old friends have put me threw way to much -i used to be one of the popular people but now i cant stand them but still talk -i love guitars -my favorite music is taken away forever -ill answer any question honestly just dont hate me for bein brutally honest

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